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Astrodumpling
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posted February 03, 2026 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrodumpling     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi!

anyone good at synastry and composite readings? I need help knowing if we are a good fit or if I should forget about this. would really need some guidance right now

synastry: http://imgur.com/a/44kMuco

composite: http://imgur.com/a/AEZf5hp

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Randall
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posted February 03, 2026 04:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome! Remove the "s" after http for the links to work.

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Astrodumpling
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posted February 06, 2026 07:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrodumpling     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
no one?

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Belage2
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posted February 09, 2026 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrodumpling:
no one?

You might have better luck getting a reading if you post something that has the natal planets listed with their degrees and signs. The type of synastry outlays in your link does not get much feedback around here.
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Also, just to let you know, people are more inclined to help someone who has already participated in the forum and contributed somehow. The hit and run posters are not getting much help anymore.

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted February 10, 2026 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

One person is very watery, emotional and intense, and the other person is the opposite, freedom loving and rational.

Plus the red's Jupiter is square blue's Saturn. This doesn't seem like a warm or loving connection to me.

The combination of Libra + Pisces moon is quite dreamy though, but only if the Libra is the guy.

The composite chart seems nice, but in my experience a good composite is usually unable to save a bad synastry.

If I were you I'd forget it, or at the very least keep options open and take it easy with this one and not emotionally commit too soon.

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Astrodumpling
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posted February 10, 2026 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrodumpling     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Hi,

One person is very watery, emotional and intense, and the other person is the opposite, freedom loving and rational.

Plus the red's Jupiter is square blue's Saturn. This doesn't seem like a warm or loving connection to me.

The combination of Libra + Pisces moon is quite dreamy though, but only if the Libra is the guy.

The composite chart seems nice, but in my experience a good composite is usually unable to save a bad synastry.

If I were you I'd forget it, or at the very least keep options open and take it easy with this one and not emotionally commit too soon.


Hi!! thanks for replying.
There is no pisces moon! im an Aquarius moon 10 degree. and the Jupiter square Saturn is felt. we have very different values which scares me. but, our connection is incredibly warm and sweet !

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted February 10, 2026 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrodumpling:
Hi!! thanks for replying.
There is no pisces moon! im an Aquarius moon 10 degree. and the Jupiter square Saturn is felt. we have very different values which scares me. but, our connection is incredibly warm and sweet !



My mistake on the moon sign. If there's no Pisces + Libra here then I'm afraid there's not too many interesting stuff going on to comment on!

So if it is "incredibly warm and sweet" why are you asking for advice in an astrology forum whether you should forget about it in your own words? If a relationship is solid from the beginning rarely that thought crosses the minds of the people involved. Plus usually people seek psychic or astrology advice when things aren't great.

Additionally, red's Venus is trine blue's Saturn, and their Moon square blue's Mars. I'd be interested to find out how they view the connection. Because these aspects are classic for conflict and dampening of warmth and romance, especially felt on the Venus and Moon's part.

Red also has Venus square Saturn natally. And these people often settle down way later in life, past Saturn return and sometimes even close to 40 and beyond, and refuse to settle unless it's with a wealthy and/or older partner.

Best of luck to you.

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Astrodumpling
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posted February 10, 2026 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrodumpling     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
My mistake on the moon sign. If there's no Pisces + Libra here then I'm afraid there's not too many interesting stuff going on to comment on!

So if it is "incredibly warm and sweet" why are you asking for advice in an astrology forum whether you should forget about it in your own words? If a relationship is solid from the beginning rarely that thought crosses the minds of the people involved. Plus usually people seek psychic or astrology advice when things aren't great.

Additionally, red's Venus is trine blue's Saturn, and their Moon square blue's Mars. I'd be interested to find out how they view the connection. Because these aspects are classic for conflict and dampening of warmth and romance, especially felt on the Venus and Moon's part.

Red also has Venus square Saturn natally. And these people often settle down way later in life, past Saturn return and sometimes even close to 40 and beyond, and refuse to settle unless it's with a wealthy and/or older partner.

Best of luck to you.


People can feel deep love and uncertainty at the same time. we are long distance (13 hours by plane with 5 hour time difference atm). I wasn't questioning anything before the distance. "Plus usually people seek psychic or astrology advice when things aren't great." correct! this sucks! we are currently getting nerfed by distance. We have Venus-mars conjunction and the physical aspect of our relationship is indeed prominent so it's difficult, very.

what you said about venus square saturn in the chart is really funny! yeah I've seen this. right now its his saturn return.

Im not sure how pisces and libra relate.. but id love to learn!

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PlutoWasHere
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posted February 11, 2026 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The synastry chart is a bit difficult to read, but I can see a couple of very nice aspects. I see a double Moon and Jupiter connection, a conjunction in Aquarius and an opposition in Libra and Aries. Because one is a Sagittarius Rising (ruled by Jupiter) and the other Pisces Rising (traditionally ruled by Jupiter) that Jupiter connection is an important one. It's also very nice that both Moons are in air signs. It's an easy understanding when it comes to matters of the Moon, like how to rest and relax together.

There's also a classic attraction combination, a Venus and Mars conjunction in Capricorn. However, as mentioned by girlwiththerainysoul, the orange person has a natal Mars and Venus conjunction square Saturn. And Mars or
Venus square Saturn is not easy, even though there's attraction there can also be fear and obstacles. There can be delays but usually a Saturn return brings more activity. I have my Mars (ruler of 7th house) conjunct Saturn, I started the relationship with my future ex-husband on my Saturn return at 29.

In addition, the blue person has their Sagittarius Rising conjunct Cheiron and Pluto. This can make it difficult for the blue person to open up. The orange person could trigger insecurities with their Sun and Pluto conjunction hitting that Rising sign. There could be a feeling of being in competition with each other or fearing that the other might gain the upper hand somehow. It's a possible dynamic, but ofcourse there's always the disclaimer that everything depends on the maturity of the people involved.

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93nov
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posted February 11, 2026 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Girlwiththerainysoul,

You seem to be fixated on that Jupiter-Saturn square in synastry for some reason. This one pesky aspect isn't an automatic relationship killer.

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Astrodumpling
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posted February 11, 2026 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrodumpling     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
The synastry chart is a bit difficult to read, but I can see a couple of very nice aspects. I see a double Moon and Jupiter connection, a conjunction in Aquarius and an opposition in Libra and Aries. Because one is a Sagittarius Rising (ruled by Jupiter) and the other Pisces Rising (traditionally ruled by Jupiter) that Jupiter connection is an important one. It's also very nice that both Moons are in air signs. It's an easy understanding when it comes to matters of the Moon, like how to rest and relax together.

There's also a classic attraction combination, a Venus and Mars conjunction in Capricorn. However, as mentioned by girlwiththerainysoul, the orange person has a natal Mars and Venus conjunction square Saturn. And Mars or
Venus square Saturn is not easy, even though there's attraction there can also be fear and obstacles. There can be delays but usually a Saturn return brings more activity. I have my Mars (ruler of 7th house) conjunct Saturn, I started the relationship with my future ex-husband on my Saturn return at 29.

In addition, the blue person has their Sagittarius Rising conjunct Cheiron and Pluto. This can make it difficult for the blue person to open up. The orange person could trigger insecurities with their Sun and Pluto conjunction hitting that Rising sign. There could be a feeling of being in competition with each other or fearing that the other might gain the upper hand somehow. It's a possible dynamic, but ofcourse there's always the disclaimer that everything depends on the maturity of the people involved.


Hi! Thank you so much for taking your time i really appriciate it.
I don’t know how to explain, but i can feel his mars square Saturn energy.

He has told me a few time that i dont open up as much as him, but I’m trying.
A lot of insecurities came up to the surface when i was in his country and he got to see them clearly.
He tried to understand me and made it easier, and i remember feeling ”this connection is pushing me to heal myself”.
But it was quite uncomfortable of course.

The competition thing is funny that u say hahah i have felt this. We praise each other a lot though - classic sun conj asc.

Thanks again

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted February 19, 2026 08:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrodumpling:
People can feel deep love and uncertainty at the same time. we are long distance (13 hours by plane with 5 hour time difference atm). I wasn't questioning anything before the distance. "Plus usually people seek psychic or astrology advice when things aren't great." correct! this sucks! we are currently getting nerfed by distance. We have Venus-mars conjunction and the physical aspect of our relationship is indeed prominent so it's difficult, very.

what you said about venus square saturn in the chart is really funny! yeah I've seen this. right now its his saturn return.

Im not sure how pisces and libra relate.. but id love to learn!


A therapist might be better qualified to tell you this but it's already not a very good sign if you're the one traveling. Unless one person moves, in a long-distance everything is up in the air and a mere potential and not an actual relationship where the charts get fully activated. I think that's the first step before posting charts and asking if others think you and him will make it based on the charts. But if that's still your question, based on the charts I don't think so. Sorry.

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted February 19, 2026 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by 93nov:
Girlwiththerainysoul,

You seem to be fixated on that Jupiter-Saturn square in synastry for some reason. This one pesky aspect isn't an automatic relationship killer.


Not to hijack someone else's thread to talk about your case, but you seem to be going after the messenger. It's like someone hearing from the doctor eating trans fats is bad for their heart, and then get offended by it and accuse the doctor of running some agenda of being fixated on saying trans fats on a daily basis block the arteries and cause heart attack.

And if by "some reason" you mean the link I provided to you in your own thread citing intensive research, for you to check out so you can go do your own research, as well as a large couples DOB database I have access to through my friend who is a marriage counselor (redacting names and other personal info), proving to me this aspect is very rare in long-time couples, and present in fast divorces, then I'm afraid you're simply downplaying because you are still hoping that relationship takes off in your own words after decades.

Lastly, astrology like psychology is closer to science than it is to metaphysics, hence it being a lot more objective than subjective. I do like to be proven wrong, although after all the research I've done it seems unlikely. But please do update us when your Jupiter/Saturn relationship finally takes off!

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posted February 24, 2026 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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93nov
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posted February 26, 2026 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 93nov     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Not to hijack someone else's thread to talk about your case, but you seem to be going after the messenger. It's like someone hearing from the doctor eating trans fats is bad for their heart, and then get offended by it and accuse the doctor of running some agenda of being fixated on saying trans fats on a daily basis block the arteries and cause heart attack.

And if by "some reason" you mean the link I provided to you in your own thread citing intensive research, for you to check out so you can go do your own research, as well as a large couples DOB database I have access to through my friend who is a marriage counselor (redacting names and other personal info), proving to me this aspect is very rare in long-time couples, and present in fast divorces, then I'm afraid you're simply downplaying because you are still hoping that relationship takes off in your own words after decades.

Lastly, astrology like psychology is closer to science than it is to metaphysics, hence it being a lot more objective than subjective. I do like to be proven wrong, although after all the research I've done it seems unlikely. But please do update us when your Jupiter/Saturn relationship finally takes off!


Word salad and pointless projections. My original statement still stands lol. You seem to be fixated on this one particular aspect. & I assuming your research is very limited by default considering there are billions of people on the planet.

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