posted February 06, 2026 08:26 AM            

Person A (female): Pluto square Sun/Moon/Mercury and parallel ASC/Mars

Person B (male): Pluto trine Moon/Mars/Venus + Scorpio ASC

posted February 08, 2026 01:55 PM            

Or it could be a mix of both. Either way, based on the personal aspects you provided, I'd assume person A has the potential to become more bothered/influenced by person B than vice versa, because all the squares to Pluto point to someone in need of clarity, otherwise they might feel like they're being controlled.
Meanwhile person B especially with their Mars trine Pluto might eventually have the upper hand, and be the one unwilling to bend to person A's requests. This might annoy person A since they could soon find out they aren't able to control person B.

posted February 10, 2026 06:26 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Clarifying question: Is this a romantic synastry, or another dynamic such as boss/employee etc? The title of your thread makes it seem like it's in the context of a workplace.

Or it could be a mix of both. Either way, based on the personal aspects you provided, I'd assume person A has the potential to become more bothered/influenced by person B than vice versa, because all the squares to Pluto point to someone in need of clarity, otherwise they might feel like they're being controlled.
Meanwhile person B especially with their Mars trine Pluto might eventually have the upper hand, and be the one unwilling to bend to person A's requests. This might annoy person A since they could soon find out they aren't able to control person B.

Person B with Scorpio ascendant is also able to be naturally secretive and ambiguous which could bring about further feelings of annoyance, or even infatuation or emotional dependency (if person A tends to have a weak personality) to person A.

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posted February 10, 2026 08:11 AM            

Again I'm not sure what you're asking when referring to it as "the battle of Pluto".

posted February 10, 2026 08:32 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Thanks for clarifying. Unless he asks you out or expresses interest directly, I wouldn't read too much into it.

Again I'm not sure what you're asking when referring to it as "the battle of Pluto".

If you're wondering if this connection could go romantic, five years of elusiveness doesn't seem warm or friendly to me. He could be prying for many reasons. Sometimes competitiveness or a need to elevate ourselves or even jealousy could lead us to become curious about someone. And sadly a lot of people don't have the courage to leave an existing relationship or marriage and like fantasizing about others or keeping potential side pieces. It's merely a self-destructive cycle and refusal to grow.

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posted February 10, 2026 10:47 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
What I mean is that I know we try to "out-Pluto" eachother. I am very familiar, and comfortable, with the energies having a lot of Pluto in me and also growing up with a Scorpio Sun/Moon/Mercury/ASC mother-all square Leo Pluto. I know what Pluto does and what he wants. I am a little curious as to why this man is in my life now because I have stayed away from Plutonian people for many, many years. 10/10 I will pick one out and one day he was just "there".

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I don't get it, so if you're not friends with him, seems like you're asking why you're attracted to him, by asking "why he's in your life", because we can't all choose who our workplace chooses to hire.

If that's the case, I don't know, maybe because he might be good looking or rich or both?