posted July 13, 2026 12:41 PM            

I wanted to have anyones feedback on this synastry chart? It is of me (30/31) and the guy (32) I am interested in. We matched on hinge back in 2019 a few times but things never materialised then. Then our friendship circles started merging and I ended up meeting him the following year at the end of 2020 (I was in a relationship then - that relationship ended the following year).

We are both apart of the same creative circle in our city. We have a good friendship but dont hangout one on one. Everytime I engage with him we will have hour long DnM's about our lives, mental health struggles, authenticity, creativity etc. It feels intense in a safe way, I do feel a spark with him. I feel close to him but have noticed more of this feeling going into the non platonic/romantic sphere when he became single.

Nothing has happened between us yet. I recently asked him out and he softly rejected me as he experienced a significant grief event last year and is prioritising his mental health which I completely understand. Since then he has been slightly more flirtacious with me with touch (but only slightly nothing major).

I am wondering with time if he will return my affections, I understand if thats not possible and happy with a friendship. And then if thats the case if we can build something stable.

I did notice my Neptune (Capricorn) may be squaring his venus (Libra) so I am worried about possible deception? I have experienced being deceived before but I have never been the deceiver as loyalty is very important to me. I have been single for half a decade healing from that last partnership.

I have early degree Leo Sun/Mercury and Venus. Pluto was opposing my Leo Venus between February 2023 and January 2026 but it has thankfully passed - and during that transit I felt I had run out of luck when it comes to matters of the heart and kept experencing rejections so I became disengaged and disinterested in dating. I have a 12th house Saturn and I enjoy isolation (I am comfortable of the idea of being single for the rest of my life). But this new love interest has really surprised me and reawakened a part of me that I thought had died.

I am also worried about his Sun/mercury (Scorpio) may be squaring my Leo Sun/Mercury/Venus. It makes me curious as I feel like we communicate very well with eachother, it feels like we can psychically communicate at times?

I am also worried about Saturn being in the first house of our composite.

I have pasted our synastry (Im the inner circle) and composite: https://imgur.com/a/hwzrqMh

posted July 13, 2026 01:46 PM            

Here are the orbs of our synastry:

Sun in Leo Square Sun in Scorpio (Orb: 3°15’)
Moon in Virgo Sextile Sun in Scorpio (Orb: 0°13’)
Moon in Virgo Square Moon in Gemini (Orb: 3°46’)
Mercury in Leo Square Sun in Scorpio (Orb: 0°32’)
Mercury in Leo Sextile Moon in Gemini (Orb: 4°05’)
Venus in Leo Trine Mars in Scorpio (Orb: 5°42’)
Venus in Leo Square Jupiter in Libra (Orb: 2°36’)
Mars in Libra Square Ascendant in Cancer (Orb: 3°28’)
Saturn in Pisces Trine Mars in Scorpio (Orb: 0°57’)
Saturn in Pisces Trine Pluto in Scorpio (Orb: 0°32’)
Uranus in Capricorn Sextile Mars in Scorpio (Orb: 2°54’)
Uranus in Capricorn Square Jupiter in Libra (Orb: 0°11’)
Uranus in Capricorn Sextile Pluto in Scorpio (Orb: 3°19’)
Uranus in Capricorn Square MC in Aries (Orb: 4°36’)
Neptune in Capricorn Square Venus in Libra (Orb: 1°59’)
Neptune in Capricorn Sextile Mars in Scorpio (Orb: 1°25’)
Neptune in Capricorn Square Jupiter in Libra (Orb: 4°31’)
Neptune in Capricorn Conjunction Uranus in Capricorn (Orb: 5°01’)
Neptune in Capricorn Conjunction Neptune in Capricorn (Orb: 5°07’)
Neptune in Capricorn Sextile Pluto in Scorpio (Orb: 1°00’)
MC in Capricorn Square Jupiter in Libra (Orb: 1°25’)
Neptune in Capricorn Square MC in Aries (Orb: 0°16’)
Pluto in Scorpio Conjunction Mars in Scorpio (Orb: 2°36’)
Pluto in Scorpio Square Saturn in Aquarius (Orb: 4°10’)
Ascendant in Aries Opposition Venus in Libra (Orb: 4°20’)
Ascendant in Aries Opposition Jupiter in Libra (Orb: 2°10’)
Pluto in Scorpio Conjunction Pluto in Scorpio (Orb: 3°01’)
Ascendant in Aries Sextile Saturn in Aquarius (Orb: 2°29’)
Ascendant in Aries Conjunction MC in Aries (Orb: 2°37’)

posted July 13, 2026 01:50 PM            

Partner A (me)

Sun: Leo 6°52′
Moon: Virgo 9°54′
Mercury: Leo 9°35′
Venus: Leo 0°56′
Mars: Libra 5°26′
Jupiter: Sagittarius 5°32′
Saturn: Pisces 24°16′
Uranus: Capricorn 28°08′
Neptune: Capricorn 23°48′
Pluto: Scorpio 27°50′
North Node (True): Scorpio 0°06′
Lilith (True): Cancer 4°36′
Chiron: Virgo 24°35′
Part of Fortune: Pisces 23°06′
Vertex: Sagittarius 4°52′

Partner B (him)

posted July 13, 2026 03:14 PM            

So you're very much attracted to that person because he has 4 planets in your 7th and 8th house. That makes you see him as a potential ideal partner.

However, the love connections in terms of aspects involving personal planets are not very strong. Lots of squares, a couple of sextile, but nothing really compelling. He does nothing for your Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars. His jupiter falls in your 7th house but does not aspect any of your planets! Your Saturn does trine his Mars and Pluto, but would that be a relationship building factor?? Not sure.

His Chiron is conjunct your Moon, creating an intense dynamic involving pain and healing. I can see why you guys may connect and the prospect of something transformative dangles in the air.