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peacefulclouds
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posted February 04, 2014 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm staying at someone's place at the moment, since I just got my wallet stolen, I can't actually move until I get a new card sent in.

I found out the person i am staying with is very depressed due to things that happened to him. We talked and I try to be at least understanding and give him his space, and he said he is okay w/ me staying longer due to my situation but I wonder if he is actually okay with the companionship or secretly want me out?

My interpretation is the answer is No- he doesn't appreciate my company because my significator is Mars, and his is Venus (either 11th or 7th house, unsure which one should be used) We do not aspect whatsoever.

None of my co-significators aspects his as well as far as I can tell.

Venus is also peregrine, which explains his situation a bit...

As far as I know Pluto does not count... despite its conjunction w/ venus (Pluto is not ruler of Mars in horary, right?)

So far I see a definite no, but does anyone else have any thoughts? Sucks because I really cannot move due to $ problems until I get my card.

Is there any meaning on mars (my significator) on 11th house (friendship) ?

Thank you.

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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted February 04, 2014 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As far as I know, Mars in the 11th house signifies a person that likes to be independent. With this in opposition to his Moon, it could mean that he likes to handle his problems by himself and he thinks he can do it. Or it could mean that he is one of those people who try to project a tough image when deep inside, they're not as tough as they look. I think he might not like it when you try to help him with his problems. He could be fine staying with you, but he might prefer it more if you leave him to solve his own problems.

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Tofu addict
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posted February 05, 2014 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tofu addict     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The main rulers, Venus and Mars are in Mutual Reception, Ruler-Excaltation, so that is always a nice point.

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peacefulclouds
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posted February 05, 2014 01:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for peacefulclouds     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Solar leo, thank you for your help.
Mars is my significator while he is the Venus (going by my ascendant and the 7th/11th house) so would that description describe me more than him?
Or I have to automatically choose venus as me (female) and mars as him (male)?

Hey there Tofu, what do you mean mutual reception?
Also, isnt mars in Detriment (libra) though I know Libra ruled by Venus? And I don't see exaltation on venus part... unless you mean if this is a day chart (i thought this is a night chart?)
Could you explain a bit about Ruler-Exaltation / mutual reception?

Thank you

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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted February 05, 2014 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by peacefulclouds:
Hi Solar leo, thank you for your help.
Mars is my significator while he is the Venus (going by my ascendant and the 7th/11th house) so would that description describe me more than him?
Or I have to automatically choose venus as me (female) and mars as him (male)?

Hey there Tofu, what do you mean mutual reception?
Also, isnt mars in Detriment (libra) though I know Libra ruled by Venus? And I don't see exaltation on venus part... unless you mean if this is a day chart (i thought this is a night chart?)
Could you explain a bit about Ruler-Exaltation / mutual reception?

Thank you


From what you've stated above, I think you're the Venus person in the third house and you want to communicate with him. But he is Mars in the eleventh house and this makes him someone who is not willing to listen to their friends.

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Moon in Cancer
Mercury in Virgo
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Libra

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filleaspirant
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posted February 10, 2014 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say that the lack of aspect means a no, BUT you being received by rulership and term indicates he likes and is fond of you. Has he shown any attraction towards you? You being in his 5th would indicate he sees you as a potential love interest.

To be honest, what I'm seeing here is someone who's reserved and likes to keep his things close to chest, and you being in his space unbalances that. It's not that he doesn't like or wants you around, it's that he wouldn't appreciate anyone being in his space like you are. It doesn't seem to be personal (against you), but more of a personal issue of his.

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Randall
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posted May 30, 2014 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Horary And Event Astrology.

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LoadedPistil
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posted May 30, 2014 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You weren't putting out. That was the problem.

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