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Topic: Will I be able to keep my privacy / avoid him?
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 8194 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 21, 2014 08:08 PM
I just discovered someone who affected me in a big way in my life, someone I consider an enemy forever, will be working less than 0.15 miles away from me. We briefly reconnected before a year ago, but I could not trust him ever again, nor our mutual friend and now him and my former friends are buddies. I'm so afraid that somehow we will have a direct interaction so I asked if I would be able to keep my privacy, would I be able to avoid him? Basically I'm wondering if I will be left alone in peace or will something happen that has us crossing paths? I hope to god not. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 8194 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 21, 2014 11:25 PM
Mercury and Neptune aren't aspecting - does this mean no? I take that Moon opp. Neptune perhaps means I'm crazy about the whole thing and not seeing it right? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 8194 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 21, 2014 11:26 PM
Unless it's old fashioned and we use Jupiter for Neptune too - in which case it's making a quintile aspect, so still no.IP: Logged |
tgem Knowflake Posts: 2072 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 22, 2014 08:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Unless it's old fashioned and we use Jupiter for Neptune too - in which case it's making a quintile aspect, so still no.
Ok, JUST throwing this out there. I actually would have read the chart differently. First, with horaries, you always use the traditional rulers for the sigs so you would actually be Jupiter. Yes, he would still be mercury. Now, there is no aspect between jup and merc but you want to look at the houses of communication so see if there will be any contact. the ruler of his 3rd is mars. Your co-sig is the moon and the moon makes an applying square to mars. This shows there will be some kind of strained contact in the future. Also, the ruler of your 3rd is venus which is conjunct the sun (his co-sig.). Again, it's also applying signifying that there will be some contact. Looking specifically at the moon we see it trines Pluto showing you're a bit obsessed with this issue and the opposition to neptune shows that you might be deluded about something...like you don't know all the facts about the situation. Also, Uranus is in your 1st and making an applying trine to mars and your jupiter. This means something unexpected is going to happen in regards to communication between you. Looking to the last aspect the moon makes before it leaves it's sign we see that it is going to conjunct the sun (his co-sig) so again I think this confirms that you two will be in contact again or at least cross paths. That's only my interpretation, of course. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 8194 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 22, 2014 10:15 AM
I believe deluded or that I don't know, but not obsessed because I haven't thought of him in a long time. I looked at his Facebook at random. As soon as I saw it I panicked. He was an energetic vampire. But I also realized I don't know his hours and perhaps we will never run into each other, nor will he have a reason to be at my work at all. However, since he does know the girl I'm not friends with anymore and they are best friends, it's highly possible she mentioned this is where I work in passing. It's a lot of imagination (Neptune) but since I know them it doesn't seem like a far stretch.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 1588 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 22, 2014 03:27 PM
Hanna, Pluto can also mean anxiety, or deep worry. I understand you want to avoid unpleasantness, but think of it this way, it could be an opportunity for you to overcome this hold that he has on you. I am not saying be bffs starting tomorrow, but perhaps you will be able to release some or maybe all of the negative emotions he has caused you. I agree with tgem's interpretation, I will only add that I DO use quintiles (will reply in the other thread about that). ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 8194 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 22, 2014 05:18 PM
Can you believe even after six or seven years he still does? I don't think of him often but I did become close with our mutual friend again for a year, and heard of him through that way. Had my own experiences and my own life but it almost feels like knowing your abusive ex-husband is getting out of jail soon, it's crazy. Re: Quintiles - cool! I respect yours and Tgem's opinion on horary but the Moon was def not VOC or via combusta. The Quintile was making a 1 deg. applying aspect between Mercury and Jupiter (I was Jupiter). I'd asked if I was supposed to get married to someone specific in my life and gotten that. When I asked I knew the marriage wouldn't happen within 6 months or anything soon and had a long-term far future time set in my mind. Maybe that's why the aspect was minor but applying? IP: Logged |
tgem Knowflake Posts: 2072 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 22, 2014 05:32 PM
Interesting DM that you use minor aspects like the quintile. I haven't heard of them being used UNLESS you're trying to figure out timing (like the moon making a minor aspect to the sig in question still counts.)Have you found the question comes to fruition (a "yes") when there has been an applying minor aspect between the sigs? IP: Logged |