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Topic: Is he dating someone?
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HappyLoewe
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posted October 13, 2014 10:52 AM
  
This situation is driving me nuts. I know that sounds dramatic but I just cannot get a straight answer out of this guy.He hooked up with a girl recently and now she's hinting to everyone that they are dating whilst he is saying the opposite and that it was a few hook-ups here and there and nothing special and that she is making it out to be more than it is. She clearly likes him and I think he does like her but they have been friends for a while now. However, I feel that there is something odd going on here but I can't put my finger on it. I actually think they might be dating but for some reason he is keeping it all very quiet. (Not anyone else's business perhaps? Not ready to tell the world yet?) She is putting her stamp all over his instagram (posting comments and using emojis that blow kisses, etc.) which says to me that she definitely feels/believes there is something going on between them. If he is taken/dating someone, will the relationship last? And why the secrecy (if that can be told from a chart????) My role is that I like this guy but we are not friends. I hope that makes sense. Thanks HL
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tgem
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posted October 13, 2014 01:54 PM
You are Saturn, he is mercury (ruler of your 5th) co-sig the sun. Another woman would be mars (ruler of his 5th.) There is no aspect between mercury and mars but there is an applying sextile the sun and mars. This tells me there is some kind of relationship going on between them. She is in his 7th house indicating, yeah there's something between them but she is also in his detriment so he's definitely not in love with her or anything..I see this as him enjoying her company. However he is in her triplicity so I think she puts him on a pedestal and is making it seem like the relationship is more than it is. Looking to the 4th house from his 5th as to the "end of the matter" we see it is ruled by Saturn which sits in his 5th...this indicates yes, he is seeing/dating her. Last aspect moon makes is an applying trine to mercury verifying he is seeing her but I think it's more of a casual dating thing...I don't think he is serious about her..hence his responses about casual hook-ups. IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted October 13, 2014 01:58 PM
Thanks tgem for taking a look at this.It's a strange thing because that is how I see it. She is all "loved up" and he is more like, well, I can come and go as I please. He is now following a random girl on insta but not following her and this is the type of thing he does. Sadly I think she will get hurt in this situation. She puts him on a pedestal as he is considered a catch (good family, family wealth, good looks, etc.) and her background is sorta opposite. Is the secrecy about it all due to the fact that he sees it as more casual? Also, do you think this is likely to go on for a while or will he move on at some point? IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted October 13, 2014 02:12 PM
I think the secrecy is about him thinking it's no one else's business. In all honesty, I do have to say though that he is getting ready to move into her rulership which makes me suspect be just may fall for her. She will continue to receive him by term and face for a while as well so I think this relationship will mature and go on for a little while...can't tell you exactly how long though. Just want to add that interestingly enough you (Saturn) are actually in his 5th house of romantic interests and he is receiving you by term and face so I think he has a bit of a crush on you too and that could also be why he is downplaying it.. Hope that helps  IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted October 13, 2014 03:08 PM
Thanks tgem. I envy you your skills, I really do. I am gonna steer clear because I've heard through the grapevine that he has other interests on the go too (he is actually a friend of my brother). He plays mind games and I am not into that. I will just be polite in his company. Clearly we are not meant for each other and I accept this now. I feel for this girl as they live quite a distance apart and he can do what he wants, whenever he wants and she is not likely to know about it. I will see what occurs between them and update this thread at some point. Thank you for making it all so clear.
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tgem
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posted October 13, 2014 03:22 PM
You're welcome. Yes, please do IP: Logged |
kaianna
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posted October 13, 2014 03:58 PM
Just asked this question about someone, got aquarius asc, from what know their relationship is long distance n he doesn't seem to talk about her much, they seem weird to me so I guess the chart is correctIP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted November 02, 2014 01:41 AM
Update:He has now cooled it off and friendzoned her. Interestingly he didn't really want anyone to know that they were seeing each other as he just wanted to hook up with her privately. They continue to be friends but he is distant with her apparently. He recently went on a weekend break with some of his mates and hooked up with a random there. I don't know if she knows but he is definitely still playing the field. Personally, I think he will continue to hook up with her but not let anyone know. I don't believe she will be able to keep it under wraps for too long as she is a relentless self publicist and he will continue to play the field. IP: Logged |
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