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Topic: Is he having second thoughts?
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HappyLoewe
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 20, 2014 05:04 AM
  
This is a question being asked by my friend and doesn't include me at all.She has been dating this guy but suddenly he has gone a bit weird on her. For e.g. the communication between them has become stretched and they haven't seen each other all weekend. She gets the feeling that he is having second thoughts about the whole dating thing or that there is someone else involved. Any help greatly appreciated. Thanks HL 
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 20, 2014 09:48 AM
Well, Saturn is in the 1st house and not one of the significators, so take what I am about to say with a grain of salt, because it is likely that the chart is more indicative of how she is feeling about the situation, rather than the situation in itself..He is in her detriment, which means something does not sit very well with him regarding her, he is disappointed or displeased about something. He is also in her 12th, which makes sense if you say she hasn't seen him in a few days and that it worried her. It is also his derivative 6th house so he could be more focused on his job right now. He is also combust, "blinded" by something or unable to see a situation straight at the moment. He is applying to conjunct someone else, Sun.. Sun does not rule any houses, so it makes it very hard for me to say who Sun is.. if it's a person or an event. Leo is intercepted in the 3rd house, so it could be someone in his immediate environment, a sibling, cousin, neighbor etc. He doesn't care about Sun, but Sun does adore him. Moon's last aspect is a square to her.. and that might indicate an argument or a fight, even a break-up. Do keep in mind that this could just be her thoughts/feelings and impressions on the matter. Charts with Saturn in the 1st are avoided to be judged for a reason. Good luck! ------------------
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HappyLoewe
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posted October 20, 2014 10:51 AM
Thanks DM for doing this.It's all become very strange over the last few days and it's like they have stopped talking completely ! He disappeared for the weekend to goodness knows where and that is not what dating is about. It's like he is stonewalling her for some reason. We both think that they're might be another person involved (perhaps this is the Sun you mention) because the change in his behaviour is very sudden. I note what you say with Saturn in the first house and she is really anxious, understandably, about the whole thing. Sometimes people just need a bit of space & time to realise what they do or don't have. I will update this thread at some point. Thanks HL IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted November 02, 2014 01:49 AM
UPDATE:They have now split. He was feeling hemmed in by the relationship and backed out of it. He does still like her but wants some time on his own but hasn't called it a break but a split. I know my friend wants him back but I suppose time will tell on this one. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 44
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted November 02, 2014 07:00 AM
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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
UPDATE:They have now split. He was feeling hemmed in by the relationship and backed out of it. He does still like her but wants some time on his own but hasn't called it a break but a split. I know my friend wants him back but I suppose time will tell on this one.
Gosh, the DM precision is/was a little bit scary. ------------------
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