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Topic: Is he in love with her?
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HappyLoewe
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posted November 11, 2014 12:25 PM
  
We have strong doubts about this relationship. My friend (male) is "dating" this girl who is new on the scene and the click hasn't really taken to her at all. We suspect her motives about being involved with him. This is not coming from a mean place but more from worry about him. There have been some very strong rumours circulating about her that she is also involved with someone else, which of course, she strongly denies. He is well set in life and generally does his own thing. However, he blows hot and cold on the relationship all the time.Her background is that she is divorced with young children and he is marriage/child free. The question I am asking is whether he is in love with her or is he just really enjoying her company at the moment as it suits him? Will it grow and become permanent? Is there someone else on the scene in relation to her? So many questions !!! Thanks HL 
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tgem
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posted November 12, 2014 08:44 AM
No he's not in love with her. She isn't in love with him either. When they met she was in his exaltation so she probably thought she hit the jackpot with him. She is also in her 2nd house of finances and possessions, so she has moving ahead financially on her mind. They are currently not receiving eachother so there are no strong feelings between them. Her and him sit in his 8th house Scorpio so it looks like it's basically a sexual relationship. She is also conjunct Venus which rules her 2nd house of possessions. She wants to get ahead financially. There may have been someone else but she is not currently with them (this may just be her ex as he sits in her 4th house of endings.). She'll eventually separate and move away from your male friend as far as the feelings/relationship go. But ultimately it will be up to him decide the outcome. But to me it doesn't look like it will go past a sexual relationship.IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted November 12, 2014 03:42 PM
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Originally posted by tgem:
No he's not in love with her. She isn't in love with him either. When they met she was in his exaltation so she probably thought she hit the jackpot with him. She is also in her 2nd house of finances and possessions, so she has moving ahead financially on her mind. They are currently not receiving eachother so there are no strong feelings between them. Her and him sit in his 8th house Scorpio so it looks like it's basically a sexual relationship. She is also conjunct Venus which rules her 2nd house of possessions. She wants to get ahead financially. There may have been someone else but she is not currently with them (this may just be her ex as he sits in her 4th house of endings.). She'll eventually separate and move away from your male friend as far as the feelings/relationship go. But ultimately it will be up to him decide the outcome. But to me it doesn't look like it will go past a sexual relationship.
Hi tgem, thanks for answering this question as none of us can quite figure this situation out. Obviously we can't interfere as they are both adults and it's their respective choices. We were not sure whether he was in love with her but thank you for confirming what he actually feels. He does blow hot and cold on this all the time and deep down I think he is just having some fun. She has been going through a tough time emotionally due to her divorce and she appears to be quite smitten with him but then again he is considered a good catch. I also believe all of this helps her send a message to her ex that she has moved on and somebody wants her. A lot of what she does makes it appear that the relationship is bigger and deeper than it actually is. I can understand that she wants to get ahead financially and I don't blame her for that as she does have a young family to consider. With regards to timing, when do you think it likely that she will separate with regards to feelings/the relationship? I would agree that the ball is in his court with regards to how this situation goes.
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tgem
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posted November 12, 2014 04:30 PM
She and him are both in a fixed sign and cadent house so the time is unknown right now..IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe
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posted November 14, 2014 05:50 AM
Thanks tgem. I really appreciate you taking the time to look at everything. I hope all is well with you.UPDATE: Yesterday there was a massive Instagram meltdown between these two due to some of her postings and he was not happy at all. The ground is a little bit shaky between them whilst his temper is alight but time will tell if this is the end of everything or just another twist in the story. So it seems you were right about the love & feelings bit, and his power to dictate where this goes. I forget to add that the row was to do with money! IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted November 14, 2014 07:20 AM
Interesting...thanks for the update. Keep me posted what happens.IP: Logged |
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