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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 13, 2014 05:45 PM I don't know whether to use the 7th or 11th house. This person isn't someone I like very much at the moment but he's not a crush? I figure it's 7th. I'm in his 7th, does that mean I'm supposed to be "into" him? I'm not! He ****** me off and I feel like he has a reason for contacting me but can't figure out what that is with thinking and analyzing alone. Wondered if this would help... IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 13, 2014 06:47 PM I know my Sig in his house means I'm more keen, but in this instance I think it means I'm more BOTHERED. He is in his 3rd house, which means ...? I don't know if that means he wants information from me (since that's my question - what does he want from me.) he wants to talk, etc. IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted November 14, 2014 07:40 AM Hi Yeah I think I would use the 7th as well. Your venus in his 1st but in detriment. So he has you on his mind. So I have to ask, is this an Ex or yours? Do you guys have a significant history? The reason I ask is that he is Mars, yes in his 3rd of communication and exalted in Cap. You are receiving him by ruleship...are you maybe subconsciously in love with him? He is receiving you strongly by triplicity and you being in his 1st. I sense strong feelings between you two according to this chart... IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted November 14, 2014 10:03 AM Hey quick question... Could you pull a few cards for me? I'm going out with old friends tonight who know both me and my ex. I was wondering if I should finally break my silence and tell them about how I've been treated during my divorce? I wouldn't tell them so much for talking bad about him as much as it would just be to state facts as my ex has kept his mouth shut as well about everything that has gone down. Thx IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 14, 2014 10:51 AM quote: Originally posted by tgem: Hi Yeah I think I would use the 7th as well. Your venus in his 1st but in detriment. So he has you on his mind. So I have to ask, is this an Ex or yours? Do you guys have a significant history? The reason I ask is that he is Mars, yes in his 3rd of communication and exalted in Cap. You are receiving him by ruleship...are you maybe subconsciously in love with him? He is receiving you strongly by triplicity and you being in his 1st. I sense strong feelings between you two according to this chart... It would have to be subconscious because he drives me CRAZY now, and not in a good way. I suppose you could call him an ex...we didn't really date but we had a complicated bond when we met in April, and I think we did like each other then (April to June, when I cut him off!) He recently reached out to me wanting to be friends again but he's displaying the SAME behavior (like replying to me - which I wondered if that mattered since he IS in his 3rd house afterall?- a week later to my texts, when it's convenient for him, or at least that's what it feels like.) IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 14, 2014 10:53 AM quote: Originally posted by tgem: Hey quick question... Could you pull a few cards for me? I'm going out with old friends tonight who know both me and my ex. I was wondering if I should finally break my silence and tell them about how I've been treated during my divorce? I wouldn't tell them so much for talking bad about him as much as it would just be to state facts as my ex has kept his mouth shut as well about everything that has gone down. Thx Sure will in a few! Thanks for answering my endless horaries Tgem! You have the patience of a saint. IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted November 14, 2014 11:01 AM Ahhhhh yes, he drives you CRAZY huh? That's some pretty strong feelings there regardless Although I do agree, him not responding to your text for a week after HE initiated wanting to be friends is BS! He's got good feelings toward you (according to the chart) so if it were me, I'd call him on it...if he does it again, I'd write him off as playing games with you. Thank YOU for pulling cards for me when I need it..it really helps IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 14, 2014 11:12 AM quote: Originally posted by tgem: Hey quick question... Could you pull a few cards for me? I'm going out with old friends tonight who know both me and my ex. I was wondering if I should finally break my silence and tell them about how I've been treated during my divorce? I wouldn't tell them so much for talking bad about him as much as it would just be to state facts as my ex has kept his mouth shut as well about everything that has gone down. Thx Okay, Whip + House + Lily + Child + Cross --Mice-- -Stars- Tree --- Woman Anchor---Fish---Bear I think they already know how argumentative J has been or can be, and they've felt bad and figured it's been really hard for you (Lily + Child + Cross. I was thinking that's because you have a kid, but maybe it also represents J's immaturity being a burden?) However I think they'd be afraid they're getting put in the middle and would rather observe (Mice is their fear and Stars is perhaps a more distant group of people? Or perhaps Stars represents their amazement ) The last line, Anchor Fish Bear I would think mean they'd rally around you to keep you grounded, protect you, etc. Fish is the quantity of people and Bear and Anchor are both very solid cards which would tell me they will be true friends to you. I don't see anything indicating they'll be surprised by what you tell them though (ugh then again maybe THAT'S Stars?) But the outcome looks good. IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 14, 2014 11:14 AM quote: Originally posted by tgem: Ahhhhh yes, he drives you CRAZY huh? That's some pretty strong feelings there regardless Although I do agree, him not responding to your text for a week after HE initiated wanting to be friends is BS! He's got good feelings toward you (according to the chart) so if it were me, I'd call him on it...if he does it again, I'd write him off as playing games with you. Thank YOU for pulling cards for me when I need it..it really helps Lol, sigh... he does. He just makes me mad all the time with that crap and the whole texting thing is why I finally got annoyed and dumped him in the first place so now it's like... what, you just wanted to see if you could get away with it? Are you able to predict what will happen from the chart if I DON'T kick him to the curb again? IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted November 14, 2014 11:22 AM Wow..ok so that's interesting that the cards say they might already know bits about his true nature. Either way, I really like the fate line cards coming out pointing to true friends to me as I have had to be EXTREMELY careful and private over the last year to prevent gossip (HA...that reminds me of my GT we all analyzed!) Thank you, this makes me feel a lot better IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 14, 2014 11:25 AM quote: Originally posted by tgem: Wow..ok so that's interesting that the cards say they might already know bits about his true nature. Either way, I really like the fate line cards coming out pointing to true friends to me as I have had to be EXTREMELY careful and private over the last year to prevent gossip (HA...that reminds me of my GT we all analyzed!) Thank you, this makes me feel a lot better You're welcome Tgem! Do you think he'll tell me his feelings based on this chart (the aspects things will make in the future?) or should I ask another horary for that? IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted November 14, 2014 11:41 AM quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Lol, sigh... he does. He just makes me mad all the time with that crap and the whole texting thing is why I finally got annoyed and dumped him in the first place so now it's like... what, you just wanted to see if you could get away with it? Are you able to predict what will happen from the chart if I DON'T kick him to the curb again? Well moon is making an applying trine to Uranus in your 12th so I see this relationship changing direction (with the trine I see it for the better.). Now moon moves on to square the sun. So sun is his co-sig..you will make an applying square to him showing something happens between you two....ahem, sun also rules your 5th house of romance but the square can indicate issues/complications. Then moon moves on to conjunct Jupiter which rules your 8th and 12. So you two either get it on or you two end any type of communication. Now moon is peregrine in Leo and the last aspect moon makes before leaving its sign is an applying square to venus (you) but venus is conjunct Saturn (a malific) and venus is in detriment. Venus is also making an applying square to Neptune....you will have the ultimate say in where this goes but the venus square Neptune can show deception....this could be game-playing or simply that true feelings haven't been revealed to eachother. IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 14, 2014 11:48 AM How long should I wait before asking another horary? I'm willing to keep this going just to see if it matches with this horary now - lol, no game playing at all! I could see him playing games. He did before and then accused ME of doing it. IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted November 14, 2014 11:52 AM Hmmm, I'd say wait until you two have contact again...see what happens, then cast another chart. I think that next interaction between you will shape that next horary chart. IP: Logged
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1535 From: Registered: Sep 2013	posted November 15, 2014 01:28 AM What if we use the 11th? That would put Uranus in the 12th meaning that what he wants from you is hidden or unknown? Either he doesn't really know what he wants from you or he's hiding it well. IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 15, 2014 03:12 AM quote: Originally posted by LucieLemonade: What if we use the 11th? That would put Uranus in the 12th meaning that what he wants from you is hidden or unknown? Either he doesn't really know what he wants from you or he's hiding it well. I wondered that as well but didn't want to be a nag on my thread! But what's hidden must always come to light, right? But, when we were closer I think he liked me but wasn't going to put himself too out there. He's basically like a little kid, so idk. I just feel a mental block when it comes to analyzing him. Not when talking to him but just thinking of the situation feels like hitting a brick wall. IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 15, 2014 03:14 AM Oh, but if we use the 11th we'd still use Saturn because horary goes by tradition. So he'd be in his own house, where his co-sig and my sig are. IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 15, 2014 08:01 PM Bump? IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted November 16, 2014 08:33 AM Was your relationship strictly "friendship" with him or did it go beyond that? The thing was horary accuracy is you've Got to get the sigs right. What was your gut initial feeling when you chose a sig, 7th or 11th? IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted November 16, 2014 10:24 AM quote: Originally posted by tgem: Was your relationship strictly "friendship" with him or did it go beyond that? The thing was horary accuracy is you've Got to get the sigs right. What was your gut initial feeling when you chose a sig, 7th or 11th? 7th, because there were feelings involved beyond friendship even if it was discombobulated. IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted December 01, 2014 12:55 AM Bump IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted December 01, 2014 08:15 AM Yeah I'd stick with 7th for him. Bumping for LP or DM since they are really good at digging deep into these charts IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted December 23, 2014 09:03 PM Is it okay if I modify this question to what does he want from me emotionally? I couldn't find the words at the time of th question. IP: Logged
tgem Moderator Posts: 3910 From: Registered: Jan 2013	posted January 04, 2015 09:56 AM Bumping for LP or DM IP: Logged
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 9802 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted April 26, 2015 07:54 PM I'm still not an expert enough at horary that I can read "what" questions very well, and this chart didn't speak to me like some others do. However, now that 6 months have passed I can at least give feedback! A) we'd definitely use him as 7th at the very least because we had sex once (months and months before I asked this) but also because he was never someone I had a friendship with. There was always push and pull. B) When I saw my sig in his house I immediately thought if this were someone else's chart I would say "Yeah, you definitely want them." and it's true, I did. So noted as a starting point. C) He's Mars in his 3rd house, my 9th. I think ...maybe?! him being in my 9th (or anyone being in your 9th) points to YOU wanting to understand the person. It's the house of higher learning, afterall. HIM being in his "3rd" didn't speak to me other than it's communicative for him, a place you go to reach out to whomever. D) He's Mars AND Pluto is by him. He was probably looking for sex, OR this could represent how much he changed. He lost a significant amount of weight and pretty much bettered himself as a whole (got a promotion, stopped clubbing all the time.) E) Him and I are making very weak aspects which probably shows how nothing came of his "return". I'm also in his 10th house, which I think is funny that I'm there and he's in Capricorn. It's odd but I feel Saturn plays apart here. I would say it indicates maybe unfinished business we had together since Saturn is also in his 1st house, and Venus is conjuncting Saturn. In that instance I see how it relates to me in the chart, but not him. Me being in his 10th house (as The Moon) is apt because he is hard on my heart so in turn I'm kinda judgmental of him. Maybe it means he sees me as a lot of 'work'? IP: Logged

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