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Topic: Has something changed between them?
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HappyLoewe Knowflake Posts: 260 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 16, 2014 10:09 AM
This is a guy who I have had the biggest crush on forever (well since July 2013). No one has ever really affected me the way this guy has. He started dating this girl around August/September this year and it's been full of drama. I was out last night and I could tell that things were different between them. With that being said, it could just be wishful thinking on my part (the jealous side of me coming out !!!) I couldn't stop thinking about it and so I had to pull a chart.I am not sure how to assign sigs really but I thought I would be Mars (Aries asc), he would be Moon (Cancer 5th house with co-sig Sun), his partner would be Jupiter (ruler of 7th with co-sig Venus). I've noticed something very strange recently. All the people in my life that have started new relationships around July 2014 onwards have all gone pearshape or are heading that way. The relationships are all dramatic and intense - it's like they literally burn out. I find it really peculiar. If someone could read the chart and be honest (no need to spare my feelings about him as it's been the longest time and another year or two of waiting won't hurt !!). Thanks in advance HL.
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Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 2515 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 16, 2014 12:22 PM
Well.. it's tricky because Saturn was in the 7th. I took you as Mars, him as Venus and her as Saturn. If Saturn is one of the significators, the chart can be read. I know you said he's a crush, but I imagine you mean romantic interest, in which case I would go with the 7th ruler for him and his 5th house ruler for her (the 11th). They seem to be on the rocks, yes. He is moving away from her - Venus is separating from Saturn. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe Knowflake Posts: 260 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 16, 2014 12:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: Well.. it's tricky because Saturn was in the 7th. I took you as Mars, him as Venus and her as Saturn. If Saturn is one of the significators, the chart can be read. I know you said he's a crush, but I imagine you mean romantic interest, in which case I would go with the 7th ruler for him and his 5th house ruler for her (the 11th). They seem to be on the rocks, yes. He is moving away from her - Venus is separating from Saturn.
Thanks DM for answering this. It looked like they were on the rocks. Defo less affection and standing away from each for the majority of the time. It didn't look like they were on the same page. I do like him as a romantic interest but because I identified him as a crush I used the 5th house. Thanks for this as this is a good learning exercise too. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Moderator Posts: 2515 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 16, 2014 01:33 PM
Well, I use 5th house in case of flings, if you want something easy, quick, no strings attached. It sounded like he's more to you than that. Also, I feel when he will change signs and go into Sagittarius, he will want his freedom. They'll split, I think. I don't see developments with the two of you just yet though. But he does seem to like you. I hope I am not feeding unrealistic expectations with that one, but couldn't help not notice he is ruled by you. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 261 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 16, 2014 01:38 PM
Is this the same guy in your other horary? I ask because, I thought you had other motives in asking your question. Also, it could change the significators involved in the first horary.IP: Logged |
HappyLoewe Knowflake Posts: 260 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 16, 2014 03:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Bluejay: Is this the same guy in your other horary? I ask because, I thought you had other motives in asking your question. Also, it could change the significators involved in the first horary.
No, this is somebody that I have crushed on for a very long time. The other guy is a friend who I have known for a long time but it is friendly and nothing more. I won't ask separate questions about the same person as there is no point - it invalidates the answers and is pointless. Charts produced are valid for 3-6 months so you have to ask more questions of the chart your originally pulled. IP: Logged |