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babybull82
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posted December 15, 2014 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So there is a guy I met about 4 months ago. When we first met I thought everything was cool & we got along fine. Well I don't see him very often but when I do I say hi & try to talk to him. Lately though I've been feeling like he doesn't like me or that he even hates me. Like he's just speaking to me to be nice.

The first thing I notice in this chart is mercury is combust & detriment in my house. Soo that probably just reinforces his dislike for me correct? I used the 7th for other people & open enemies.

So..does he?

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posted December 15, 2014 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tofu addict     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No , he doesn't hate you.

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posted December 15, 2014 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm but I thought detriment was like the opposite of exalted? Or is that fall? He's conjunct venus too so maybe he's not being as chummy because he has a girlfriend & wants to not give me the wrong idea? I never assume a guy being nice likes me. Well I guess I'll just keep being friendly then.

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posted December 15, 2014 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anybody else?

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posted December 15, 2014 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can't hate anybody being in their house and receiving them by ruler. I don't care what the rest of the chart says.

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posted December 15, 2014 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And fyi, the conjunction between Mercury and Venus never perfects

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posted December 15, 2014 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Then I wonder what the weirdness is.. And what does it mean if mercury & venus never perfect?

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posted December 16, 2014 01:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's in your house, so that means he actually likes you. But him being in detriment in your sign, probably signifies that you're not making him feel good even though you essentially receive him.Combust usually means overpowering or perhaps "smothering"... The sun is a part of you being in your first house, so perhaps you are just being too overpowering or smothering and causing him this discomfort that you are perceiving as hatred.

Your sign is retrograde, meaning you are probably going to change your mind or something about the question... so give it some time and maybe things will become clear.

Your two significators trine, so for me this is a pleasant connection even if it is past, so it doesn't seem like hatred from that viewpoint either.

Are you trying to create a relationship and he only wants to be friends, perhaps..?

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posted December 16, 2014 08:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for babybull82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by appleberry:
He's in your house, so that means he actually likes you. But him being in detriment in your sign, probably signifies that you're not making him feel good even though you essentially receive him.Combust usually means overpowering or perhaps "smothering"... The sun is a part of you being in your first house, so perhaps you are just being too overpowering or smothering and causing him this discomfort that you are perceiving as hatred.

Your sign is retrograde, meaning you are probably going to change your mind or something about the question... so give it some time and maybe things will become clear.

Your two significators trine, so for me this is a pleasant connection even if it is past, so it doesn't seem like hatred from that viewpoint either.

Are you trying to create a relationship and he only wants to be friends, perhaps..?


Nope, because I've always felt like he didn't like me like that anyway & I don't see him very often. Also I feel very blah about romance & any of that stuff right now. Not sure how to describe it but I feel very numb emotionally if that makes sense lol

Edit: ok so I did some thinking & I just remembered that when we met I took a peek @ our synastry & he has like 3 personal planets in my 8th house. We also talked about heavy stuff like death & all that too first night we met. I think while he enjoyed the conversation it may have been too heavy for him. He seems like the type that doesn't like to discuss those types of things but with me he felt comfortable. So it may have weirded him out.

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