posted January 12, 2015 08:47 PM            

I asked if men see me as cold, mean, etc. negatively, basically. Wondering just HOW unapproachable they find me:

posted January 12, 2015 11:32 PM            

I can't think which house would be best for this one. I assume you are talking about men in a relationship sense? Such as a 7th house meaning, not a fling (house 5) or friendship (house 11)... or any other sense, correct?

posted January 13, 2015 11:45 PM            

With this kind of question, I think the aspect between the significators talks about specific relationship outcomes, etc... But, seeing which planets represent the people in question, as well as where they land in houses and signs gives more of the information you are looking for.

I can see that the 7th house is ruled by Saturn which is a typical ruler for older men, but also contains Mars, which is a typical ruler for men in their 20's and 30's.

I'm not sure exactly why they appear where they appear, but I would guess that older men might be seeing themselves as father figures for you. But, if you're over 40 yourself, perhaps that is translating to 'man of the house' for you...?

The fact that they are represented by the two main masculine planets, and you happen to be represented by secondary masculine planets makes me think they might see you as a tom-boy. You probably don't exhibit typically feminine behavior as they expect women to act... that might also make you unapproachable if they only understand how to approach the stereotypical female...

The fact that you are not getting great, or any aspects in some cases, to either of your two main significators, just confirms how you state your difficulty with their view of you - otherwise we might see some trines, I think.

Overall, I don't think you should consider it such a problem if they see you as cold or unapproachable - I think you just need to be the one to approach, and if you are interested in them, display some typically feminine behavior so they can understand that you are interested in them in that way.

Hope that all makes sense...

posted January 14, 2015 12:14 AM            

No I'm not in my 40's yet, I'm only 25.

Yes I'm a tomboy around men. I'm shy about my feelings so I act like I don't have them, blah blah blah *issues* blah blah. I mean I guess I knew all of this already but I'm so impressed it can be explained through a natal chart.

Older men always smile at me weird and creep me out, so I think there's some kind of power / control fantasy thing going on there.

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This made me think of something. Since you're pretty experienced at horary, what if we started encouraging other users to put their own thoughts down about their situation (well, for relationship questions anyway) first and THEN we decipher their chart? That way we can match up what they say to the planets accordingly and can better predict the outcome? That'd probably be more useful than us telling you guys "Yes, you're right." because how is that engaging at all if we know the solution to our queries already.

posted January 14, 2015 11:42 PM            

I think it's interesting that you say older men have a power thing with you... if you turn the chart they land in their own 10th house... which specifically infers such a thing...

Yes, it would be nice if people added more info to their horary charts - just so people can identify more symbols in the horary chart. When it comes to horary - the more you give, the more you get... People who hold back explaining the situation just lead the readers into confusion. But, people only reveal what they are comfortable revealing and we all have to be okay with that.

posted January 15, 2015 05:21 PM            

And no worries!

posted January 15, 2015 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
How are you to know when the planetary hour will work? Meaning is it okay yo purposely match it up then?

And no worries!

Yessss a Lenormand would be great, thank you so much!

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Below is the link to validate the planetary hour. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000262.html

http://www.astrology.com.tr/planetary-hours.asp

So I asked how men view you when they meet you?
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Pulled clouds to clarify roads and flowers to clarify lily

Let me know if you want me to interprete this for you although I know you're better than me at it.

posted January 16, 2015 12:20 AM            

Here is someone else's thoughts on that matter - I think they describe how I feel about it as well: "If the Moon is placed in the Via Combusta in a chart, it’s likely to just show a state of emotional turmoil for our querent or some sort of inherent difficulty in their situation that is not easily remedied. It could also show someone who feels under attack in some way by their surroundings. It is perhaps easier to imagine the Via Combusta as a second place wherein the Moon can be Combust, and follow through with similar descriptive words: fear, anxiety, inability to move forward, difficulty taking information, etc."
http://starlightknightastrology.com/2014/01/horary-technique-10-the-via-combusta/