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Topic: Why no contact?
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babybull82
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posted January 14, 2015 04:48 PM
  
Someone I like hasn't been contacting as much as they used too. Just wondering if you guys can see what it may be.I'm venus in the 10th, he's mars in my 11th. While we aren't aspecting except by separating combusted moon, he's in my exaltation. So that means he doesn't hate me right? Saturn in his house means delays but what kind of delays? Saturn rules my 10th & his turn 4th. Could it have to do with housing or something? I kind of miss him & want to talk to him but I'm kinda scared to reach out. Thanks to anyone who responds.  IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted January 15, 2015 04:12 PM
Why's are hard to read in Horary charts. Plus saturnxis in the 7th so the chart technically is invalid. Sorry.IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted January 15, 2015 09:46 PM
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Originally posted by tgem:
Why's are hard to read in Horary charts. Plus saturnxis in the 7th so the chart technically is invalid. Sorry.
Oops, I'm sorry we're only supposed to ask yes or no questions.. I forgot.I hate to be annoying & ask another one. I reached out to him today & no reply..I guess he's mad at me or something, or it's time for me to move on. IP: Logged |
appleberry
Knowflake Posts: 1513
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted January 15, 2015 10:52 PM
tgem is correct - not really validBut, if it were valid, I'd say he might be depressed... And if that is the reason, this is only the beginning... If he's taking it out on you already, or sparing you by pulling away - it's your cue to move on... You can always be a friend again when he's ready but he probably wants to go through this alone. Let him. Being pushy will probably make him angry and that leads to hatred... IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted January 17, 2015 01:46 PM
Well here is the outcome even if the chart is invalid. The day I text him to see how he was and if I could call him to check on him, he ended up calling me that night and we talked for about 45 mins or so. He said he was tired and had been busy at work. The next day we were chatting a lot thru text but he's sort of disappeared again. He also told me before hand that it's nothing personal it's just that on his days off sometimes he doesn't really like to talk to anyone. I'm ok with that. I told him that I didn't want to come off as clingy and he said I wasn't and if I was he wouldn't have continued on with me. So I'm just going to be patient and let him come to me in his own time. I'll admit I've been depressed too. I also took a peak at his birth chart and transits and with a cancer moon he's bound to have ups and downs anyway. But I let him know I'm here if he wants to hang out and talk. So that's that. I'll admit the day I asked the question I was worried that maybe I had done something to offend him. He even told me I need to relax a bit and not worry so much and he's right. IP: Logged |
appleberry
Knowflake Posts: 1513
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
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posted January 17, 2015 03:38 PM
Thanks so much for the update - it does seem like he's just depressed and you should let him be - just let him know you'll be there whenever he needs you...IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted January 18, 2015 08:36 AM
Glad things turned out ok- I like happy endings  IP: Logged |
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