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Topic: Why did he suddenly delete me right before our date tomorrow?
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 131
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 13, 2015 07:00 PM
  
I have (or maybe HAD...) a date for Valentine's Day with this guy I met from OkCupid planned for tomorrow, but suddenly I noticed he deleted me off Facebook today. I texted him and asked why and asked what I did wrong but he hasn't responded. I don't understand at all and it's really making me feel like I just got tricked or just got played like a fool. Right away my significator is seen in the 7th house AND in detriment which is never good, so obviously this shows my interest in him (very much interested and very much wanting to go out with him). But his significator Saturn is in the 5th house and square mine. What gives   IP: Logged |
appleberry
Knowflake Posts: 1660
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 14, 2015 01:50 AM
A quick look: I get the feeling there is another girl... Mercury.Maybe he was trying to cheat on her with you, went back to an ex, or made several dates for the evening and at the last minute had to decide between all of you. Just don't ever talk to him again. Just don't. Let it go. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 131
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 14, 2015 01:55 AM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
A quick look: I get the feeling there is another girl... Mercury.Maybe he was trying to cheat on her with you, went back to an ex, or made several dates for the evening and at the last minute had to decide between all of you. Just don't ever talk to him again. Just don't. Let it go.
Oh my gosh wait really? He actually texted me and said that it was a "mistake" that he deleted me. He seemed genuine. He also said that he was going to delete his Facebook profile in the near future anyways... I'm worried now. I suspected something was up but I wasn't sure. He said he still wants to go tomorrow, so do you think it's possible that he is talking to many other girls and is lying about it and telling me he's only talking to me?
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 727
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 14, 2015 07:05 AM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Oh my gosh wait really? He actually texted me and said that it was a "mistake" that he deleted me. He seemed genuine. He also said that he was going to delete his Facebook profile in the near future anyways... I'm worried now. I suspected something was up but I wasn't sure. He said he still wants to go tomorrow, so do you think it's possible that he is talking to many other girls and is lying about it and telling me he's only talking to me?
Do you know what? This story sounds fishy to me. In my experience, if it seems odd or doesn't make sense... it is probably something to avoid. Do you really want to accept an invitation when you don't have answers to the questions you posed? Finally, in my experience, if you give a liar/manipulator an excuse/opportunity to wriggle out of something/being upfront... they will more than likely take it. It is all easier said than done, but listen to yourself/your questions... the fact that you're even asking them isn't right. IP: Logged |
appleberry
Knowflake Posts: 1660
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 14, 2015 04:02 PM
I'd say show him who's boss and tell him you already made other plans, whether you did or not. I'm sure he's up to something, both as a reader, and as a female... If you want to go for curiosity's sake, so be it, but if you want to save yourself some misery, take our advice and walk away saying as little as possible. Say nothing if possible, don't even respond to him... IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 131
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 14, 2015 04:47 PM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
I'd say show him who's boss and tell him you already made other plans, whether you did or not. I'm sure he's up to something, both as a reader, and as a female... If you want to go for curiosity's sake, so be it, but if you want to save yourself some misery, take our advice and walk away saying as little as possible. Say nothing if possible, don't even respond to him...
Lol yeah he's really begging me to go and really wants me to, but I told him straight up that he's shady and I feel uncomfortable with someone like that, especially on a day like today where love and harmony rules. IP: Logged |
appleberry
Knowflake Posts: 1660
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 14, 2015 07:38 PM
Good girl!
Loser is probably begging because the date he chose in the end prolly cancelled on him... Loser deserves to be dumped by all of you on V-day!IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 714
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 11:07 AM
Sun, don't go. He's douche, talk to other dudes I'm sure you'll find a nice one and a hot one all in one  IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 131
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 15, 2015 11:18 PM
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Originally posted by Julz87:
Sun, don't go. He's douche, talk to other dudes I'm sure you'll find a nice one and a hot one all in one
Yeah I told him I didn't feel like he was being real with me so I cancelled. I texted him this morning just to be nice and he never texted back. On to the next one! IP: Logged |
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