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Topic: Will she (friend) text me?
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Plut0nian2
Knowflake Posts: 38
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Registered: Apr 2014
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posted February 15, 2015 07:24 AM
  
It's about a friendship that ended about 2 years ago..
Since then she has sent me some wishes on birthdays etc..
I miss our old friendship sometimes..
So I am asking if she'll text me
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 728
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 15, 2015 07:33 AM
Some may argue that this chart cannot be read because the ascendant is below 5 degrees.Others may say that it can be read because the ascendant is above 3 degrees. Others may also say this chart cannot be read because you have posted a chart using Placidus house system, and the preferred house system is Regiomonatus. Even if ignore points 1 and 3, I would say that the chart suggests no she will not text. Side note: If she has made contact with you, wishing you happy birthday etc. And you miss her friendship, why not message her? IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
Knowflake Posts: 38
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Registered: Apr 2014
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posted February 15, 2015 09:15 AM
Thank you
I am not texting her because of her silly excuses when our friendship ended..
Is there an option for regiomontanus chart in astro.com? Could you please tell me which house is her? IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 728
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 15, 2015 09:32 AM
On astro.com before you press show chart, scroll down to *options*, highlighted yellow and click 'house system' - you'll see Regiomonatus listed there.She's represented by the ruler of the 11th because she's your friend. When I said that the chart suggests no, it actually suggests that nothing will come of your question. As the moon is making no aspect to her significator. If anyone else is following, please jump in if I've missed anything. I'm such a novice lol IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
Knowflake Posts: 38
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Registered: Apr 2014
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posted February 15, 2015 10:12 AM
Thank you very much for your help.
Once someone told me that I should take my friend as a 7th H because now we are not friends anymore and 11th H house represents close friendship.. Also I want to ask if we should take my 3rd'd H lord and her 3rd's H lord because my question is about texting / communication, meaning a matter of the 3rd H.
So if this is right.. in this case if my friend is 11th H then her 3rd H would be the 1st H which is already me :S Someone help me please? :S
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 728
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted February 15, 2015 10:58 AM
Depends.Perhaps you could use the 7H if you were enemies, but from what you've said. It doesn't sound like you are. You may not like some of the things that she has done, but she still reaches out on occasions. I would argue she is a friend and should therefore be represented by the 11H ruler. However, it depends on what you feel best describes the nature of your relationship.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Horary_astrology#Assigning_Houses I am not too sure about using the 11H (her) and looking at the her house of communication (3H) - Perhaps there's some weight to investigate this and perhaps someone else can help here. But, what I would likely rule out is the use of your 3H in this chart.
P.s. Use the right chart (with correct house system) before you go any further.
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Plut0nian2
Knowflake Posts: 38
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Registered: Apr 2014
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posted February 15, 2015 11:17 AM
I feel her like she is a stranger..
But I miss what we once had.. Ok I'll try it right now with regiomontanus  The chart is the same
I dont understand the difference between regiomontanus and placidus IP: Logged |
appleberry
Knowflake Posts: 1663
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 11:43 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Thank you very much for your help.
Once someone told me that I should take my friend as a 7th H because now we are not friends anymore and 11th H house represents close friendship.. Also I want to ask if we should take my 3rd'd H lord and her 3rd's H lord because my question is about texting / communication, meaning a matter of the 3rd H.
So if this is right.. in this case if my friend is 11th H then her 3rd H would be the 1st H which is already me :S Someone help me please? :S
I agree with 7th house... For that reason, and because when I wonder "this house or that house" and the moon is in "that house" then I say the moon wants to talk about that situation, so I read "that house"... which in this case is the 7th.... But there are arguments for both houses... I think you should check the 3rd and 9th but only as confirmation, because ultimately you seem to be concerned with contact, and not the actual form it comes in. IP: Logged |
appleberry
Knowflake Posts: 1663
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 15, 2015 11:47 PM
Unfortunately, there is more support for this being an ending of a relationship, rather than a rekindling... I think it's done for now.... But this is life, so brace yourself and let the endings that were meant to be happen... On a positive note though - horary only speaks of the next 3-6 months... so you never know, maybe later on...IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
Knowflake Posts: 38
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Registered: Apr 2014
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posted February 16, 2015 03:21 AM
Thank you Appleberry  It's fine..
I just miss what we once had
But I couln't trust her again..
We can not be like we were once..
I had this chance but I didn't want it because something was broken inside me.. :/
But sometimes I feel like asking if she'll ever text me again.. IP: Logged |
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