posted February 16, 2015 08:49 AM            

here is the background : i met a guy two yrs back , we both r leo sunsigns , we dated and he proposed while my family knew about it ( in my culture , the family involvement and approval is imp ) . turned out , that he was cheating on me and his family didnt know anything about me as he was going through a divorce . my family turned against him and we stopped talking to each other .
4 months later , his sister got to know about it , and talked to me and sent the proposal which my family didnt accept but we started talking again .
two months later , i got to know he had lied to me that he had got divorce , while the case was just filed ( his ex had moved on already ) . and when i questioned , he disappeared .
three months later his sister called up to wish me birthday and i being hurt , said i felt really bad dat he lied to me and couldnt think good for him and leaving it to god dat he will get to realize he had done wrong .

his family got to know about it all and blamed him as well as his sister so they made up a story that he stopped talking to me , coz he didnt feel i was the right person for marriage and they want to search more . my mum got to know about it , and politely warned them not to blame me for anything . she said sorry to my mum and confessed their mistake and said they were actually interested in me and wont do the mistake again or lie till they get a legal divorce this time.

now a year later, we saw their online matrimonial . As i still have the feelings for him , and now that he is actually legally divorced , my family called them up . The moment they realized it was us , her sister did not reveal her name and pretended she was someone else and would call us up after discussing the proposal with her family , tomorrow.

now i know that i am the best match for him and so is he for me . we were very compatible and practically as well , we r the best match .his sister is having the final say in the matter , and i feel though she likes me , she doesnt want to propose my name to the family , fearing her cooked up self defence stories will get revealed .
i and my family have no plans to talk about past. because we feel it was just the circumstances that twisted the story .

i am so nervous about what will happen next !
i really wish things could work out well .
are they even thinking?
are they still having that past stuff in mind?
r they hiding smthing?
is he really over me !
i have no clue .. so wondering , what next !! ...will it be a closed chapter or will a dialogue atleast begin .

posted February 16, 2015 10:53 AM            

yeah... i knw u r right... i cudnt ever understand wht exactly was going on with them ... i mean , the closure was always very very sudden .
too bad dat i fell for him ...so may b it's jst dat i m surprised by the sudden closures dat happened everytime.it was like today , we r in luv and evrythng is going fine n the very next day , i find out a truth and ask him in the politest manner and he would disconnect and later text me dat he is disturbed and then block me from everywhere . ... till he appears again in my life after a few months . i think unanswered things r disturbing me more..bt u r right....there r no explanations when u r caught tellng a lie.