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Topic: Should we continue the relationship?
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Aurorablue Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 01, 2015 10:18 AM
Hello everyone, I'd appreciate a bit of help with this one please.My question was, should we stay together? A bit of background, is been seeing someone on a friends with benefits since Christmas, although over the last 4 weeks had become incredibly close and decided we would give things a go and see how it went. I love and care about him (not in love) but he is deeply in love with me. I came out of a nearly 10 year relationship at the beginning of 2014 and it was awful. He treats me like a queen, almost too good to be true. But in order for us to spend time together etc he needs to alter his life style work wise and is very keen to do that. I have young children who only know him on a friend basis and is fine with me right now. But I have massive anxieties about the relationship and him changing his life so much to fit round mine. I'm not sure if it's past that is causing this or my gut is kicking in saying no this won't last.. Or a mixture of the two which is why I asked that, if this is just a bill because of past then I'll happily try and work through this with him, but then if not I'd rather do this sooner rather than later, my heads on a mess about it. Now my interpretation is that with him on my 4th of endings that we are going to separate, especially with my 5th ruler in my first being retro.
What is your take on this chart?
Thank you xx IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 01, 2015 01:38 PM
I see some positive things, and many things you've said show up in the chart as well. Ultimately, I'd like to be careful because your concern shows itself here. Overall, I'd say "Should we stay together"? The primary connection is a separating square - insinuating that challenge and obstacles but all is in the past. I look to the moon to see anything positive in the future... Yes, but not in the sign it's in, in fact, there are no aspects at all until the moon changes signs - usually that means the scenario must change for things to happen, everything that is going to happen as things are, has already happened. "Should we stay together?" Some changes likely have to be made before you'd see anything positive come of it. Would it be worth it? The secondary aspect between your JupiterRx (already showing a change of mind) and his Mercury, jump out. A separating opposition at the same degree. It's likely to indicate some form of break and regret. The positive things that jumped out were: his significator on the cusp of the 5th of romance/children, the applying trine btw his Saturn and your Jupiter, Part of Fortune in the 5th house (Lilly and his contemporaries used the Lot of Fortune as a simple indicator of material well-being and, in horary charts, a marker of success), moon connects next to your Jupiter... Ultimately, there is positive and negative, but in order for things to go as you would probably like, there must be change. I get the feeling you'd rather not make the effort. I don't see the moon helping out with that... IP: Logged |
Aurorablue Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 02, 2015 04:59 AM
Thank you very much for your interpretation, my issue is not completely attracted to him. I love the way he is, treats me and is very lovely to me but I can't get past the attraction. I sound shallow 😞 but it's really eating me up.IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 1734 From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 02, 2015 01:58 PM
Don't feel bad. Attraction is more than skin deep. Sometimes we think we are being shallow, but we are missing that soul connection we have with people. Follow your gut - if you think this isn't the right one, it's okay to gently move on. IP: Logged |
Aurorablue Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 02, 2015 02:15 PM
Thank you Appleberry xxIP: Logged | |