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DreamCatcher
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posted March 12, 2015 08:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Long story short, another job opportunity has come my way , part time and more in alignment with my passion. But ONE thing is stopping me. I tend to overthink things, but the guy I would be working for as nice as he is, I completely sense his attraction to me (not reciprocated) and he knows I'm involved with someone. However, my question is: If I accept the job will it be ok for me, or will his attraction get in the way?? Thanks!

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Dancing Maenad
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posted March 12, 2015 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey DreamCatcher,

It looks to me like your concerns about your job are real and there might be a point when the job will be greatly affected, but I think in the end it sorts out favorably (esp financially). You seem too invested in the situation, perhaps a bit oversensitive and it might make things worse as it clouds objective thinking. Try to keep that under control and best of luck to you!

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DreamCatcher
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posted March 12, 2015 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi and thanks for your reply!
I know I am overthinking it....I just don't want an uncomfortable situation .
SO just to clarify, you are saying that it will affect the job and my concerns are correct??
Does it show the job being a good thing?

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appleberry
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posted March 12, 2015 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I definitely agree with DM... There's so much going on in this chart. And, I definitely see him attracted to you, as well as you having just had a sudden surprising event.

I think there will always be communication issues because of this, and issues in the background. So much in the 12th house makes me think there might always be an underlying stress for you about this situation.

Do note though, that the majority and final aspects of the Moon are primarily positive, and the very final aspect of the Moon is trining your main significator, Mars. This same aspect also speaks of the end of the matter - what could be better than an applying trine for the end of the matter?

I get the sense that you hold the upper hand in the situation. I don't think you should be afraid of this job. Perhaps it will be a challenging transformational learning experience for you, but whatever difficulties you go through, I think things will be fine enough for you in the end.

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DreamCatcher
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posted March 12, 2015 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by appleberry:
I definitely agree with DM... There's so much going on in this chart. And, I definitely see him attracted to you, as well as you having just had a sudden surprising event.

I think there will always be communication issues because of this, and issues in the background. So much in the 12th house makes me think there might always be an underlying stress for you about this situation.


Do note though, that the majority and final aspects of the Moon are primarily positive, and the very final aspect of the Moon is trining your main significator, Mars. This same aspect also speaks of the end of the matter - what could be better than an applying trine for the end of the matter?

I get the sense that you hold the upper hand in the situation. I don't think you should be afraid of this job. Perhaps it will be a challenging transformational learning experience for you, but whatever difficulties you go through, I think things will be fine enough for you in the end.


Apple, thank you so very much for your interp. Regarding the actual JOB though, does it look like it's worth it for me to take, that it's beneficial? I'm trying to figure out what you meant when you said:

"Do note though, that the majority and final aspects of the Moon are primarily positive, and the very final aspect of the Moon is trining your main significator, Mars. This same aspect also speaks of the end of the matter - what could be better than an applying trine for the end of the matter?

I get the sense that you hold the upper hand in the situation. I don't think you should be afraid of this job. Perhaps it will be a challenging transformational learning experience for you, but whatever difficulties you go through, I think things will be fine enough for you in the end."

* If you wouldn't mind literally spelling it out for me what you see going on in this chart? If you prefer email let me know, and leave me an exchange question over on personal readings if you wish !!

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appleberry
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posted March 12, 2015 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Concerning the job itself, I think there's nothing to worry about.

The part you are asking about, the trine between Mars and Moon, it represents the final outcome of the situation itself as well as the final outcome for you. An applying trine in this situation is one of the best outcomes you could ask for... That's why I say don't worry. The guy might bother you for a bit, but it's not worth losing the opportunity for.

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DreamCatcher
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posted March 12, 2015 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by appleberry:
Concerning the job itself, I think there's nothing to worry about.

The part you are asking about, the trine between Mars and Moon, it represents the final outcome of the situation itself as well as the final outcome for you. An applying trine in this situation is one of the best outcomes you could ask for... That's why I say don't worry. The guy might bother you for a bit, but it's not worth losing the opportunity for.


THANK YOU APPLE!
And feel free to ask for a read anytime..Angel or Tarot .
Bless you.

Also, can you see from this chart that he feels strongly? Or just attraction?

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appleberry
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posted March 13, 2015 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for appleberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DreamCatcher:

Also, can you see from this chart that he feels strongly? Or just attraction?

To me it seems like a bit of sexual tension, and it looks like the interest is passing. I suspect he realizes the lack of reciprocation and is therefore trying to control it.

I hope you will find a good way to deal with the situation. It's so unfair to have a male's "attractions" destroy a woman's opportunities. Society trains us to walk away to keep the peace - but it shouldn't have to be that way.

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DreamCatcher
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posted March 13, 2015 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamCatcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by appleberry:
To me it seems like a bit of sexual tension, and it looks like the interest is passing. I suspect he realizes the lack of reciprocation and is therefore trying to control it.

I hope you will find a good way to deal with the situation. It's so unfair to have a male's "attractions" destroy a woman's opportunities. Society trains us to walk away to keep the peace - but it shouldn't have to be that way.


I know It stinks...I should not have to stress out about this. And thank you

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