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Topic: Will my best friend contact me within a month?
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geminimoon
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posted March 18, 2015 04:35 PM
  
Me and my best friend had a huge fight on the first weekend of this month. We've been best friends about 9 years and we talk everyday and try to see each other at least once or twice a month (she lives a little bit further away). At the beginning of this year she got a boyfriend and everything has been a mess after that! She has seen me like maybe 2 times and she spends all of her weekends with her new bf (like literally she has been spending every weekend of this year with her new bf...) And that is a little weird for me because we have been always so close  I understand that they are in love and want to be with each other all the time, but c'mon isn't that a little bit too much? Like why can't she make even one weekend for me? So after the fight she said that she wanted some time to think and we haven't spoke at all after it :/
So my final question is - will my best friend contact me within a month? (and you are probably asking me why I don't contact her, but it's complicated because I'm always the one who contacts her and try to make up etc. so it's now her time if she wants and she said that she will contact me.. but i'm kinda scared that she won't)
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appleberry
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From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 18, 2015 05:00 PM
I'd say no, at least not soon. Things are going well between the two of them right now. However, she (Sun) is nearing the end of a sign, and he (Saturn) is Rx... Things might change - he might leave. You are in a new place but strong. My advice is to just be there for her if this ends. IP: Logged |
geminimoon
Newflake Posts: 10
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posted March 19, 2015 05:08 AM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
I'd say no, at least not soon. Things are going well between the two of them right now. However, she (Sun) is nearing the end of a sign, and he (Saturn) is Rx... Things might change - he might leave. You are in a new place but strong. My advice is to just be there for her if this ends.
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geminimoon
Newflake Posts: 10
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posted March 22, 2015 03:20 PM
Well she contacted me yesterday late at night! It was a big surprise for me, because she has never (!!!) texted me first after a fight. She didn't even try to make up with me she just asked me how and what have I been doing... Weird. But you were right appleberry, things are going pretty well between them. I just had to update this topic and tell this because i'm still in a little shock but super happy!  And so that I can learn something from this chart, is there anything in the chart that indicates a yes answer to the question? How did you come to the conclusion "no, at least not soon"? (Just to be curious..) because literally 3 days after I asked the question she contacted me That was super soon and I find it kinda weird IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1858
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 22, 2015 06:05 PM
Thank you for providing feedback... because this is how we improve our skills... The minute you said she did contact/text... I thought... Hmmm... technology is Uranus and I should have a look at what Uranus is doing (even though it's only used in modern horary)... But then, I did look again at the chart and see that the moon's next conjunction is Mercury (communication, messages, etc...) in the turned 7th house. I suppose that is the thing that I missed. I assumed that you wouldn't be contacted for lack of aspect between the two of you, but somehow that must signify something else (perhaps there was an underlying question asking when things will be the same again between the two of you?). The moon/mercury conjunction is 4 degrees - from your first house that would land mutable/succedent, indicating months, but from her first house it would be mutable/angular, indicating weeks... so still it's not very soon. However, I believe I've read that if the planets are fast moving, it's likely the outcome will be sooner... and, more importantly, because you have defined in your question that the longest length of time allowable is one month, adjustments should be made so that years becomes months, months becomes weeks, weeks become days, and days become hours... In this case - WEEKS as indicated by the angular/mutable moon (from her first house) has become DAYS... 4 degrees = days, but because both involved (Mercury, Moon) are speedy... I suppose that accounts for the speed... but I also usually count the day of the chart as day 1... making the 21st (the evening she contacted) the fourth day... Well, that's all the sense I can make of it right now. I've said many times, I'm still working on my timing, but I think I forgot to mention this time... So, thank you very much for giving such a good practice opportunity by providing feedback! PS: the only thing I would add that maybe played a part is her main significator is at almost 28 degrees - after two days she was probably in a different state of mind... doesn't necessarily indicate she would do something differently, but does show she probably saw things differently... And... I'm just realizing now that the chart is Placidus and not Regiomontanus... that may affect a reading. IP: Logged |
geminimoon
Newflake Posts: 10
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posted March 24, 2015 06:17 AM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
Thank you for providing feedback... because this is how we improve our skills... The minute you said she did contact/text... I thought... Hmmm... technology is Uranus and I should have a look at what Uranus is doing (even though it's only used in modern horary)... But then, I did look again at the chart and see that the moon's next conjunction is Mercury (communication, messages, etc...) in the turned 7th house. I suppose that is the thing that I missed. I assumed that you wouldn't be contacted for lack of aspect between the two of you, but somehow that must signify something else (perhaps there was an underlying question asking when things will be the same again between the two of you?). The moon/mercury conjunction is 4 degrees - from your first house that would land mutable/succedent, indicating months, but from her first house it would be mutable/angular, indicating weeks... so still it's not very soon. However, I believe I've read that if the planets are fast moving, it's likely the outcome will be sooner... and, more importantly, because you have defined in your question that the longest length of time allowable is one month, adjustments should be made so that years becomes months, months becomes weeks, weeks become days, and days become hours... In this case - WEEKS as indicated by the angular/mutable moon (from her first house) has become DAYS... 4 degrees = days, but because both involved (Mercury, Moon) are speedy... I suppose that accounts for the speed... but I also usually count the day of the chart as day 1... making the 21st (the evening she contacted) the fourth day... Well, that's all the sense I can make of it right now. I've said many times, I'm still working on my timing, but I think I forgot to mention this time... So, thank you very much for giving such a good practice opportunity by providing feedback! PS: the only thing I would add that maybe played a part is her main significator is at almost 28 degrees - after two days she was probably in a different state of mind... doesn't necessarily indicate she would do something differently, but does show she probably saw things differently... And... I'm just realizing now that the chart is Placidus and not Regiomontanus... that may affect a reading.
Well I added Uranus, Neptune and Pluto to the chart and changed the house system to regiomontanus. The time when she contacted me was 11.54pm so almost Sunday (timezone EET +2). The underlying question, yes, was maybe that.. Not when is she going to contact me but when is she going to contact me AND make up with me. We were on Skype yesterday for a short time but she was like everything were normal and nothing had happened Well I guess I just have to wait..
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