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posted March 28, 2015 04:44 PM            

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This is a potential love interest....

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posted March 28, 2015 05:35 PM            

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At first glance I would say that he's Jupiter in your 12th, together with the moon. You are Sun in the 9th (You live at a distance from each other? Someone also brought up that 9th house placements can indicate a relationship online... ). You have a beautiful, mutually applying trine. That's great, however, he's Rx so he could change his mind. With both his main significator and the moon in the 12th house, I would say this is all pretty clandestine at the moment. Given he's so close to the AC, I would see that as interest in you, but the fact that this is all so secretive and he's Rx... I'm hesitant. Overall, I'd say it looks good though. I could see it progressing well because of the trine.

Is he really shy? Maybe that's the problem - maybe he's worried about things becoming public.

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posted March 28, 2015 06:57 PM            

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Not long distance, he lives about a mile away.
He seems to have a very stressed relationship already going on...i work with him.
I had and have a crush on him and can tell he has feelings for me also. Both of us stayed very professional and did not flirt but we are so much alike and seem to be so in sync all the time it's hard not to miss the mutual attraction. We started talking a little bit more and found even more things we have in common. His Sun/Moon/Pluto/Merc tight on my AC/Pluto/Venus/anti-Vertex.
Then I noticed this girl that started hanging around a lot whenever I was there, she was moody and pouty a lot and always seemed to expect to be doing something about it.
It slowly dawned on me they might be together even though it didn't seem like it. She was always pushing herself on him and he was trying to keep her off, he'd get annoyed. Finally i had to assume she was his GF.
She must have noticed he liked me although all he did was be friendly and professional with me but she doesn't seem to want him working anywhere near me. He doesn't want her touching him or to get close to him affectionately at all.
Not sure if that's the way it is all the time with them or just around me. She gets really weird at times and acts childish and he gets even more distant and cold with her, she seems to be a drama queen Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars in leo.
Neither have FB status of being in relationship or show they are, there are no pictures of them together anywhere and he doesn't even stand next to her when they take group pictures at work, it's like he intentionally gets as far from her as possible.

I keep my distance but can't figure out what's going on with them or him. I've kept very quiet about how I feel about him and I'm glad I did because it took awhile to figure out that he had a girlfriend.
I can tell he feels very deeply, he's a passionate but a very serious person.
He seems very genuine and sweet when she's not around but miserable and irritable whenever she is around. I'm wondering if I need to get far away and forget about him or sit silent and wait for their relationship to end on it's own.

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posted March 28, 2015 07:19 PM            

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I'm definitely backing up and kind of feeling like I want to give up. I'm tired of guys always having GFs because they stay in relationships they are miserable instead of standing up for themselves and looking for something better....it feels like their fear of being alone is stronger than they are, which is very unattractive to me.

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posted March 28, 2015 08:38 PM            

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I'd probably give up on that nonsense too... I don't have patience for boys who only offer a lot of bs. If she is his GF or ex, then she's Mercury in his 4th of endings. But... he receives her.

Maybe she is an ex who's trying to get him back... Maybe he's Rx because he wants to go back...

Go with your gut. If it says stay away from him, then maybe you should. No harm in letting the bad ones get away... if he's not showing you what you want to see, then it's not the right situation for the two of you...

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posted March 28, 2015 08:48 PM            

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Agreed

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posted March 28, 2015 09:45 PM            

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I think he must have broke it off with her but let her talk him back into trying it again.

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posted March 29, 2015 01:34 AM            

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Yes, something definitely sounds strange. When guys change their behavior with different women around - they're usually hiding something from at least one of them... That's my experience...

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