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Topic: Is it worthwhile to go on a date with this guy on Thursday?
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 165
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 31, 2015 09:41 PM
  
I have a date for Thursday and I'm just curious if it's even worth me going. I'm not interested in wasting my time anymore and I want to date with purpose. I'm only 22, but I'm tired of going on dates that end up nowhere. The first thing I notice in this chart is the Libra ascendant which makes me happy, but the Ascendant doesn't tell the whole story. What do you guys think? Is it worth my time to go on Thursday? I want a relationship. 
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appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 31, 2015 10:06 PM
I see maybe sex and/or friendship from this one right now. He's not that interested, I think. The final aspect of the moon in this chart is an opposition with Neptune - regret + deception or illusion possibly... Not to mention that his main significator is as slow as possible as well as Rx... These aren't things you want to see at all.You might want to try to plan your dates closer to the New Moon to help a positive development. Full Moons bring "New Projects" to a close quickly and the next full moon is April 4th. You want to plan around April 18th, which is the next New Moon. Maybe accord the timing of the date to start with something favorable within a First Meeting Chart. Try to get some beautiful trines with the moon and the significators if possible. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 165
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 31, 2015 10:16 PM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
I see maybe sex and/or friendship from this one right now. He's not that interested, I think. The final aspect of the moon in this chart is an opposition with Neptune - regret + deception or illusion possibly... Not to mention that his main significator is as slow as possible as well as Rx... These aren't things you want to see at all.You might want to try to plan your dates closer to the New Moon to help a positive development. Full Moons bring "New Projects" to a close quickly and the next full moon is April 4th. You want to plan around April 18th, which is the next New Moon. Maybe accord the timing of the date to start with something favorable within a First Meeting Chart. Try to get some beautiful trines with the moon and the significators if possible.
Yeah I saw the sex aspect with our sigs both in the 8th. So I suppose the date might not go well since that moon in 12th shows deception and our sigs in the 8th show him wanting something sexual? I know mine is in the 8th too, but I'm looking for the real deal.., IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 31, 2015 11:07 PM
12th house can also represent something kept secret... like a guy who's trying to cheat on someone maybe...? But, the moon is far enough away from the 12th, that I'm not too sure...
"A waxing Moon (with the exception of an applying Sun square Moon) is favored for romances one hopes to last for some time."
- from CafeAstrology.com
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 165
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 31, 2015 11:12 PM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
12th house can also represent something kept secret... like a guy who's trying to cheat on someone maybe...? But, the moon is far enough away from the 12th, that I'm not too sure...
"A waxing Moon (with the exception of an applying Sun square Moon) is favored for romances one hopes to last for some time."
- from CafeAstrology.com
Isn't the moon in the first few degrees of the 12th?? Also, does the node in the first house mean anything? I have that in my birth chart too.
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appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 31, 2015 11:48 PM
Well, it's debatable - I think most people use 5 degrees, so it's fair.. Nodes in the 1st/7th houses in a horary chart... not that great here because you have a malefic in the partnership house... But nodes are more important in 1* conjunctions and same degrees.... More on that here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000652.html IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 165
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 31, 2015 11:54 PM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
Well, it's debatable - I think most people use 5 degrees, so it's fair.. Nodes in the 1st/7th houses in a horary chart... not that great here because you have a malefic in the partnership house... But nodes are more important in 1* conjunctions and same degrees.... More on that here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000652.html
So do you think that I shouldn't go :/?
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appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 01, 2015 12:10 AM
I think it's okay to meet but I don't think things will work out as you want. Go anyway though - why not.... Just lower your expectations so you aren't disappointed...But, I think you should try to see if you can plan the next first date you have with someone around some more beneficial points that will help you out a bit... If you meet someone in your city (I did a quick check) around 6:30pm on Sat April 18th - just a few hours after the next new moon... it might offer you something more of what you're looking for. No first meeting chart is perfect, but have a look at that one and see what you think... IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 165
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 01, 2015 12:20 AM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
I think it's okay to meet but I don't think things will work out as you want. Go anyway though - why not.... Just lower your expectations so you aren't disappointed...But, I think you should try to see if you can plan the next first date you have with someone around some more beneficial points that will help you out a bit... If you meet someone in your city (I did a quick check) around 6:30pm on Sat April 18th - just a few hours after the next new moon... it might offer you something more of what you're looking for. No first meeting chart is perfect, but have a look at that one and see what you think...
Ok thank you!  IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 01, 2015 12:29 AM
A little later, like 7pm, might be safer, because you never know if that Uranus will work out negatively....IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1931
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 01, 2015 12:29 AM
A little later, like 7pm, might be safer, because you never know if that Uranus will work out negatively....IP: Logged |
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