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Topic: Tell him I'm in love with him?
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Spritualjourney
Knowflake Posts: 1545
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 01, 2015 09:34 AM
  
Hi LL! I'd like some help interpreting this chart. My Q was "should I tell him I'm in love with him". I think it's a yes since he's jupiter and I'm mercury. I fall in his 3rd (communication) and he falls in my 11th (hopes & dreams). Also mercury and jupiter make a trine on 10 counts. So maybe 10 days? I'm not that good at horary so any input is greatly appreciated  Thank you!
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babybull82
Knowflake Posts: 796
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 01, 2015 10:01 AM
You actually fall into his 2nd house. Hmm but honestly, I'd hold off. You have neptune opposing your ascendant which means your judgement may be clouded. PLUS I'm not sure if that trine will perfect because Jupiter is Rx & will be moving forward I believe April 8th. Let's see what appleberry says about this.. IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
Knowflake Posts: 1545
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 01, 2015 10:27 AM
Thank you BB! Yes, you're right, it's the end of house ruler that's in the 3rd. IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 5799
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 01, 2015 11:54 AM
I see your indecisiveness with Moon in the 1st too so holding off may be the best option until you feel confident in saying it.IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1943
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 01, 2015 04:54 PM
I'm not quite clear if the two of you are dating (making him JupiterRx) yet, or if he is just a romantic prospect (making him SaturnRx)... but regardless, he is Rx and much slower than you by both accounts. I feel like it would not be a good idea to tell him... However, since you have an applying trine to both Jupiter and Saturn... I have a feeling you are going to do it anyway. But, the AC is only 4 degrees and mutable, so maybe there is a chance you could be set on a different course. If he's Jupiter, he's in you 12th house - right on the cusp! He seems like he's trying to stay hidden or keep this relationship hidden... with Neptune and Chiron in the 7th house to describe him - I wouldn't trust him... If he's Saturn, he's in your 4th house which speaks of domestic issues or the end of the matter. But, he's also being described by Pluto, a sexual planet but also a planet hinting at complications and vulnerability. You have Moon in the first house, saying that you are thinking of this situation primarily from your own perspective and not his, but also saying how overly emotional you might be about this. The great thing about this chart though, is that the final applying aspect of the moon is a trine to Venus... but it happens after the changing of a house. So, what I think overall, is that if you tell him - which I think you are going to regardless, things are not going to work out exactly as you had imagined because you are not aware of or keeping in mind his side of this scenario, but in the end things should work out okay. If there is any advice to be had, I would say just think more about how telling him is going to affect him (and the course of whatever relationship you are on) thoroughly, and choose words that won't scare him away, cause issues between the two of you, or force him to deal with things he's not ready for - not everyone is ready to hear "I love you" - it makes them feel trapped and want to bolt. Whatever you say is going to change things - do you like how things are now, or is it worth the risk to change them? Remember as well, that saying this is something the chart is saying that you want much more than him. Try to take it slowly. IP: Logged |
Spritualjourney
Knowflake Posts: 1545
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 02, 2015 10:04 AM
Thank you! That is sort of what my intuition is telling me, to take it a bit slow and take a less blunt approach then "I love you'. I guess our official title would be best friends with prospect of romance, not officially dating. IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1943
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 02, 2015 04:07 PM
That's fantastic... and seeing the trine with Venus helps me believe that things are going to work out fine in the end. Venus does have to change houses first, so something is set to change first, and then things should work out. Honestly, with such early degrees on the mutable AC though... there is still much time for change... IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 03, 2015 05:07 AM
I didn't know you can ask 'should I' horary questions? Interesting!IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 1943
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 03, 2015 02:24 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
I didn't know you can ask 'should I' horary questions? Interesting!
Well... you can basically 'ask' anything in horary, but it has to be translatable to something that horary can answer. If someone asks a question starting with 'should', they are generally saying: "I want X to happen, if I do Y, will X happen?" It's alright because people are often looking for guidance and advice when they ask questions like that, and it gives the reader an opportunity to understand what kind of advice to give based on the outcome or upcoming events/energies the chart indicates. IP: Logged |
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