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Topic: Who sent me this message on OkCupid?
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 13, 2015 12:08 AM
  
I got a message a few minutes ago on OkCupid from some girl claiming that I was talking to her boyfriend. The profile was blank and had no pictures and she deleted it soon after she sent the message so I had no way of knowing anything about who it was. I decided to do a chart to see if I could figure out who the anonymous message is from. I had a gut feeling that it could be from some guy whose message I had maybe ignored and he felt rejected so he made a fake profile and sent this stupid message.  IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 2011
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 13, 2015 02:04 PM
"Who" is a really tough question. But, I see the other person is represented by Venus in Gemini. I'd guess it was a girl. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 13, 2015 02:41 PM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
"Who" is a really tough question. But, I see the other person is represented by Venus in Gemini. I'd guess it was a girl.
Why would she assume I'm talking to her bf? Does she honestly think I would be a home wrecker and purposely talk to someone who has a bf? I don't even know who she's talking about since she didn't mention who the supposed bf is and she deleted her profile right after sending the message. Stupid girl. I remember Jodi Arias (killed her bf) has a Venus in Gemini. It's a jealous, bitchy position. She's threatened by other women, just like this girl is for NO reason since I don't know the supposed bf she's talking about. IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 2011
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 13, 2015 03:39 PM
Maybe her boyfriend left his okcupid account open and he read the messages and sent a quick message to everyone he was talking to. You shouldn't be so mean to other women in your accusations - you don't really know what they are going through. Support other women - don't bash them. Maybe she's pregnant and can't really leave him because she needs the support. She likely deleted the account because she does not want to read any possible replies and also does not want to get caught having seen the messages. There are many scenarios. The only point is that you shouldn't be involved with any guy who has any issues like that in his life. So, if you have any idea who he is, you should back off him and let him deal with his issues. Staying involved will only bring you problems, and make her problems worse. Take it as a blessing in disguise - this girl pointed out a guy not worth talking to because it looks likely that: he has severe commitment issues, has a lack of respect for the women in his life, or is a drama queen. None of these qualities make a guy worth pursuing as a date. She helped you out with her message. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted April 13, 2015 03:43 PM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
Maybe her boyfriend left his okcupid account open and he read the messages and sent a quick message to everyone he was talking to. You shouldn't be so mean to other women in your accusations - you don't really know what they are going through. Support other women - don't bash them. Maybe she's pregnant and can't really leave him because she needs the support. She likely deleted the account because she does not want to read any possible replies and also does not want to get caught having seen the messages. There are many scenarios. The only point is that you shouldn't be involved with any guy who has any issues like that in his life. So, if you have any idea who he is, you should back off him and let him deal with his issues. Staying involved will only bring you problems, and make her problems worse.
I have no idea who it is. She's the one bashing me and accusing me of talking to her bf when I have no idea who this guy is. I would never talk to someone with a boyfriend. If her bf is cheating on her then she should dump him, that's what I would do IP: Logged |
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