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Topic: Need insight; which house should I use?
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LostSoulRebecca
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posted April 20, 2015 03:51 AM
  
Need help. Appleberry or any other who has time and knowledge...I asked, will they stay together? Which house should I look? Which planets should I consider to be representer of them? ANY HELP would be much appreciated!  p.s. If anyone wantS, I can do tarot reading as exchange. Just make a thread in Personal Readins with my name and I will be there! Thank you!!  IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
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posted April 21, 2015 12:03 AM
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appleberry
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From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 21, 2015 12:13 AM
It is difficult to find the houses for this, because I'm not sure how you factor into this question. If it's a spying question––which is possible with this format of question––then the answer is likely to be flaky and inaccurate. If there is a deeper, underlying question that you are hoping to know––such as "Will he be single again soon so I can have a chance with him again?"––then we need to ask that question instead. If I just answer as is, I'd say this should be an 11th and turned 7th house question (which would aptly put you in their 11th house), then they would be Lord of the 11th: Mercury (in their 12th in Libra–also fitting); their relationship would be the turned 7th/radical 5th: Jupiter (in their 2nd in Leo). There seems to be enough to say that they could stay together but it won't be without challenges. It seems like they value this relationship. I'm not 100% certain I'm using the correct houses for this one, but if I am it seems like you accept this relationship. If not, then I think there is a deeper, underlying question that might be throwing me off... which is common in questions about old flames and their new partners. IP: Logged |
midnightvenus
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 21, 2015 12:17 AM
@appleberry since she was involved with the guy before, shouldn't the 7H be his house?
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appleberry
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From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
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posted April 21, 2015 12:27 AM
Confused...He is your ex.
She is your friend.
He is your friend.
Together (as a couple) they are your friends.
He and She are a couple.
Is all that correct? If you are asking about him, then he is your 7th... if the question stays the same, then it's likely a spying question that I won't answer correctly. If you're asking about them as a couple, then I think 11th fits best. If she is your friend, but he is not your friend, then she is the 11th and he is the radical 5th... which might make more sense because then you're not accepting the relationship, but showing your wanting him back. IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
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posted April 21, 2015 12:50 AM
First, thank you for effort.*** EDIT *** Does this makes any sense?
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LostSoulRebecca
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posted April 21, 2015 03:13 PM
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appleberry
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From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
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posted April 21, 2015 03:21 PM
Yes, it does. But I think you should have asked an underlying question that was nagging at you, maybe a question about him exclusively. I'm not sure what your ultimate goal with him is. It doesn't seem like you want to be back with him at all - just that you want him to like you more, or somehow prove your worth over her. It seems like this is also an ego question. You want him to want you, going back to her was a slap in the face, maybe. You don't want him back, I think. But you want the negative feelings to stop. You think you will feel better if they are no longer together. I might be totally wrong, but if any of that is right this isn't a question about them. The problem is how to feel better despite anything that either one of them is doing.
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appleberry
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From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 21, 2015 03:25 PM
Keep in mind that you are the Sun... at 29˚... things are about to change. You have POF in the first house–a fantastic sign. The moon's final aspect is a trine to Pluto–things will work out fine. Maybe there will be some major transformation, but I think it will benefit you in the end. IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
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posted April 21, 2015 04:52 PM
Appleberry, I have no idea, how you saw all this in chart, but it’s just amazing, how accurate you are!*** EDIT *** But what you have said about changes (me being Sun at 29 deg) … it’s very interesting that you have mentioned this. Four people have told me so far, that there should be major changes in my life soon (this year’s late spring, early summer), so there must be something on this... May I only ask – what should POF in first House mean (you have mentioned that this is a good sign) and this transformation that you saw in chart; do you maybe see where this transformation would take place (as in which matters, fields – job, love, personal growth… ) Thank you so much! Please, feel free to open topic in Personal Readings if you will ever need a reading!
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appleberry
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From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 22, 2015 02:47 PM
I see a bit more where you are coming from now. She possibly fits more the 7th house (as a kind of opponent) than he does... it almost seems like you're more focused on her than him. And, it's clear how this is not so much a spying question but something that really is affecting you personally. I do think you shouldn't worry about this so much. You are not this guy's protector and he's likely with her because he's got some strong life lessons to learn––no reason to get involved with that cuz people learn the way they are supposed to learn. All you can do is be there for him when it's done. POF: "in a horary chart this Part can typically identify a place where something is gained or where matters are likely to improve." The first house is all about you, so you benefit from the POF. It doesn't answer the question, but it is a benefic influence for you. Transformation - I'm guessing related to maturing in the love arena... how to deal with situations like this more effectively so that you don't suffer internally so much because of the acts of others that you have no control over...maybe, learning how to let things go and focus on yourself. The points are that it is 'internal' and related to 'romance'.
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LostSoulRebecca
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posted April 22, 2015 03:43 PM
Again, thank you, appleberry. I really do hope that the time has come for me to make some progress towards maturing in love arena. I really do. In a just one year I was twice put in a position of being left behind for someone else so there were some strong lessons for me to learn in a past year for sure. I only hope that now my time has come. Thank you for help! p.s. Feel free to leave Q for tarot/leno reading in a Personal Readings if will ever need one. IP: Logged |
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