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Topic: Should I be weary of his comeback?
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ikja
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From: London, UK (GMT - 5 hours ahead)
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posted May 03, 2015 07:41 AM
  
Hey guys,My ex and I had quite a Pluto influenced relationship which resulted in the death of our relationship. I'm definitely no longer THAT "girl" and I am making attempts to heal the sources of my pain. Yay for progress. However, about a month ago, one of my spiritual guides said that it was likely that I could have the relationship I wanted with my ex provided that I stood on my own two feet and made myself "whole" - I feel as though I have been getting there, but now I'm nervous.... I asked the horary chart: Will X come back into my life within the next six months? I was also looking to contextualise his return and the reason for it. So, in the chart: 1. I'm Mars and he is Taurus. Unsurprisingly, I am in his house which shows an interest, but I'm also in detriment and therefore, not functioning properly. At this point, I would say that although I may be somewhat interested, I am rather shut down and emotionless towards him and perhaps Mars' inability to function illustrates that. 2. His significator's applied trine to the co significator (moon) suggests that he would be perhaps interested in revisiting our relationship. This is also in a sign ruled by Taurus, which means that he is receiving it. 3. However, I note that he is in Gemini which is ruled by Mercury. His 5th house is ruled by Virgo/Mercury which suggests that he is interested or will still be interested in someone else if he returns to my life. However, Mercury has just left his sign and is about to leave his house, which suggests that the person he is interested in may pull away and as she is on her way into Gemini... Her own sign, I get the feeling that he will be on the rebound. 4. Given the issues in our relationship, it's interesting that he is in my 8th house. Now I'm not sure whether that means that he would be seeking to heal our problems and put an end to the rift (although he may be on the rebound). 5. Funnily enough there's a separating square between my significator and my 5th house ruler which is interesting. * * Hmmm. What do you guys think?
Is this a reasonable assessment of the potential situation? Have I missed anything? 
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hannaramaa
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posted May 03, 2015 09:17 AM
Moon is alllmost via combusts and Saturn is just barely out of the first, even though it doesn't meet the technical requirements I feel it represents the semi-shaky footing you were talking about in your post initially. I also saw Moon trine Venus, and Venus sextiling Uranus, so I think its possible he will re-enter the picture, however as of right now he looks like he's not wanting to get too serious. Mercury I believe is opposing Saturn and Venus is in the 8th house. I only looked briefly so I didn't see how Venus aspected Saturn, but I just felt he would be secretive about his intentions regardless of what they were. Him being in the 8th house in Gemini could point to that as well as that house ruler opposing Saturn in Scorpio. He might just want sex but I didn't feel that initially so it may just be a bonus perk for him. He seems to have control issues, maybe paranoia and wants to control what you know in some way. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 03, 2015 09:21 AM
Mars isn't aspecting a lot so I'm not paying as much attention to it, but I notice both Moon and Venus aspecting Uranus and I feel this means you two like to rebel against the other and this brings out the control issues even more. You're like a rubber band and may find it hard to relax in the relationship and you like each other because you're so similar maybe but those similarities also cause friction. If I had to give you guys another metaphor its like a wrestling match when you're in a relationship together but the feelings are very strong and you each have a tight hold on the other, like you feel you belong together but can't figure out how to make it work so you're both happy.I could be wrong though. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 03, 2015 09:28 AM
Heheh my 3rd post! I guess this one is just speaking to me. I was going to say Mercury in Gemini between you two might not be another woman (although he IS Venus, certainly enjoys women pursuing him vs. not) it may stand for communication issues between you. Even so, if she is another, you also have the Sun behind you which may mean someone is interested in you or that you will eventually have the confidence to deal w the situation by the time it happens. I think Sun in his first house means he's soaking up the attention he's getting right now and its purely an ego thing. It isn't as lasting as the bond you two have.IP: Logged |
appleberry
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From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 03, 2015 12:19 PM
-- <My bad I was looking at a different chart at the time>I agree that Mercury might be another interested in him. The moon's final aspect is a trine to Venus... but a fair amount to deal with until then. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 03, 2015 12:43 PM
Wouldn't mutual reception be Moon in Libra Venus in Cancer?IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted May 03, 2015 02:48 PM
I was under no illusion that a reconciliation would be easy tbh, but AB... Your 'a lot to deal with until then' feels like it is spot on. I'm not sure how it will play out, but emotionally I feel like I have dealt with so much in the last month.Hanna! Your analysis of the situation is also spot on. The last time we actually spoke, he gave off the impression that he didn't want any serious and that was the last straw for me. Your analogy is right, there is a lot of love but because we both have fire moons... At times it is a battle of the ego!!! He is probably a lot worse than me. I think he gets defensive because I can see through him and I challenge him. So when you say he wants to control what I know, it's true. I don't even mind you having a lot to say on it, at least you feel connected lol - thank you for your input x IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 03, 2015 03:32 PM
You're welcome, probably because it reminds me a lot of me and someone. I'm triple fire and so is he. I was going to say he probably means what he says, that he doesn't want something serious but he rebels against the relationship because he feels seriously about it lol! So I think in a way he doesn't want to promise something he can't deliver...I didn't look at Jupiter though so let me get on that.  IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted May 03, 2015 05:09 PM
I just wonder if I am going to be strong enough, if he does return. HR, the fact that you said that the sun was behind me and I would have the support feels me with some comfort! XIP: Logged |
ikja
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posted May 04, 2015 01:47 PM
Does the moon give any indication or provide a time frame in relation to his return? I can see it is in a cardinal sign and send succedent house.Are we looking at 14 weeks would you say? (Acknowledgement thay freewill may play a part too). IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted May 06, 2015 09:28 AM
Bumping to find out more about timing IP: Logged |
appleberry
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From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
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posted May 06, 2015 05:06 PM
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Originally posted by ikja:
Bumping to find out more about timing
I usually judge by the moon, which is cardinal/succedent (usually weeks). There are many things coming up, the opposition with Uranus in possibly 3.5 weeks might be disturbing. IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted June 02, 2015 03:21 PM
I think I'm being disturbed lol - 3.5 weeks later!!!!  IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted June 24, 2015 03:08 AM
Appleberry, you were right about this tbh xIP: Logged |
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