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Topic: Why is he not responding?
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erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 05, 2015 11:47 AM
  
 This is a chart of a romantic interest but really a friend, 7th or 11th house? We've known each other eight years and in and out of our lives.
I know he has finished rehabilitation for his drug abuse several weeks ago...I sent him messages since then but he hasn't responded. I know he has read them because my phone says he has received them and read them. Why has he not responded and will he soon?
(My intuition says he has a woman, anyway if he does, he does!!!)
I know he is in a bad spot he is Mars in detriment in the 8th house!!! He is probably focused on income, since he hasn't worked for several months!
There is no reception between our significators and no aspects.
Venus receives Mars/Sun, but no aspect so maybe its not a true reception?
Moon is void of course so perhaps I won't hear from him for sometime?
I noticed both are main significators are in Terms of Saturn rx...it is interesting but not sure what to make of it...perhaps indicating some blockage/obstacle. Thanks for anyone taking a look. IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 05, 2015 11:57 AM
If I take him as the 11th house, Leo, he is the Sun no aspect between us but Sun will square Jupiter, Sun receives Jupiter and Jupiter is a benefic planet ruling the 3rd house...so 3rd house is communication...IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 2241
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 06, 2015 07:01 PM
I will use 11th. For me it was not a question of 7th if you weren't already involved. The only other choice for me would have been the 5th (which actually works out better at first glance), but since you've been friends for 8yrs... I think 11th serves better. First I see him interested in someone, so I agree that there could be a woman in his life. I see her in his 12th though, so unless they know each other from some kind of rehab, institution, or something... I'm not sure what that is here. I don't see her reciprocating much though, but there's still a possibility of them coming together. The most interesting thing is that Moon is close conjunct SPICA, which protects it from the Via Combusta. And the Nodal axis (though the true node is here and we should be looking at the mean nodes) is on the AC/DC axis. It almost seems like a good thing for you that he does not respond... like you're being protected from something... Something appears to be quite special about this situation... you'll have to keep us updated if you figure anything out. IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 07, 2015 03:10 AM
Hi appleberry (nice name)...you are a good reader. In a way I am relieved if he has another woman. And I will tell you why:
We've known each other for eight years and twice he had girlfriends and both times he leaves me hanging when he likes a girl...which to me doesn't really mean a true friendship, does it to you? How I see it is that he jerks me around...when he is single what does he do? He comes crying to me and then tries to romance me. I did reciprocate twice before but I shouldn't do it anymore. If he does have a g.f. then I think I may close the chapter in our history. I am pretty fed up with it.
I do love him but I am interested in a serious long-term relationship!
I will definitely update...!So is Jupiter the woman he likes? IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 2241
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 07, 2015 02:41 PM
Lol... makes sense now... sometimes I hesitate to say things because I can't see how it will be possible, but then the stories come out and everything makes sense... Yes... better then to let him be someone else's problem... you can be a spectator on the sidelines and relax instead...I do think she is Jupiter...
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