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posted May 09, 2015 08:55 AM            

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I'm Mercury in my own house and the first aspect I noticed was me opposing Saturn, and that Saturn is in his 12th house. I didn't make a scene when I deleted him at all - just did it, and I think this represents me just trying to shy away from him. It's also a pretty good indicator that I'm controlling the urge to say something to him. Venus in Cancer being in my 1st house - finding it hard to let go, or at least that's how I'm feeling! ETA: Mercury is also squaring Neptune in an applying aspect, so there is a lot that I don't know about his life, maybe? Neptune is in his turned 4th, but my 10th, which is weird because I wondered if it had to do with his work. But his 4th would be family related...

In this chart I am using him as the 7th. He's in the turned 9th house in Leo. If we were to use the 9th house meanings of "law and ethics" and with Jupiter being there I feel reinforces this, he feels justified in what he is doing and it's out of pride?

Jupiter is sextiling my significator Mercury in an applying aspect (in this instance I'm not sure how to take applying since the action in question has already happened - thoughts?) Jupiter is ALSO trining Uranus in an applying aspect, so I think this furthers my feelings that he is doing it to somehow counter my deleting him.

Uranus is in my 11th house and his 5th (in Aries no less, and we are both Aries!) This could indicate my hope that things were different between us or changed, and maybe indicates our rebellious nature, but I also wonder if Uranus in his turned 5th means he sees this as a game? Or would that be more Jupiter applying to Mercury since it's Gemini related?

On a separate note, would Sun and Mars behind me indicate two different men, and two different men "chasing" me (in the near future)? Or can we not incorporate them into this chart since it's a separate matter.

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posted May 09, 2015 09:12 AM            

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I was reading Tripod's basic horary lessons and if I'm understanding right (well, I understand half of it) Leo is a sign of long ascension (whatever that means) and thus an applying sextile would actually act as a square. This makes more sense considering the question, so I would take it to mean he is not happy about the separation either?

Or does it mean that because he's in Leo, this is something he's considered for awhile? (Tripod mentioned an emphasis on signs of L.A. show a course of action that is solid and unhurried, while signs of S.A. mean an impulsive action. I'm in Gemini which is fitting because I did do it sort of impulsively...) Oh! Maybe he was waiting for me to say something before he did, and now that he made his private that's kind of like a message, like "it's done."?

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posted May 10, 2015 10:56 PM            

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Using ascension makes things quite complicated because it is geographically and temporally/seasonally dependent... I tested it before as well, and found that it threw my accuracy off... so I don't bother with it... it does seem like it would affect timing though, so maybe I should look into it again specifically with timing in mind... The elastic-band theory seems like it would affect timing significantly...

Re: the chart...
Kind of looks like he did do it for that reason... He's still in your third though, so that's a good sign regarding the friendship...

Moon is just about to change houses though, so something about the scenario is about to change...Going into the 9th might be about revelation, so perhaps he'll reveal the real reason to you...

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posted May 11, 2015 12:15 PM            

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He won't be able to do it directly to me if that's what you mean. I blocked him and changed my phone number.

I guess it is just hard for me to accept we're just friends, but I'm not sure why when I don't feel excited or deep feelings for him.

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posted May 11, 2015 04:43 PM            

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Maybe you just feel betrayed somehow...?

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posted May 11, 2015 05:27 PM            

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Sort of, yeah

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posted May 12, 2015 09:14 AM            

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Hey appleberry! So something that changed is I think he's in a relationship. He deleted his OKCupid account and I notice these girls that he's befriended on Facebook (I had seen it while we were friends, I'm not a big creeper) all have this one girl in common. So...that's that. Weird how it doesn't feel "over" even knowing that.

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posted May 12, 2015 03:11 PM            

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I guess that was the revelation...

He's only important because you make him important. Let the importance fade away and you'll feel better about it...

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posted May 12, 2015 04:31 PM            

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Yeah I know

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