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Topic: Will he think I'm fat
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 12, 2015 07:32 PM
  
I'm meeting a guy for the first time for a date on Thursday and I'm wondering if he'll think I'm fat. I'm freaking out because I've gained 18 lbs. I'm 5'3 and 118 lbs..Do I use the 6th house since this is a health-related question??  IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 2307
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 12, 2015 07:59 PM
He's in Sag/ 2nd house.... I'd say he'll think ur beautiful...IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 12, 2015 08:05 PM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
He's in Sag/ 2nd house.... I'd say he'll think ur beautiful...
You're not just saying that to make me feel good I hope >.<... IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 12, 2015 08:06 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
You're not just saying that to make me feel good I hope >.<...
Ah wait Sag is ruled by Jupiter  (((, the planet of fat IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1329
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 13, 2015 02:54 AM
118lbs in the UK is 8 stone?
That is not fat. Not even in the slightest.IP: Logged |
appleberry
Moderator Posts: 2307
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 13, 2015 03:27 AM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Ah wait Sag is ruled by Jupiter (((, the planet of fat
Most models apparently have Sag rising... IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 13, 2015 04:24 AM
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Originally posted by ikja:
118lbs in the UK is 8 stone?
That is not fat. Not even in the slightest.
I am just worried that he might think that though... Some guys like really skinny girls and I'm just average, not stick-thin like I once was before I gained some weight. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1329
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 13, 2015 04:42 AM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I am just worried that he might think that though... Some guys like really skinny girls and I'm just average, not stick-thin like I once was before I gained some weight.
Firstly, he has never seen your 'before' weight so this 'after' weight is all he will ever know. The issue lies with you and you can either strive to be 18 lbs less again or start loving the weight you are currently at. Bearing in mind that you are still quite young (23?), you're body is still probably going to undergo a few more slight changes. Secondly, I'm going to say this... If he doesn't like you for who you are RIGHT now, then you are better off without him. You definitely can't go into a relationship caring so much about what the other person thinks of your body. It's your body. I'm sure guys prefer confidence over body type. Good luck and be yourself x IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 13, 2015 04:50 AM
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Originally posted by ikja:
Firstly, he has never seen your 'before' weight so this 'after' weight is all he will ever know. The issue lies with you and you can either strive to be 18 lbs less again or start loving the weight you are currently at. Bearing in mind that you are still quite young (23?), you're body is still probably going to undergo a few more slight changes.Secondly, I'm going to say this... If he doesn't like you for who you are RIGHT now, then you are better off without him. You definitely can't go into a relationship caring so much about what the other person thinks of your body. It's your body. I'm sure guys prefer confidence over body type. Good luck and be yourself x
Thank you. He doesn't seem like he's just into looks. He's so down-to-earth and he's actually so similar to me. We were born on the same day 5 years apart. He might be worried about his looks too haha. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
Knowflake Posts: 1575
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 23, 2015 07:35 AM
I was going to say what Ikja said! If you want to lose weight for YOU then do it. Don't do it for anyone else. And, so, how did it go?! (I know... I super nosey! :P) IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 23, 2015 11:31 AM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I was going to say what Ikja said! If you want to lose weight for YOU then do it. Don't do it for anyone else. And, so, how did it go?! (I know... I super nosey! :P)
It went well, I'm seeing him later today 
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appleberry
Moderator Posts: 2307
From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted May 23, 2015 06:40 PM
More guys seem to complain about women being too thin, rather than too average. Most guys tell me I need to gain weight when I'm at a weight I feel best/healthiest... Guys appreciate the curves more than we like to carry them...IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 265
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 23, 2015 07:14 PM
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Originally posted by appleberry:
More guys seem to complain about women being too thin, rather than too average. Most guys tell me I need to gain weight when I'm at a weight I feel best/healthiest... Guys appreciate the curves more than we like to carry them...
I know, I'm just used to being skinny so it's hard :/ IP: Logged |
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