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posted May 26, 2015 07:23 PM            

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hello everyone. I am new to horary and i was wondering if someone could help me out on this question if possible. Hopefully i did the chart as this is my first horary chart posting. whomever decides to help me thank you in advance :-)
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posted May 26, 2015 07:40 PM            

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Saturn is in the first house - looks like a no.

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posted May 26, 2015 07:55 PM            

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We had a really bad break up and he was my first love I wish we could get back but its ok I wish him the best. Thank you for reading.

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posted May 26, 2015 08:33 PM            

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Actually Saturn in the 1st doesn't always mean a "no", it just airs on the side of caution. Moon is sextiling Venus and applying so you very well could get back together, just not as soon as you want is most likely what Saturn is indicating. I think he still has feelings and you have feelings since you both are being represented by water signs, but he is either traveling right now or focused on something else and hibernating from the relationship. Since you are represented by Mars here I would think you will initiated getting the ball rolling. He is trining Chiron in an applying aspect so I think his feelings have been hurt by something you said, maybe? (or will, since it is applying.....) The vibe I am getting is that he sees you have some kind of power over him and he is learning about himself through this relationship, and it's not over yet.

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posted May 26, 2015 08:54 PM            

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oh okay i'm a really a beginner in astrology and trying to learn. i am shocked (seriously )about the whole power part that i have over him. any chance i could get an explanation on what that could possibly mean? every time i have been around him there is a strong connection which i can't explain and i have told him that i never could explain it. i feel that if i initiate it i am scared for the fact he might be angry about it. with his feelings i did say some pretty mean things and did some bad things in the breakup ( i cheated). and i truly regret doing that because i will say he was the best thing that ever happened to me and i could possibly say that if i didn't do what i did we could of possibly of still be going as a couple. and by the way i never knew he was learning himself through our relationship that is very interesting. I really do appreciate you taking the time and reading this for me i really do :-)

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posted May 26, 2015 09:03 PM            

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I don't know that he knows he's learning about himself but him being in the 9th house of spirituality and higher learning, it just seemed that way to me.

I think you have power over him because a) you're represented by Mars and your ASC is also in Scorpio, to me Scorpio just seems like to stronger sign compared to Cancer who is more sideways and absorbs, whereas Scorpio is more forceful and gives/emits more in a way.

I figured you rocked the boat because Moon (you) is aspecting Lilith the "bad seed" lol.

I also just noticed the Sun is very close to you but didn't catch if it was combust or not. Anyway, if you are still scared don't do it. Never do anything when you're scared because fear is an ego driven response. If you want the truest outcome you should do it when you are less fraught with emotion and more centered. It doesn't mean you have to wait 'til you don't feel guilty or you don't feel anything (by the way that also describes Saturn in your 1st. This was a learning lesson for you too) just until you're not nervous. When you approach someone in these situations (or any, really) energy is a BIG factor in how they receive it.

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posted May 26, 2015 09:12 PM            

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its just i am afraid that he wouldn't want to try again so pretty much rejection. When he left i seriously balled my eyes for weeks the day that he did my grandma called me in as being "sick" but in reality because i told her he broke up with me and i'm a libra and he is a leo lol. i honestly want him to initiate the contact to get it started because to me that shows he wants to but that is just me lol

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posted May 26, 2015 09:16 PM            

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I don't think he will, I think you'll have to because you were the offender so to speak. But you two are in the same sign of Mercury along with Mercury being in that house, who I assume is the other ...guy? Is he still around?

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posted May 26, 2015 09:26 PM            

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the original man i cheated on him with no but after we broke up i got into a relationship with another and a lot of our fights revolved around J. currently i am in the process of dissolving the relationship and was asking about if me and J would reconnect because i wanted to get that second chance and with time apart from each other maybe our relationship could work this time because when we were together we were both in high school and honestly i was just plain young dumb and stupid.

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