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Topic: Really weird but important question
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 277
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 01, 2015 11:13 PM
  
I haven't left my house in days because I feel too fat. I don't want people looking at me. I have a therapist appt on Thursday morning that I'm going to so I can talk about this, but I wnat to leave my house before Thursday. I wanted to go to the store tonight but I'm afraid people will think I'm fat. I'm 5'3 and 118 lbs. This chart has Sag rising and a Sag moon which makes me feel like I am fat and I might as well not leave. Double Jupiter  ((((  IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1369
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 02, 2015 04:38 AM
What is your question?From what you've said there are many, many, many versions of this questions? * Should I leave my house?
* Will members of the public think I am fat?
* Do I need to lose weight?
* Will I make it to the appointment on Thursday? On a side note, your weight seems to be an issue for you. Horary aside, are you doing anything to 'feel better about yourself'? I'm not too sure what the background story is to your weight gain, but if it really seriously affects you... You owe it to yourself to make changes (not necessarily physical ones), but go and talk to someone about how you feel....? Not just a therapist, but a trusted friend? IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 277
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 02, 2015 04:45 AM
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Originally posted by ikja:
What is your question?From what you've said there are many, many, many versions of this questions? * Should I leave my house?
* Will members of the public think I am fat?
* Do I need to lose weight?
* Will I make it to the appointment on Thursday? On a side note, your weight seems to be an issue for you. Horary aside, are you doing anything to 'feel better about yourself'? I'm not too sure what the background story is to your weight gain, but if it really seriously affects you... You owe it to yourself to make changes (not necessarily physical ones), but go and talk to someone about how you feel....? Not just a therapist, but a trusted friend?
My question I guess is generally the second one you wrote: Will strangers think I'm fat? My weight is an issue. It's a huge sore spot for me. I'm always self-conscious about my weight whether I'm super underweight of overweight or normal weight. I am in a rough place now and have no friends to turn to, so my therapist and family are the only ones who I can talk to who understand my issues. I've struggled for years with my weight and I'm only 23. It's hard to not fixate on my weight, but hopefully my therapist can help me. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1369
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 02, 2015 06:16 PM
Honestly, I think the answer is no. They will not think you are fat.
In terms of selecting a house in this situation, Appleberry's thread suggests that public opinion should be represented by the ruler of the third house (http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000560.html)Therefore, I'm looking for a applying and 'easy' aspect from Saturn to you (Jupiter or Moon). There are none, unless someone can correct me??? Apple or Hanna? X IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 277
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 02, 2015 08:19 PM
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Originally posted by ikja:
Honestly, I think the answer is no. They will not think you are fat.
In terms of selecting a house in this situation, Appleberry's thread suggests that public opinion should be represented by the ruler of the third house (http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000560.html)Therefore, I'm looking for a applying and 'easy' aspect from Saturn to you (Jupiter or Moon). There are none, unless someone can correct me??? Apple or Hanna? X
I know it seems so silly, but it's important to me. Thank you for answering. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 277
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 02, 2015 08:34 PM
quote:
Originally posted by ikja:
Honestly, I think the answer is no. They will not think you are fat.
In terms of selecting a house in this situation, Appleberry's thread suggests that public opinion should be represented by the ruler of the third house (http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000560.html)Therefore, I'm looking for a applying and 'easy' aspect from Saturn to you (Jupiter or Moon). There are none, unless someone can correct me??? Apple or Hanna? X
Saturn conjuncts my co sig the moon at 3 degrees
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