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Topic: Not asking for a reading just some pointers and guidance
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whitewitch111 Knowflake Posts: 2807 From: Hillsboro, OR, USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted June 24, 2015 07:14 AM
I asked if my roommate is having feelings for me that are beyond sexual. We have been having an affair behind my boyfriend back for quite some time now, and I'm so confused of R(roommate)'s true intentions. So the first thing I notice is that both our significators, mine: Jupiter and Moon, and R's: sun and Mars, are conjunct in different houses and signs, I take this as an unwillingness to truely open up to each other. Since his significators fall in my bf's sign and house, I think his reasons are for that. And I think my reasons being in the ninth house are his past rejections. My boyfriend(B) I notice is in his own sign and house, as Mercury which is also being squared by Neptinr(illusion) from the third house, so he has believed me thus far. My significators are conjunct Venus which lies in the eighth, all in Leo, R's sign, so I think I feel deeply for him, deeper then he feels for me. But also Venus is ruling the 11th and sixth houses so, so far this has been a casual no strings attached type hook up. However it is being trined by Uranus from the fourth house( we live together) but also since it is his other sign, I believe a surprise has come to him, perhaps feelings? Saturn is conjunct the Asc, this has been this far kept on the downlow, and it has restricted both of us immensely, I fear when B finds out since both Jupiter and Moon are squaring Saturn. Moon and Mars are sextile, so I think the potential for feelings from him is there, and back to the moon trinin for Uranus, could this mean he will approach me soon? How did I do? IP: Logged |
appleberry Moderator Posts: 2360 From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 27, 2015 09:25 PM
I would have used 7th house for him because things have already been consummated, so even if you already have a boyfriend (who I would use as 2nd house in this question - when you speak of both then the one you are 'committed' to in an official relationship becomes the 2nd). I would change true node to mean node (go back to chart settings) because it's possible True Node is at the same degrees as Mercury adding detail to the question. Mercury is in his own house and sign showing someone who pretty much only thinks of himself. He doesn't aspect you either, and he's in the sign of your detriment. I suspect he doesn't really care about you as much as you think... Your bf is Saturn Rx in your 12th and it's the final aspect of the Moon with a square - I would expect he's already suspecting something and this is not going to end well. You also square him at 10˚... I think you're treading water right now... He's just returned to critical degrees in Scorpio... Once Saturn goes direct it will oppose Mercury (though maybe not because I think Mercury will be gone by then)... but that hints at something awful happening between the two of them. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 335 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 28, 2015 05:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by whitewitch111: I asked if my roommate is having feelings for me that are beyond sexual. We have been having an affair behind my boyfriend back for quite some time now, and I'm so confused of R(roommate)'s true intentions. So the first thing I notice is that both our significators, mine: Jupiter and Moon, and R's: sun and Mars, are conjunct in different houses and signs, I take this as an unwillingness to truely open up to each other. Since his significators fall in my bf's sign and house, I think his reasons are for that. And I think my reasons being in the ninth house are his past rejections. My boyfriend(B) I notice is in his own sign and house, as Mercury which is also being squared by Neptinr(illusion) from the third house, so he has believed me thus far. My significators are conjunct Venus which lies in the eighth, all in Leo, R's sign, so I think I feel deeply for him, deeper then he feels for me. But also Venus is ruling the 11th and sixth houses so, so far this has been a casual no strings attached type hook up. However it is being trined by Uranus from the fourth house( we live together) but also since it is his other sign, I believe a surprise has come to him, perhaps feelings? Saturn is conjunct the Asc, this has been this far kept on the downlow, and it has restricted both of us immensely, I fear when B finds out since both Jupiter and Moon are squaring Saturn. Moon and Mars are sextile, so I think the potential for feelings from him is there, and back to the moon trinin for Uranus, could this mean he will approach me soon? How did I do?
I'm not judging by or anything, but why don't you just break up with your bf? If you like the other guy then you should just be happy with him. Just break up with your bf and everything will be much easier
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whitewitch111 Knowflake Posts: 2807 From: Hillsboro, OR, USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted June 28, 2015 07:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by appleberry: I would have used 7th house for him because things have already been consummated, so even if you already have a boyfriend (who I would use as 2nd house in this question - when you speak of both then the one you are 'committed' to in an official relationship becomes the 2nd). I would change true node to mean node (go back to chart settings) because it's possible True Node is at the same degrees as Mercury adding detail to the question. Mercury is in his own house and sign showing someone who pretty much only thinks of himself. He doesn't aspect you either, and he's in the sign of your detriment. I suspect he doesn't really care about you as much as you think... Your bf is Saturn Rx in your 12th and it's the final aspect of the Moon with a square - I would expect he's already suspecting something and this is not going to end well. You also square him at 10˚... I think you're treading water right now... He's just returned to critical degrees in Scorpio... Once Saturn goes direct it will oppose Mercury (though maybe not because I think Mercury will be gone by then)... but that hints at something awful happening between the two of them.
Thank you apple berry, I hope you don't think I'm a selfish **** .... I love them both, but for different reasons it's so confusing... So you see a fight between them? IP: Logged |
appleberry Moderator Posts: 2360 From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC Registered: Jun 2011
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posted June 28, 2015 12:22 PM
I think the fight is below the surface. I think it may not happen. I wonder if there has already been tension you don't know about. I don't think badly about you, but I do think you're stirring yourself up a nightmare to deal with later... Your be likely feels all of this and isn't bringing it up. Things tend to explode at some point. IP: Logged | |