posted July 11, 2015 07:15 AM            

He seems interested a little too fast without even knowing me, so my question is if whether or not he's interested me romantically/relationship wise.
I'm signifying him by the 7th house. Our sigs don't aspect, but if I use co-sigs then our co-sigs (Sun and Moon) sextile.

posted July 12, 2015 04:35 AM            

The Sun is in your first house which to me shows an interest. It is also sextile (but separating) your co sig which suggests a past interest in a relationship perhaps, which has dwindled in intensity over time???? - not sure.

Mercury (you) is also in the your first house which suggests that your main focus at the moment is you and not him, you're not particularly very interested in a relationship with him. However, both of you are in Cancer which means that you are both receiving the situation and are perhaps open to it - talking about it, but not actively attempting to pursue meeting up or taking the relationship further.

posted July 12, 2015 05:07 AM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
I personally wouldn't use 7th house with this one I don't think, because you haven't met him. Even though the aim (perhaps) is to get to a partnership, as he doesn't have that title yet and has not had it in the past... I would use 3rd house - Sun as ruler.

The Sun is in your first house which to me shows an interest. It is also sextile (but separating) your co sig which suggests a past interest in a relationship perhaps, which has dwindled in intensity over time???? - not sure.

Mercury (you) is also in the your first house which suggests that your main focus at the moment is you and not him, you're not particularly very interested in a relationship with him. However, both of you are in Cancer which means that you are both receiving the situation and are perhaps open to it - talking about it, but not actively attempting to pursue meeting up or taking the relationship further.

My answer - Yes, but not very strongly.

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I'm just always wary of guys. Past experiences have taught me to be on guard if they seem too interested to quick. He called me today and oh my god he talked (typical of his Leo sun) and talked for so long.

He is the one who keeps pushing way hard to hang out. He's being the aggressor here which I normally like, but not when it's coming from a guy I perceive as a player...

As for our sextile... we don't have any past history with eachv other. He just added me on Thursday. I wonder if he just changes his mind about women quickly lol.

posted July 12, 2015 06:31 AM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
When I said past, I meant recent past - like days.
He may be involved with someone as his 7th house significator (Saturn) is trine and applying him.

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posted July 12, 2015 11:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Lethargic-:
Ikja, do you use the 7th house only when some form of relationship /communication has been established (I.e friendship)?

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posted July 12, 2015 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Lethargic-:
I see like an ex, right? So then- would I use the 3rd or 5th house for a crush (someone I know from class but haven't spoken to much)? Sorry for intruding your post sun.

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posted July 13, 2015 12:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Lethargic-:
I'm going to try it out on a chart I posted.
And don't worry we're all learning here! It seems that the topic of houses brings mixed messages so I'll just find what works/makes sense to me atm.

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posted July 13, 2015 02:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Lethargic-:
Ikja, do you use the 7th house only when some form of relationship /communication has been established (I.e friendship)?

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I used the 3rd because from the information SA gave, the relationship with this person was like 1 sided. Yeah, she thinks he is cute, but she didn't say she FANCIED/LIKED him a great deal and also she hasn't met him. So, 5th house to me was too much and the 7th house also. That's for partnerships, exes etc. relationships that have quite a complex or hard to define element to them.

He seems to be an electronic "pen pal" at present. Someone SA has only exchanged messages with (communications) and that's why I went for 3rd. I think she has also posted about someone she had spoken to online before (or someone else has) and Apple went for 3rd probably for the same reason.

posted July 13, 2015 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
I used the 3rd because from the information SA gave, the relationship with this person was like 1 sided. Yeah, she thinks he is cute, but she didn't say she FANCIED/LIKED him a great deal and also she hasn't met him. So, 5th house to me was too much and the 7th house also. That's for partnerships, exes etc. relationships that have quite a complex or hard to define element to them.

He seems to be an electronic "pen pal" at present. Someone SA has only exchanged messages with (communications) and that's why I went for 3rd. I think she has also posted about someone she had spoken to online before (or someone else has) and Apple went for 3rd probably for the same reason.

The general rule is to use whatever house you think fits - that's takes a while to get the hang of; and I still don't think I've cracked it tbh lol

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