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Alia
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posted August 14, 2015 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's my chart for the event .
He has to make a choice between me and his current partner and he said he need some time until mid october

I don't see main signif applying but sun and moon are so is it possible that I could say the chart means yes he ll choose me..? if she's in the picture what would her significator be?

Thanks in advance ~ God bless

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ikja
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posted August 14, 2015 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This chart is a little confusing to read, but only because I think it could be interpreted in so many different ways. I am not sure which one is correct.

First of all, Saturn is in his 1st house and I've read that when this is the case in a relationship horary, it can often mean 'no' or a delay in a response received. Perhaps Saturn here is illistrating your exes desire to take his time with his decision only. However, given the rest of the chart, I also think that it means 'delay' and also 'no, he won't choose you' but I wouldn't put my life on it.

One way of reading the chart:

You are Venus (ruler of ascendant) and your CO significator (representing emotions or subconscious - I would argue) is the moon. Your ex is Mars, ruler of the 7th house. As you can see, there is no aspect between these two planets.. However, they are both in Leo, which is a good sign.

His ex gf would be represented by Mercury (I think), and as you can see... Once again there is no aspect between them. They are not even in the same sign which suggests to me that he perhaps is pulled towards you a little bit more.

Another way of looking at the chart is to say that his ex is Venus and you are the Moon. Therefore (as explained above), it might be that he is interested in her... But also you, because again... You (the Moon) are in Leo too. As a result, I would say that if this is the correct way of reading the chart, he won't choose either of you.

Also regardless of scenario, whoever is Venus... You or his ex... Being retrograde means that you could change your mind about the situation - even if he does choose you.

Additionally, regardless of which scenario applies, it seems that you are not seeing the situation clearly. Perhaps you don't have all of the information about his ex girlfriend or maybe you're failing to consider the strength of their relationship in some way?

Horary aside...

Take it from someone who has been there and got the scars from a similar situation... When a guy has to take time out to decide between you and another woman, start to distance yourself and itake his decision with a pinch of salt (if he comes back). If a guy cannot choose you straight off the bat and actually has to weigh up his options and your good qualities AND he tells you this - that he needs time... Start the process of moving on.

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Alia
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posted August 14, 2015 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thnx for ur reply ...
It is complicated... He's victim of abuse
She's his wife for 29 years ,,she's violent and hits him

I pray he takes the decision that is best for his well being and leaves her no matter if he ll be w me or alone but away from her. I think she may be saturn (usually represent the wife in horary ..?)

So u don't think sun and moon applying may b a substitute for main significators as a yes?

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ikja
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posted August 14, 2015 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think so - no.

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Tofu addict
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posted August 15, 2015 02:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tofu addict     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The main significators, Venus and Mars, do make a conjunction as Venus is in its retrograde course. There are hurdles along the way before they meet though. But this conjunction might be significant for the outcome

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Alia
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posted August 15, 2015 03:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Tofu..!

What is the orb of the conjunct.? Or should I ask when signif will come into orb?

True about the hurdle he's going thru a very tormented phase and I will drive away for 8 weeks so he ll have his space

Is the other woman represented in the chart? What is her signif ? thanks again for ur input

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posted August 15, 2015 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tofu addict     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars is at 3 degrees, Venus at 23, on its way to meet Mars, as you can see , the MOon and the sun are in the way, it is not a clear cut conjunction.
He is also represented by the Sun, is in conjunction with the Moon in the chart, could be his current partner, all the parties are there so to say,
I would not give up hope , be there for him when he sometimes cannot be there for you, be constant.
I did the chart on my own software, the POF is right on the ascendant, which is a nice touch for a good outcome for you.

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Alia
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posted August 15, 2015 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks again Tofu 💕💕💕💕💕💕

The only way I can be there for him is do what he asked me that is to wait for him to be ready and go do my thing and stay strong

I will go away leave town for this period so I won't be tempted to contact him or ask him to see him when he needs clear mind to take this life changing decision


Thanks ! I will give feedback by the deadline

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