posted August 14, 2015 05:15 AM
This chart is a little confusing to read, but only because I think it could be interpreted in so many different ways. I am not sure which one is correct.First of all, Saturn is in his 1st house and I've read that when this is the case in a relationship horary, it can often mean 'no' or a delay in a response received. Perhaps Saturn here is illistrating your exes desire to take his time with his decision only. However, given the rest of the chart, I also think that it means 'delay' and also 'no, he won't choose you' but I wouldn't put my life on it.
One way of reading the chart:
You are Venus (ruler of ascendant) and your CO significator (representing emotions or subconscious - I would argue) is the moon. Your ex is Mars, ruler of the 7th house. As you can see, there is no aspect between these two planets.. However, they are both in Leo, which is a good sign.
His ex gf would be represented by Mercury (I think), and as you can see... Once again there is no aspect between them. They are not even in the same sign which suggests to me that he perhaps is pulled towards you a little bit more.
Another way of looking at the chart is to say that his ex is Venus and you are the Moon. Therefore (as explained above), it might be that he is interested in her... But also you, because again... You (the Moon) are in Leo too. As a result, I would say that if this is the correct way of reading the chart, he won't choose either of you.
Also regardless of scenario, whoever is Venus... You or his ex... Being retrograde means that you could change your mind about the situation - even if he does choose you.
Additionally, regardless of which scenario applies, it seems that you are not seeing the situation clearly. Perhaps you don't have all of the information about his ex girlfriend or maybe you're failing to consider the strength of their relationship in some way?
Horary aside...
Take it from someone who has been there and got the scars from a similar situation... When a guy has to take time out to decide between you and another woman, start to distance yourself and itake his decision with a pinch of salt (if he comes back). If a guy cannot choose you straight off the bat and actually has to weigh up his options and your good qualities AND he tells you this - that he needs time... Start the process of moving on.