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Topic: What will he think of me if I message him?
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 24, 2015 06:38 PM
  
I met this guy on a dating site three years ago in February 2012 and our conversation hit it off from the start. The only problem was that he lived 8 hours North of me in San Francisco. In April 2012 I went to SF to celebrate my 20th bday and to meet him for the first time. We actually had a great date on the day of my bday, complete with a kiss overlooking the Golden Gate Bridge. When I came home from the trip I really wanted to make it work, but he said it couldn't because we lived far. I lost contact with him shortly after, but I've never stopped thinking about him. In the horary Sag rises and is also where the Moon is. I know the first house describes ME and the moon is MY co-sig, but it's odd because he happens to be a Sag sun. I would guess I'd use the 11th to describe him since he was kind of a friend/acquaintance albeit not a close one, but someone I sort of liked. If I use the 11th to signify him then he's Mars and Mars doesn't aspect my sig Jupiter; if I use the 5th then he's Venus which also doesn't aspect Jupiter. The only reception is between our co-sigs the Sun and Moon and his co-sig thr Sun conjunct my main sig Jupiter. Does this mean he won't be angry with me messaging?  IP: Logged |
Maximus
Knowflake Posts: 43
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 24, 2015 08:02 PM
Hello dear SunAscendant!
Please allow me to share, how i calculate relationship releated questions!
Ascendant You
Descendant Him (ALWAYS the other person)
*What we think about the other person is relative Descendant (7th) is always the other person/thing/company (no matter if we are friends(11th) or romantic lovers(5th) 11th/5th houses show the quality of our friendship or love What he thinks about you / Quality of Your relationship shows the aspects between 1st and 7th house lords
(Trines, friendship) (Square, conflict) etc. Moon (+ aspects on moon)
shows the mental state
(mars/angry , saturn/depressed etc.)< !ATTENTION!
=> VENUS is retro now! So if You even do contact him, the relationship won´t last long ======= -I will continue on that horary tomorrow-
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 24, 2015 08:37 PM
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Originally posted by Maximus:
Hello dear SunAscendant!
Please allow me to share, how i calculate relationship releated questions!
Ascendant You
Descendant Him (ALWAYS the other person)
*What we think about the other person is relative Descendant (7th) is always the other person/thing/company (no matter if we are friends(11th) or romantic lovers(5th) 11th/5th houses show the quality of our friendship or love What he thinks about you / Quality of Your relationship shows the aspects between 1st and 7th house lords
(Trines, friendship) (Square, conflict) etc. Moon (+ aspects on moon)
shows the mental state
(mars/angry , saturn/depressed etc.)< !ATTENTION!
=> VENUS is retro now! So if You even do contact him, the relationship won´t last long ======= -I will continue on that horary tomorrow-
Hmm interesting that you use the 7th! Most people say 7th is for partners. Also, I'm not looking to date him since I'm sure he still lives 8 hours away. I just want to reconnect and start talking to him again IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 24, 2015 08:39 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Maximus:
Hello dear SunAscendant!
Please allow me to share, how i calculate relationship releated questions!
Ascendant You
Descendant Him (ALWAYS the other person)
*What we think about the other person is relative Descendant (7th) is always the other person/thing/company (no matter if we are friends(11th) or romantic lovers(5th) 11th/5th houses show the quality of our friendship or love What he thinks about you / Quality of Your relationship shows the aspects between 1st and 7th house lords
(Trines, friendship) (Square, conflict) etc. Moon (+ aspects on moon)
shows the mental state
(mars/angry , saturn/depressed etc.)< !ATTENTION!
=> VENUS is retro now! So if You even do contact him, the relationship won´t last long ======= -I will continue on that horary tomorrow-
Also, doesn't Venus retro mean going BACK to something? Like going back over it again? IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 24, 2015 08:54 PM
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Originally posted by Maximus:
Hello dear SunAscendant!
Oh, since you're using the 7th to signify him, he's the Moon. The Moon trines my sig Jupiter. I think if I messaged him he wouldn't be mean or delete the message. He seems like he'd be nice about it. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 24, 2015 09:29 PM
I messaged him ten minutes ago and he saw the message and hasn't responded yet lol. I knew I'd cave and do it.IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1804
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 02:38 AM
If he is shown by the 7th house ruler, he is Mercury.
You are Jupiter. The moon is YOUR co significator and I would argue is more representative of your emotions/state of mind.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 02:52 AM
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Originally posted by ikja:
If he is shown by the 7th house ruler, he is Mercury.
You are Jupiter. The moon is YOUR co significator and I would argue is more representative of your emotions/state of mind.
Isn't Cancer on the 7th IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 02:54 AM
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Originally posted by ikja:
If he is shown by the 7th house ruler, he is Mercury.
You are Jupiter. The moon is YOUR co significator and I would argue is more representative of your emotions/state of mind.
Also, I'm talking to him and apparently he's getting ready to go to a meditation retreat. He's a spiritual Sagittarian. He wants me to read his chart. I'm about to do synastry between us. IP: Logged |
Maximus
Knowflake Posts: 43
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 05:37 AM
SunAscendant!
You´re the boss, but i guarantee You that this realationship won´t last long You will separate/forget each other again on September 5th, when Venus becomes progressive.
I only have 5 years of horary/experience but
i guarantee You, that when Venus becomes progressive again, You WILL separate again.
(No matter how good the synastry will be ) I´ve been through this like 10 times or even more... IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 411
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 06:30 AM
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Originally posted by Maximus:
SunAscendant!
You´re the boss, but i guarantee You that this realationship won´t last long You will separate/forget each other again on September 5th, when Venus becomes progressive.
I only have 5 years of horary/experience but
i guarantee You, that when Venus becomes progressive again, You WILL separate again.
(No matter how good the synastry will be ) I´ve been through this like 10 times or even more...
Well I don't expect a relationship with him since he lives far. I probably won't talk to him again unt this weekend anyways. I wasn't hoping for a relationship since he said he's going away to a meditation retreat in another state. We probably will forget each other off and on but will always get back in touch one way or another. IP: Logged |
Maximus
Knowflake Posts: 43
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 25, 2015 07:24 AM
Ok. understood.IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1804
From: The Valley of Restoration
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 25, 2015 01:44 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Isn't Cancer on the 7th
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