posted September 12, 2015 04:49 AM            

Although I like her, and although there are sparks between us, I'm not sure if i should pursue something with her romantically even though i get the feeling that I met her for a very important reason. She makes it apparent that she likes me, but i don't know what her TRUE feelings are, or if this is something that is going to last. We have a strong mental bond and connection, so its not just "lust" thats being felt, at least on my part.

I'm honestly not the best when it comes to long term commitments. I lose interest easily and she admitted the same. But we both have also expressed the desire to find an "intimate"bond with someone, which is something I have been looking for recently since I now desire someone that can meet me on every level and stay in my life. I'm keeping my options open with different dates, but the spotlight is on her right now.

Every man deserves happiness y'know??

Heres the Horary chart. I woke up from a dream this morning and something "told" me that this is the perfect time to ask the question. I've been pondering on this for about a week now so please be as honest as possible.

posted September 12, 2015 12:46 PM            

Sun 19 Virgo
Moon 8 Virgo
Mercury 14 Libra
Venus 15 Leo
Mars 21 Leo
Jupiter 6 Virgo
Saturn 29 Scorpio
Uranus 19 Aries
Neptune 8 Pisces
Pluto 13 Pluto

Mean Node 1 Libra
Part Of Fortune 25 Leo

Im using the house system I was told to use. The regionmontanus system

posted September 12, 2015 01:27 PM            

She has Uranus in her 3rd house which gives me the feelinf she is going with it and not thinking too much about it, it was something that happened that she enjoyed. Intuitively I thought someine else randomly popped into the picture for her?

posted September 12, 2015 01:28 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I can, but I'm not experienced enough in astrology or horary to read applications or seperations in a chart. Those indicate if there is another event to happen OR if what was meant to happen has already passed.

No rush to put it up, maybe appleberry can read it in the mean time.

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posted September 12, 2015 01:30 PM            

Im confused. I just want to know if this is something worth considering or not.

posted September 12, 2015 05:07 PM            

Unfortunately, we often get that gut feeling when our suspicions are correct.

She is less interested in this than you. You are showing marked interest in a love manner, where she is showing her head interested in depth and sexuality of relationships, but she is about to change signs in her work/career/public arena so it is quite likely that she is feeling a pull more in that direction than anything romantic. I think she is about to experience a new, possibly adventurous, beginning on many levels and won't be able to give you what you want.

But, I would say as well that you should evaluate your own true feelings for her because it actually doesn't look like you are interested in her as much as you are interested in having some kind of relationship. Is it also possible that you are worried about your pride and this is part of the problem?

However, I wouldn't say that she is not interested in you. You are the one who seems to have broken the connection and walked away from her somehow, even though you still follow her. In the end though, it would take too much to fix things to what you would want. It might be better to just move on.

posted September 13, 2015 01:31 AM            

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Originally posted by appleberry:
Hi NYC...

Unfortunately, we often get that gut feeling when our suspicions are correct.

She is less interested in this than you. You are showing marked interest in a love manner, where she is showing her head interested in depth and sexuality of relationships, but she is about to change signs in her work/career/public arena so it is quite likely that she is feeling a pull more in that direction than anything romantic. I think she is about to experience a new, possibly adventurous, beginning on many levels and won't be able to give you what you want.

But, I would say as well that you should evaluate your own true feelings for her because it actually doesn't look like you are interested in her as much as you are interested in having some kind of relationship. Is it also possible that you are worried about your pride and this is part of the problem?

However, I wouldn't say that she is not interested in you. You are the one who seems to have broken the connection and walked away from her somehow, even though you still follow her. In the end though, it would take too much to fix things to what you would want. It might be better to just move on.

PS... it is actually MUCH harder to read a chart when the bottom legend is not there, or at least the degrees on the chart, because it's like having to read a chart in a different language and constantly having to consult a dictionary on every second word rather than read in a flowing manner with that information presented right there. We're just reading, not doing anything magical... so don't 'rip out some of the pages' and expect us to be able to read accurately and quickly.

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Its not that I'm not interested in her, its just that I'm not sure if she is someone who I should allow to be close to me on an INTIMATE level. I'm very scrupulous when it comes to people in my life these days especially being that i feel like my "time" is coming very soon (something I wanted to talk to you about later in the future appleberry). I want someone i know i can share my life with before that happens. Im very shrewd when it comes to the vibes I get from others these days.

I don't believe in marriage or traditional "relationships", BUT I have a true desire to fully connect with someone on every level. I've never been in love before. I would like to know what its like to feel like i can truly trust someone on every level and aspect, even though they may not be with me. I know it doesn't make sense, its one of those things I can't explain...

She contacts ME more than I contact HER, and with our deep dialogues I sometimes wonder where things between us are going. If she just wants sex then thats fine, I'll give it to her I guess lol. I find that funny because she told me she didn't want to have sex with me yet because she wanted to get to know me more. Not sure if it was because of someone else, but i feel she was genuine about this.

I asked this question because I wanted to know if there was a love potential in this, because I'm keeping my interests open. In fact, I met a girl today at a restaurant that I am considering to get know more, and i am actually talking to different women. The spotlight just so happens to be on the girl I'm talking about in this post.

I don't mind her being where she is in my life, but knowing me, I'm probably not going to be contacting her as much, if at all. I don't know if this is pride or not, just self-acknowledgment. I want to experience new kinds of relationships and bring my career goals into fruition. Not talk to someone that i feel is just "there". I agree that our worldly interests are apart of the reason. She says she wants me in her life, and i want her as well, but i don't know if I want to serve as the guy who's just "there". Nothing wrong with that I hope!

Maybe it is pride...

You said that there are many new adventurous doors waiting for her...you are really spot on! We've been talking about these things these past recent weeks. I hope for the same as me as well!! Im looking for the freedom i feel i rightly deserve.

posted September 13, 2015 09:02 PM            

I wanted to look at some tarot to see if I could clarify things in my mind a little bit about this first female that you are talking about. I just asked who she is. What turned up is telling me the following:

She is someone who understands things about life a great deal more than others, more than she should or more than one would imagine she could. She's quite creative. It shows up that she is the kind of woman that is worthy of marriage. She is just and fair or likes to always do the right thing. And the last part I'm not sure if it's a personality trait or describing life at the moment for her (I'm influenced by the horary which is what is confusing me)... she is either at a moment of quiet reflection in her life, thinking things over to see things more clearly, or she is the type of person to separates herself from the world to think things over from a calmer clearer perspective.

Does that make sense as this person you were asking about?

posted September 13, 2015 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by appleberry:
Hmmm... I'm a little worried about things because I didn't realize you had many people in your life who might be interchangeable when it comes to a reading, meaning I could interpret wrong...

I wanted to look at some tarot to see if I could clarify things in my mind a little bit about this first female that you are talking about. I just asked who she is. What turned up is telling me the following:

She is someone who understands things about life a great deal more than others, more than she should or more than one would imagine she could. She's quite creative. It shows up that she is the kind of woman that is worthy of marriage. She is just and fair or likes to always do the right thing. And the last part I'm not sure if it's a personality trait or describing life at the moment for her (I'm influenced by the horary which is what is confusing me)... she is either at a moment of quiet reflection in her life, thinking things over to see things more clearly, or she is the type of person to separates herself from the world to think things over from a calmer clearer perspective.

Does that make sense as this person you were asking about?

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The tarot was spot on. She's very distant, but she speaks to me all the time and she is highly intelligent. She often complains about people trying to take advantage of her and she wants to live a drama free life. She contacted me today on the phone and we spoke all day today. I just got off the phone with her not long ago and she said she wanted to hang out soon. But i think its best i still take your advice and keep it casual.

You were right when you said I need to sort my feelings out. Maybe I desire something that is soon approaching, but isn't yet ready to be revealed to me yet. Gotta give it time :-)

posted September 14, 2015 03:24 PM            

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Originally posted by appleberry:
I'm just still trying to make sure about the two people I see in the chart. The other girl is much younger and you are a bit more on the same page, possibly already intimate?

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The main girl I am speaking of is a few years younger than me. There are other women i speak to and have interest in, but they don't have my attention as much as this one.

posted September 14, 2015 04:12 PM            

The main girl I'm talking about? No, our interaction doesn't seem to be about anything material. She knows I'm currently unemployed and I am currently trying to establish my dreams with the little amount of money I have (for now). If anything she tells me that she admires my ambition. We usual talk about things to support one another because she has goals as well and we offer each other advice. Usually though our conversations are casual and fun, or deep and introspective. I would say she's someone who is supportive and engaging.

Like I said she contacts me more than I contact her, and when she does she tries to see how my day is going and if everything is alright. Then we just end up talking for the whole day (like football and stuff when its casual).

I keep my interests open with different women and maybe one of them popped up in your analysis. The one who i am mentioning in this thread is someone i have the most comfortable connection with so far. (what you said when you pulled up the tarot card seemed accurate)