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Topic: Will I find anyone on the dating site I'm on?
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tsubasa Newflake Posts: 22 From: Finland Registered: May 2012
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posted November 25, 2015 07:53 AM
Hello!It's been a while since I've been here, and I've been trying to take a break from horary itself since more often than not, the results are not what I've been hoping for but in the end, what it suggests is probably for the best at that given moment. So I found this date & time scribbled in my notes and for a little while, I couldn't recall what I had been thinking of. I pulled up the chart and remembered that on that day, I was thinking whether it was worth the effort to try and find someone (a romantic interest for an actual relationship, not a casual thing) on this dating site I've been on for a few months. So far I haven't been very impressed with the people there, although there have been 2 people that I have considered, but the other one was a dud so to speak and then I got a bit bored. Does anyone see anything in particular? Yes or no? The way I see it, it's a matter between Mercury and the Sun (1st & 5th house), but they're exactly conjunct - and thus combust? I'm not sure what to think. If I look at it as a 7th house matter (I'm not looking for a fling after all), there's an aspect between Mercury & Jupiter(?) but it's no longer an applying aspect.. so maybe not? I tried to follow the guidelines posted by Appleberry in an earlier topic, hope I got everything right! I'll be interested in any input, I could honestly go either way about this thing. Thank you for looking! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 59541 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2015 01:23 PM
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 27, 2015 10:21 AM
This is a weird looking Reigo chart... hmm. Mercury is combust with Sun right on it like that. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 27, 2015 10:23 AM
Sun is applying to Mercury, and Moon is sextiling Saturn. Is someone interested in you but you don't see it that way? I could be wrong but I think when Sun is so close to a planet like that it's almost too much optimism or something. Moon is sextiling Saturn though so the possibility you will meet someone exists. He'll be older and may come off boring or controlling, a serious dude. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 27, 2015 10:25 AM
Mercury and Jupiter are separating though. Whenever they're separating it's said to mean one opportunity or event already passed. In this event is it possible it's your ex? Did you break up with someone within the last 6 months?IP: Logged |
tsubasa Newflake Posts: 22 From: Finland Registered: May 2012
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posted November 28, 2015 03:36 PM
Ooo.. Fascinating! Thank you for your insight, hannaramaa. I didn't think of it until recently, but I thought I've been sensing something going on between an acquaintance of mine and he's a very shy/closed off person so I've been telling myself that I'm just imagining things/misunderstanding. I do feel like it's hard for me to consider that he is seriously interested.I haven't been in a relationship since 2012 - the last attempt I had was in early 2014, and even that was just a fling so nothing of the sort in the past 6 months! which is why I'd like to find a way to get into the groove again. Boring and controlling people are the ones I'm actively trying to avoid, ick. oh wait a minute. I dramatically cut contact with a very close friend in late July. We were 100% platonic, but it was a toxic relationship and in the beginning I felt like I did when I broke up with my ex. I don't think that'd count, but maybe it is still casting a shadow over me? I've kinda been watching what I write on the dating site and choosing pictures that don't look very recognisable to protect myself from her. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10703 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 29, 2015 01:05 AM
Yeah that can definitely be it! I write this not having reviewed what I said before (just a haze, or jist of it) but if it concerned the 7th house it doesn't ALWAYS have to be romantic. It is literally the other person, whoever that may be, as long as they're important to you in some way. Friends (I think, anyway, others may differ) can be included in 7th house though their primary is 11th. IP: Logged |