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Topic: Should I try to reconcile with him?
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SunAscendant
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From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 05, 2015 01:04 AM
  
I was dating this guy and didn't feel like we would be a good match, but to be honest, I think I was too pushy. I just want him to show a more voiced interest in me and want to actually be in a relationship. I think I shouldn't have called it quits. He seemed like it hurt him, but maybe he was just pretending. I'm very paranoid and can be insecure and am trying to change that so it doesn't affect my relationships anymore.*I'm Sun and he is Saturn and we're both in the 4th house Sag. We're in a separating conjunction which obvious points toward what happened between us recently... *My co-sig Moon is dignified being in Libra's face since it's at 3 degrees and therefore falls in the 0-10 first decan and is sextile him/Saturn in applying aspect. I think the face is the least helpful of the dignities though *I don't think contacting him would do anything even with my co-sig the Moon in applying sextile to him/Saturn. What do you guys think? This whole situation has kept me up countless nights. We have a good composite and synastry, so I suppose it's just transits that f*ck us up right now.  IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmaine
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posted December 07, 2015 01:03 PM
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hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 07, 2015 02:58 PM
Hey Sun  I would say it's too soon to tell. The Moon is nearly void of course. I feel the break up just happened, no? Wait until you aren't worrying anymore (on a soul level, feel free to think about it all you want) before deciding. Sun and Saturn are separating but still in the same sign so that's another affirmation the break up is fresh. On a non-astrological note, don't second guess yourself. You're you. Someone is going to love you for it, and it doesn't have to be this guy. There's nothing wrong with you or him but from your posts it sounds like he didn't quite meet your needs. Maybe try and find someone who is more sensitive and nurturing? Just a thought, hope it's not taken the wrong way. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 07, 2015 03:07 PM
So knowing what aspect a planet is going to make next partly has to do with the speed of the planets. In horary we know the Moon is the fastest one. The next fastest I would assume is Mercury. Mercury is moving through Sagittarius right now and the next planetary configuration in Sagittarius is the Vertex. At the moment of posting the chart the two were not conjuncting but because they are in the same sign and Mercury moves faster we know they eventually will. Mercury will also conjunct Pluto eventually because Pluto moves VERY slow. As it conjuncts Pluto there's a chance it'll also sextile Neptune in Pisces. I'm not sure if that made sense, but yep. It mostly has to do with the speed of the planets in order from slowest to fastest, and then how well you understand the distance between planets in each aspect (as in sextiles mean there's always one sign in between them, etc.) IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 478
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 07, 2015 03:56 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Hey Sun I would say it's too soon to tell. The Moon is nearly void of course. I feel the break up just happened, no? Wait until you aren't worrying anymore (on a soul level, feel free to think about it all you want) before deciding. Sun and Saturn are separating but still in the same sign so that's another affirmation the break up is fresh. On a non-astrological note, don't second guess yourself. You're you. Someone is going to love you for it, and it doesn't have to be this guy. There's nothing wrong with you or him but from your posts it sounds like he didn't quite meet your needs. Maybe try and find someone who is more sensitive and nurturing? Just a thought, hope it's not taken the wrong way.
Hi ! Yes it was fresh, it was this past Friday I think. I ended up trying to reconcile by asking if we could try again, but he said he needed to think about it. That was Saturday morning and it's now Monday and he hasn't said anything even though he's been online. It's difficult to accept that this might not end up how I want it to  . Thanks for the info on figuring out the next aspects of a planet! I really appreciate it. I'm going to see if I can figure out what happens here. I really appreciate the advice though. It's really difficult to not think that I'm the f*cked up one when a promising romance doesn't work. I'm hoping that with Venus transiting in my natal 5th right now that I'll find someone to have a good time with; I'm sure he will too since Venus is now starting to transit his natal 7th. Thank you again, I truly appreciate it
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