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posted December 14, 2015 05:17 PM            

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Ok, so on Saturday I am going to be meeting a guy I've been talking to for about a month or so. I decided that I'd let him pick the date and time of our meeting. Well me being me I threw a chart together..and oh my I'm not too sure I want to meet with him when he wants to. The only word to describe it would be intense and unstable..here I'll just show you. Of course I know there is always free will, but honestly anytime I've done these charts, things pretty much played out almost exactly how the chart predicted.

Right off the bat the 5th house ruler conjunting Uranus speaks of on/ off unstable emotions and romantic relationship (if one were to come about.) Mars opposing Uranus and squaring Pluto. I know they are seperating, but the energy is still around. Also Venus in Scorpio in the 8th house which to me feels like over kill on the Pluto energy I'm sorry. The moon with that conjunction to Uranus..and squaring Pluto as well?? All I think when I see this chart is drama. What do you guys think? Should I try to shoot for a later time for things to be a little calmer, or just say screw it and see what happens?

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posted December 14, 2015 07:46 PM            

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I'm not seeing it as all that bad...
I think you're judging it too much like a composite and not enough like an event chart.
Your main aspect is an applying trine... Good off the bat.
There is a lot of powerful energy but I see it as good and exciting.
Lights in the angles, as well as main significators.
The moons first applying aspect squares Pluto (but right away Mercury) which might be harsh, but it might just be passion... which is supported by other factors.

The moon separating from Saturn might be showing things pleasantly under control, which is perhaps what you wanted to keep...

Overall I get the feeling that things might start moving at a much faster pace once you meet in person. It might be scary, but it might be exciting. I enjoy those kinds of meetings so it wouldn't scare me... But we're all different. Do what's best for you. I see it as a good chart that I would 'go for' but it might get too 'romantic' too quickly for someone else.

Focus on the basics: Sun, Moon, and your two significators: Mercury (him) and Jupiter (you). And, remember that there is no perfect chart.

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posted December 14, 2015 08:47 PM            

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Thank you appleberry!!

And yes I do read these charts like composites, because in my observations some of them do play out like composites. But you're right I do need to step back and look at it a different way. Also funny you said it could get romantic right away. I'm pretty much in the air on what I want, but he says he's not sure if he has the time or energy to give to a serious relationship. I told him last night that a lot of my relationships start one way and morph into something completely different. And now that you've delineated the chart it may go a direction he doesn't want it to. Me, like I said I'm honestly all over the place. Right now I'm just going along for the ride...

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posted December 16, 2015 04:11 PM            

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Yes, def bringing composite ideas in can help. I also think transit because it is short influence.

Final moon aspect is a separation... Something to think about on the neg side actually.

Life is short though and it's meant for experiences...

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posted December 19, 2015 09:18 PM            

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Hey Appleberry!! So our meeting happened, but we were both late!! lol

So naturally it changed the chart up a bit. Not really the aspects, but the main significators which are no longer aspecting!!! But I will say we had a nice time and talked for about 3 hours or so before parting ways. Right now we are looking at what direction to go with this. What do you think? Still feel the same about it?

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