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SunAscendant
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posted December 24, 2015 02:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was seeing this guy from mid-November until about a week ago but had to call things off because my gut kept telling me that all his wishy-washiness and inability to be clear about anything were red flags I shouldn't ignore. He seemed upset because he said he felt guilty for allowing himself to hurt someone who was the only person who really understood him and knew what to say. I'm just wondering if he still feels like he let a good one get away too easily. I just want to know for peace of mind. I was stupid and thought that he could've possibly given me a disease, but then I remembered that he showed me his disease-free test results before we did anything. I was just overly worried as usual.

His sig is in detriment in my first house and trine Mercury/me. I'm going to guess he's either been having passing thoughts about me, or that sextile he makes to Venus is him thinking about how some new chick is nothing like me. He's conjunct the north node and Ascendant.

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Randall
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posted December 25, 2015 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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VestasLight
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posted December 26, 2015 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi SunAscendant
It's so hard to get anyone to respond/help here in the horary forums that it's almost discouraging.

I actually posted a chart with nearly the same type of question and our charts are almost identical, lol. If you look down this tread it's titled: Horary practice - check my work. You can see my interps for it.

The only difference is some of your houses are different than mine by a few degrees.

I'll tell you what I think BUT I'm very new at this so keep that in mind. I may be off on a few points.

He's definitely thinking about you and he's shaken up about it - hence the detriment. And I'm inclined to think that the sextile to Venus in your 3rd shows that he may have thought about contacting you. The chart you posted doesn't show the planet's degrees, so I can't tell if it's applying or separating.
Besides communication, the 3rd is also the house of the mind. With Venus in detriment here I think it describes your emotional/mental turmoil over the situation too. On a side note, with Saturn sitting in the 3rd I believe it may be showing reluctance to contact you (since it opposes the moon). Communication is somehow restricted or that it will be delayed.

With Chiron conjunct desc but in his 12th house, I'm inclined to think he's hurt but is hiding it or not consciously acknowledging it.

Breaking up sucks. Try to keep your head up!

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SunAscendant
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posted December 26, 2015 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VestasLight:
Hi SunAscendant
It's so hard to get anyone to respond/help here in the horary forums that it's almost discouraging.

I actually posted a chart with nearly the same type of question and our charts are almost identical, lol. If you look down this tread it's titled: Horary practice - check my work. You can see my interps for it.

The only difference is some of your houses are different than mine by a few degrees.

I'll tell you what I think BUT I'm very new at this so keep that in mind. I may be off on a few points.

He's definitely thinking about you and he's shaken up about it - hence the detriment. And I'm inclined to think that the sextile to Venus in your 3rd shows that he may have thought about contacting you. The chart you posted doesn't show the planet's degrees, so I can't tell if it's applying or separating.
Besides communication, the 3rd is also the house of the mind. With Venus in detriment here I think it describes your emotional/mental turmoil over the situation too. On a side note, with Saturn sitting in the 3rd I believe it may be showing reluctance to contact you (since it opposes the moon). Communication is somehow restricted or that it will be delayed.

With Chiron conjunct desc but in his 12th house, I'm inclined to think he's hurt but is hiding it or not consciously acknowledging it.

Breaking up sucks. Try to keep your head up!


Yep that sounds like him. His Pisces Moon was easily upset and shaken. The sad thing is that I tried so hard, way too hard to make him like me. I mean I know he did like me, but I'm not sure it was as much as he said he did. I showed too much effort and he didn't show enough. He said that he still wanted me in his life and maybe we could try later because it was the wrong time now, but I feel like it's only the wrong time when it's the wrong person, like he thought I wasn't the right one. I still have this silly hope that I'll wake up with a text from him saying he wants to try hard to show he cares, but I think that's just a naïve thought. Thank you for your interpretation <3. I suppose if it's meant to be something than I'll hear from him; I definitely reached out too often when we were talking, so I hope he'd be the one to do that this time.

Btw, Jupiter/him is in applying aspect at a 0-degree sextile to that Venus in the 3rd and applying aspect to a 2 degree trine to Mercury/Me. He is also is in applying aspect to the North Node and Juno.

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SunAscendant
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posted December 27, 2015 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I texted him today and said happy holidays. We texted for an hour and he mentioned he was glad I reached out. He was being so nice! He didn't ask to hang out though, nor did he say he wanted to be with me

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VestasLight
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posted December 27, 2015 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awe, sorry to hear that. But he still might be going through stuff. Give it some time and if you still have feelings for him, cast another chart and ask if reconciliation is possible.

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SunAscendant
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posted December 27, 2015 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VestasLight:
Awe, sorry to hear that. But he still might be going through stuff. Give it some time and if you still have feelings for him, cast another chart and ask if reconciliation is possible.

Do you say he's going through things because of the chart or do you just think that? I also have an opinion not based on the chart; I personally think he doesn't think I'm good enough >.<. I did a tarot read for myself and asked how he felt about me and got 4 of cups which suggests apathy, being unable to pick one and stick to it, unable to see something good right in front of you, disinterest and self-absorption

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CrabFromMars
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posted December 29, 2015 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrabFromMars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He is a Capricorn, run for your life or you will be used/lose money

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SunAscendant
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posted December 29, 2015 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CrabFromMars:
He is a Capricorn, run for your life or you will be used/lose money

What? His significator is Jupiter in Virgo. Also, in my natal chart Capricorn is on my 7th house and I have an Earth Grand Trine so I'm pretty positive I'll end up with a Capricorn. This guy's natal sun is Aquarius, but again in THIS horary he's Jupiter in Virgo

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CrabFromMars
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posted December 29, 2015 04:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CrabFromMars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SunAscendant:
What? His significator is Jupiter in Virgo. Also, in my natal chart Capricorn is on my 7th house and I have an Earth Grand Trine so I'm pretty positive I'll end up with a Capricorn. This guy's natal sun is Aquarius, but again in THIS horary he's Jupiter in Virgo

Ohhh sorry nevermind then.
I'm just "psychologically" traumatized by my cap ex's ice cold as*holeness

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SunAscendant
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posted December 29, 2015 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CrabFromMars:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by SunAscendant:
[b] What? His significator is Jupiter in Virgo. Also, in my natal chart Capricorn is on my 7th house and I have an Earth Grand Trine so I'm pretty positive I'll end up with a Capricorn. This guy's natal sun is Aquarius, but again in THIS horary he's Jupiter in Virgo


Ohhh sorry nevermind then.
I'm just "psychologically" traumatized by my cap ex's ice cold as*holeness[/B][/QUOTE]

Lol do you know horary astrology?

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