posted January 12, 2016 12:40 PM            

story > am a leo girl , alws had awesm libra frds and in fact a libra who got the tattoo of my name while proposing me ( we were nt even committed) ( jst fr an idea abt my chemistry with librans).

now i losst faith in rships/marriage / even friendships almost 5-6 mnths back and even before so i was against rships and marriage and would freak out at any proposals that my family or frds introduced to me .

now since my parents had enough of my excuses , without my consent , they met a family and literally loved them and asked me to meet dt guy n talk to him.

under pressure , and having a negative mindset about it , i shared pictures and talked to him and almost told him frustrated that this was nt my idea of marriage. i was in melbourne and he was in perth at that time , he still booked the tickets to come c me .

sounds like he is interested.hmm , but as i tried adjusting and becomng a little couple like , he told me it's jst a very arranged type meeting and he doesnt feel anything yet.

again he would talk to me for hours telling me things about his life and family and in the end telling me , i shouldnt think he has got feelings. finally when i started saying i know u dnt have feelings , he said > obviously i m interested otherwise why would i fly to melbourne on january 1st on double the normal price ticket?

hence> confused me all the time!

i was frustrated and confused as well.

but then , i met him , and after disliking for couple of minutes, loved being with him . he talked about everything- but marriage . so finally after getting enough confused i asked him and he said he will think about it.

after that , if i message , he will always call and talk for hours. if i get ****** off , he will explain his absence owing to work or smthing . but he also said i should nt stop meeting up others coz he needs time to make up his mind as he had a bad break up before. But , he also said one day that he wishes we had nt met through families and he would like to talk to me secretly and see if it goes somewhere. plus , he also said he wants to get married soon - possibly this year.

ALLLLL THIS IS SOOOOO CONFUSING ! i told him i have now fallen for him and want to marry him . he would change the topic and then make an excuse and say bye . if i force, he would say he really cant figure out wt does he want.

ok...from libran experience and horary , what do u think is going on in his head? i mean , atleast i should know if he didnt like me ? or if he liked me but needs time to confirm .

the question i asked was > what does he think about me.

thanks

(am a leo with a sagi rising. he is a libra with a cancerian rising . my seventh house hold a prominent venus (if dat makes any significance?)

posted January 22, 2016 03:40 PM            

update : finally after he had been postponing with -"i need sm time" , i asked him yesterday for atleast sm sign cz its been a month . well , he said > "i dnt knw why... bt .. i cudnt feel tht thing . and u can date others if u find smone gud."

am like ok . fine. lets nt drag it then and we say happy bye byes.

today i called him up. he called back. nd kept callng back... n hence we started since morning and talked for the whole day sharing our whole life stories..lolz.

so finally i again ask him today , since we talked this much , even after yesterday , wt does it mean ? can we atleast try having a fling or smthng ? he says a clear no and says there's nthng ( boy , why talk whole day then..lolz)

and then he says > "ethically" its nt right cz our families know each other and a casual fling wont ook graceful and would create problems and about his image at his home.

i feel there s smthng fishy...bt wt ? another girl ? or smthng he didnt like abt me ?