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Topic: Should i put an END to this friendship??
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NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 25, 2016 11:39 AM
If you guys are frequently in the "Personal Readings" section then you may have bumped into my question over there...I've been going back and forth with this for about a month now, and i keep getting the feeling that i should put an end to this 10 year friendship i share with a childhood friend. In many ways i feel like i have "outgrown him". I don't "click" with him (and his group) any more and I personally feel like I'm living in a completely different world than they are. Please give me some insight. I've even had a dream about this. IP: Logged |
appleberry Moderator Posts: 2846 From: Venusian Registered: Jun 2011
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posted January 25, 2016 12:33 PM
The phrasing of the question makes it a lil difficult to answer. I don't feel horary is there to make decisions for you, but to tell you the energy surrounding an issue so that your decisions can be guided by that energy. I feel like a deeper question was asked with this chart but wasn't stated. Did you really mean: Is our friendship over? Have we outgrown each other? IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 25, 2016 01:22 PM
There was no deeper question. I just want to know if i should simply remove this person from my life or not. Or if i've outgrown him. Maybe that should have been it IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 25, 2016 05:35 PM
So im guessing theres nothing that can answer my question?IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 582 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 26, 2016 07:22 PM
Venus/you and Jupiter/him (11th house) are in a 10-degree square and separated; have you guys already had an argument and stopped being friends?IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1631 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 27, 2016 02:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by SunAscendant: Venus/you and Jupiter/him (11th house) are in a 10-degree square and separated; have you guys already had an argument and stopped being friends?
We've had some disagreements. I have found myself distancing myself from him because I personally feel like i am "outgrowing him". He's a loyal person, i'll give him that. But i've also find him to be immature mentally. I have to constantly put him in check, and i don't have time for unnecessary stress in my life at this point. I feel like there is going to another dispute soon. And thats the thing. If there is, our 10 year friendship is more than likely to go down the drain. Wanted to see if this chart can give any advice. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 582 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 28, 2016 08:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by NYCdodger: We've had some disagreements. I have found myself distancing myself from him because I personally feel like i am "outgrowing him". He's a loyal person, i'll give him that. But i've also find him to be immature mentally. I have to constantly put him in check, and i don't have time for unnecessary stress in my life at this point. I feel like there is going to another dispute soon. And thats the thing. If there is, our 10 year friendship is more than likely to go down the drain. Wanted to see if this chart can give any advice.
I think your friendship is definitely not the best and might be dissolving. Perhaps it's for the best. BUT since you have the foresight of horary, maybe you can salvage the friendship if you really still care for your bud. IP: Logged |