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Topic: Will T message me back on Facebook this week?
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SunAscendant
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posted January 26, 2016 07:20 PM
  
Last night I was browsing on Facebook and stumbled upon this guy who looked like someone I had only met once. I messaged him and told him he looked like a guy I had a conversation with at a party a few years back that had an impact on me because of the advice he gave and how he spoke so eloquently. I also friend requested this random guy, but he deleted the request and has not messaged me back yet (I don't know if he's even seen my message). I wanted to know if he will message back because I find him attractive and would like to go out with him and have more profound conversations.-I'm moon in the 3rd house of communications showing me to be super obsessed with getting him to message me back. -I think he's signified by thr 3rd house since this question is about communication. If he is the 3rd house ruler then he is Mercury in the 6th house (appropriate) and is in a 5 degree applying trine to Moon/me. Does this mean he WILL message me back in 5 days/weeks/months? How do I figure out time when the significators are not in the same house?  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 27, 2016 02:00 PM
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ikja
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posted January 27, 2016 02:27 PM
I'm inclined to use your 7th house ruler for him, because it's confusing. You may have met him, but you're not sure. So it's a toss up between 3rd (stranger online IMO) and 11th (acquaintance). I think the relationship between moon and Saturn makes more sense, he may respond but more effort will be needed to make it happen.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted January 27, 2016 05:21 PM
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Originally posted by ikja:
I'm inclined to use your 7th house ruler for him, because it's confusing. You may have met him, but you're not sure. So it's a toss up between 3rd (stranger online IMO) and 11th (acquaintance). I think the relationship between moon and Saturn makes more sense, he may respond but more effort will be needed to make it happen.
Do you think it'll be this week? I know moon and saturn are square, but they're applying. How do I make more of an effort? Should I go stalk him lololol IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted January 27, 2016 05:22 PM
Oh also, he only LOOKED like someone I met. I realized the guy I messaged isn't him, but I would still like to talk with and meet this guy after looking at his profile. So basically he is an online stranger.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted January 28, 2016 08:31 PM
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ikja
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posted January 29, 2016 02:44 AM
Without looking at the horary for a sec, I think that you may need to abandon this approach of messaging strangers and hoping something will come of it. When people use Facebook, they aren't expecting to getting approached by a potential 'browsing' profiles. Maybe by weird females, but not ones that they think are sane and relationship worthy. Therefore, usually logic, I don't think that he will message back (I could be wrong), but it just doesn't seem like.You should utilise a dating app or one that is operates on the 'if you like me, contact me premise.' The very nature of Facebook goes against what you're looking for. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted January 29, 2016 03:04 AM
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Originally posted by ikja:
Without looking at the horary for a sec, I think that you may need to abandon this approach of messaging strangers and hoping something will come of it. When people use Facebook, they aren't expecting to getting approached by a potential 'browsing' profiles. Maybe by weird females, but not ones that they think are sane and relationship worthy. Therefore, usually logic, I don't think that he will message back (I could be wrong), but it just doesn't seem like.You should utilise a dating app or one that is operates on the 'if you like me, contact me premise.' The very nature of Facebook goes against what you're looking for.
I do use a dating app, but I don't think there's anything wrong with messaging a random guy guy on Facebook. We do live in the same city
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ikja
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posted January 29, 2016 08:09 AM
Ok, if you think it's ok. Each to their own.
I have nothing against it, I just think you have to be objective and perhaps consider the way it could come across to a GUY. Not a GIRL, a GUY. Trying to get a man the normal way is difficult enough, let alone through a dating app and then, there's just Facebook lol. That's going to a very tough feat.IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted January 29, 2016 06:12 PM
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Originally posted by ikja:
Ok, if you think it's ok. Each to their own.
I have nothing against it, I just think you have to be objective and perhaps consider the way it could come across to a GUY. Not a GIRL, a GUY. Trying to get a man the normal way is difficult enough, let alone through a dating app and then, there's just Facebook lol. That's going to a very tough feat.
I know people might find it odd that someone is hitting on them via Facebook, but this guy seems like the "nice guy type". Like he seems like the type who'd politely tell you he didn't like you instead of ignoring you; that is why I hope he eventually messages me back. I've checked the message and he hasn't read it yet. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 30, 2016 01:08 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I know people might find it odd that someone is hitting on them via Facebook, but this guy seems like the "nice guy type". Like he seems like the type who'd politely tell you he didn't like you instead of ignoring you; that is why I hope he eventually messages me back. I've checked the message and he hasn't read it yet.
It's odd he hasn't read it in three days but deleted the friend request. I would bet he's involved with someone already and the message got deleted maybe. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted January 31, 2016 03:54 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
It's odd he hasn't read it in three days but deleted the friend request. I would bet he's involved with someone already and the message got deleted maybe.
What makes you say he's involved with someone? Does the chart show? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 31, 2016 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
What makes you say he's involved with someone? Does the chart show?
Common sense, experience, but also because Moon is in his 9th house which made me think (and applying to Saturn) two things which is A - he is involved since the ASC is also his 7th, or B, you'll hear from him in awhile but itse been delayed hence the square to Saturn. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted January 31, 2016 10:51 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Common sense, experience, but also because Moon is in his 9th house which made me think (and applying to Saturn) two things which is A - he is involved since the ASC is also his 7th, or B, you'll hear from him in awhile but itse been delayed hence the square to Saturn.
Are you sure he's not the 3rd since I haven't met him and this is a communication question? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 01, 2016 01:01 AM
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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Are you sure he's not the 3rd since I haven't met him and this is a communication question?
Now that you say so, 3rd would be your co-sig and he'd be 9th since Uranus rules technology and that's it's base house. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 01, 2016 01:02 AM
Ugh what am I even saying... 11th is Uranus' house. Jupiter is the 9th house. Don't listen to me tonight lolIP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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From: California
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posted February 01, 2016 01:08 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Now that you say so, 3rd would be your co-sig and he'd be 9th since Uranus rules technology and that's it's base house.
Haha normally moon is the female co-sig, but she is my main ruler in this chart since Cancer rises  . Since Moon/me is in the 3rd/what I think is his house, I think it shows me very interested. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
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posted February 03, 2016 06:29 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Common sense, experience, but also because Moon is in his 9th house which made me think (and applying to Saturn) two things which is A - he is involved since the ASC is also his 7th, or B, you'll hear from him in awhile but itse been delayed hence the square to Saturn.
He messaged back last night (Tuesday). He said he was sorry and didn't know me (which I already figured out after I first messaged him last week). I tried to get a conversation going by introducing myself and mentioning something about what he's wearing in his profile pic, but he just looked at the message and didn't respond. I don't know if he will respond ever again. I was hoping we'd have a nice conversation and I'd ask him out so I could get to know him, but now I don't think that's a good idea. Sad life  IP: Logged |
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