Lindaland
  Horary And Event Astrology
  What will my next bf be like/how will we meet

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   What will my next bf be like/how will we meet
SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted March 02, 2016 03:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm Jupiter in the 9th and the future bf is Mercury sitting strong in Aquarius and in the 3rd no less. Moon (my co-sig) is in the 1st showing me to be very emotional. I think Saturn in 1st shows setbacks (it's been 2 years since I've had a bf because every guy I meet turns out to be a dud... so yes, definitely setbacks for sure). His co-sig the sun is also in the 3rd with his main sig Mercury but not conjunct. Me/Jupiter and him/Mercury don't aspect, but is there a translation of light maybe?

Appearance wise I'm guessing he'd have lots of Air in his chart and maybe a little water. He'd be very smart, likely good with his words and maybe even a teacher and/or into science. I'm guessing since it's the 3rd I'd meet him online since none of the other 3rd house things apply to me (no siblings at all or neighbors I talk to).

Timing?!?!

IP: Logged

SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted March 02, 2016 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump

IP: Logged

hannaramaa
unregistered
posted March 03, 2016 10:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I take Moon and Saturn in the 1st as there being delays because you aren't learning your lessons involving love. Mercury in your 3rd in Aquarius ...the guy who could be your boyfriend is different than what you want, maybe. But if I remember right I didn't see Mercury or Venus aspecting Jupiter (applying anyway).

IP: Logged

SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted March 03, 2016 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I take Moon and Saturn in the 1st as there being delays because you aren't learning your lessons involving love. Mercury in your 3rd in Aquarius ...the guy who could be your boyfriend is different than what you want, maybe. But if I remember right I didn't see Mercury or Venus aspecting Jupiter (applying anyway).

What do you mean my lessons? I thought Saturn just meant delays in general

IP: Logged

hannaramaa
unregistered
posted March 03, 2016 12:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SunAscendant:
What do you mean my lessons? I thought Saturn just meant delays in general

Saturn is also having to do with karma and maturity. You have to grow up emotionally hence the Moon.

IP: Logged

SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted March 03, 2016 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Saturn is also having to do with karma and maturity. You have to grow up emotionally hence the Moon.

I see. I know the chart isn't saying I will NEVER have a boyfriend... right?

IP: Logged

hannaramaa
unregistered
posted March 03, 2016 02:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not at all...moon is faster than all of the planets so it's bound to meet Venus, but not for at least a month (a - because I think it only takes Moon 28 days to cycle through all 12 signs, b - Saturn is in the first so it will be longer)

On another note, maybe live your life without casting a chart for awhile until you're able to cast them and take them with a grain of salt. If you want a relationship but the chart says "no" which do you think is right? You'll get what you ask for one way or another.

IP: Logged

hannaramaa
unregistered
posted March 03, 2016 02:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dp

IP: Logged

roseelima16
Newflake

Posts: 9
From:
Registered: Feb 2017

posted March 03, 2016 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for roseelima16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with hannaramaa. I think some delay will happen cause the Moon is also the significator of the situation and conjunct Saturn it'll take more time than what you want but probably necessary time for your emotional maturation. I think this is important because when we feel lonely sometimes we feel so desperate to find someone that we can end up going for a person that doesn't really match us.

Looking at the placements of the significators: his Mercury is separating from a conjunction to your Venus and your Jupiter is applying to an opposition to his Sun. So it doesn't seem you're gonna find him right now. But responding your question: Mercury in Aquarius represents a smart person, blessed with the ability of thinking and communicating out of the box, sharp minded but who strongly sticks to his points of views (fixed air) which can lead to inflexibility and stubbornness. To convince a person like that to change his mind, it's necessary to demonstrate very good reasoning. Mercury conjunct Venus indicates a person who tends to be very charming and captivating in communication. Mercury square Mars can make a person decide something and end up doing another completely different or even becoming verbally aggressive if provoked.

IP: Logged

SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted March 03, 2016 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by roseelima16:
I agree with hannaramaa. I think some delay will happen cause the Moon is also the significator of the situation and conjunct Saturn it'll take more time than what you want but probably necessary time for your emotional maturation. I think this is important because when we feel lonely sometimes we feel so desperate to find someone that we can end up going for a person that doesn't really match us.

Looking at the placements of the significators: his Mercury is separating from a conjunction to your Venus and your Jupiter is applying to an opposition to his Sun. So it doesn't seem you're gonna find him right now. But responding your question: Mercury in Aquarius represents a smart person, blessed with the ability of thinking and communicating out of the box, sharp minded but who strongly sticks to his points of views (fixed air) which can lead to inflexibility and stubbornness. To convince a person like that to change his mind, it's necessary to demonstrate very good reasoning. Mercury conjunct Venus indicates a person who tends to be very charming and captivating in communication. Mercury square Mars can make a person decide something and end up doing another completely different or even becoming verbally aggressive if provoked.


I suppose in January 2018 when Saturn moves into Capricorn is when I might get lucky? Two more years

IP: Logged

hannaramaa
unregistered
posted March 03, 2016 03:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn doesn't control your 5th or 7th house in this chart so it wouldn't influence meeting anybody romantically.

IP: Logged

SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted March 03, 2016 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Saturn doesn't control your 5th or 7th house in this chart so it wouldn't influence meeting anybody romantically.

It's in my first though, and it causes delays. When would the delay be over?

IP: Logged

hannaramaa
unregistered
posted March 03, 2016 03:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SunAscendant:
It's in my first though, and it causes delays. When would the delay be over?

The Moon is going to move on from Saturn waaaay faster than Saturn moves from sign. Sorry I can't give you exact timing but since Moon will hit those planets ahead of the 1st house it most likely signifies you'll meet people but it won't last, because Saturn would still be rotating through the 1st and that's the delay. Moon will hit Pluto in your 2nd though so fingers crossed for your shift in perspective.

IP: Logged

SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted May 04, 2016 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by roseelima16:
I agree with hannaramaa. I think some delay will happen cause the Moon is also the significator of the situation and conjunct Saturn it'll take more time than what you want but probably necessary time for your emotional maturation. I think this is important because when we feel lonely sometimes we feel so desperate to find someone that we can end up going for a person that doesn't really match us.

Looking at the placements of the significators: his Mercury is separating from a conjunction to your Venus and your Jupiter is applying to an opposition to his Sun. So it doesn't seem you're gonna find him right now. But responding your question: Mercury in Aquarius represents a smart person, blessed with the ability of thinking and communicating out of the box, sharp minded but who strongly sticks to his points of views (fixed air) which can lead to inflexibility and stubbornness. To convince a person like that to change his mind, it's necessary to demonstrate very good reasoning. Mercury conjunct Venus indicates a person who tends to be very charming and captivating in communication. Mercury square Mars can make a person decide something and end up doing another completely different or even becoming verbally aggressive if provoked.


I have a feeling I know who this person is. You described him to a "T" and his natal Sun and Ascendant are both Mercury-rules (he's a Virgo). The problem is that he refuses to give me a second chance (I broke up with him because I was going through a bout of depression, but he doesn't believe me). He definitely is stubborn and won't change his mind AND he was also really mean when I asked for another shot. Sounds like the perso the horary is describing. If it is him than I wonder what will change his stubborn mind and give me another shot... The situation looks bleak as of right now .

IP: Logged

SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted June 14, 2016 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone give me a time? I said January 2018 but I'm probably wring. That seems too far away to wait for a boyfriend... Surely it's before...

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 119236
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009

posted June 15, 2016 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, that's a really long time.

IP: Logged

Randall
Webmaster

Posts: 119236
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009

posted June 16, 2016 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Of course, he could be worth the wait.

IP: Logged

SunAscendant
Knowflake

Posts: 2725
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014

posted November 25, 2016 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
UPDATE as of NOVEMBER 2016: Since it's important to let people know what came true: In October 2016 I met a guy online (as I predicted) and we started dating. We are in a relationship. He doesn't have lots of air in his chart, BUT his Sun is right at 0 degrees of the AIRY sign of Aquarius, also, he IS in the science field as I predicted. He works for one of the best science research companies, so he's smart which is a given and which is also what I predicted. His significator Mercury is in Aquarius and he is a Capricorn-Aquarius sun cusp.

Some uncanny things I noticed right away were the abundance of EXACT aspects the horary chart made to some of his natal planets and points.

** I used 0 degree orbs, so when I say "exactly aspects" I literally mean exactly, sometimes to the minute!**

- His natal Venus exactly sextiles his horary significator Mercury.

- His natal Juno exactly conjuncts his horary significator Mercury.

- The horary sun (I use it as the co-significator of men) is exactly sextile his natal Ascendant/exactly trine his natal Descendant.

- His natal MC exactly conjuncts the horary Juno.

- I don't often consider minor aspects like the semisextile; however I feel it's important to mention that his natal Vertex conjunction exactly semisextiles the horary MC/NN conjunction to the minute, and we all know the Vertex and nodes are more often than not related to those life-changing and momentous fated/meant to be moments in life that you can't get away from experiencing.

- His natal moon exactly trines the horary Ascendant/sextiles the horary Descendant.

- His natal House asteroid exactly sextiles the horary Ascendant/trines the horary Descendant (the House asteroid in ANY chart be it natal, horary or synastry/composites often describe your living quarters/situation).

- Also (and this isn't related to the horary but rather our synastry) his natal Ascendant exactly opposes mine which means my natal Ascendant falls in his 7th/conjuncts his natal Descendant and vis versa! His birth time is also 100% accurate, not the default 12 pm time you use when you don't know a birth time and not an arbitrary time I pulled out of my a** either lol, it's a legit birth time and it matches milestone and life-changing events in his life like his college graduation and mother dying from breast cancer both in June 2014 and him getting his dream job at a prestigious company two months ago.

tl;dr: My bf's natal chart has exact aspects to this horary chart and we also have our natal Ascendants exactly opposite each other/our natal Ascendants conjunct each other's natal Descendants.

Also (and this is the craziest part) the next time Mercury conjuncted Jupiter was October 11th, 2016 and we met for the first time on October 14th, 2016 but had planned to meet October 11th but something had gotten in the way.

************************************************************************************
UPDATE AGAIN as of May 2018: So for some reason I was drawn to this chart today (Mercury is conjuncting my Sun and Uranus just moved into Taurus and is 2 degrees from my Sun so I suppose flashes of brilliant insight would be common today lol). He is represented in this chart by Mercury in the sign of Aquarius at the late 25th degree of Aquarius. This means that Mercury would be soon moving into the next sign, Pisces, very shortly (it moved into Pisces on March 5th, 2016 very early in the morning). Whenever a significator moves into another sign it means that whatever is signified by that particular planet will also "move" in some way and take on the characteristics of the next sign it moves into. When I asked this question my ex was still living in his hometown at the time obviously unbeknownst to me since I didn't know him yet, but when his significator moved into Pisces he indeed moved here to the city where we met months later in October 2016. His significator Mercury moving into Pisces is significant too because Pisces is the sign of the fish and is related to water/is a water sign and oddly enough he moved to a street named "Pescado" which is Spanish for "FISH" and he moved to a city with the word ocean in it's name; obviously both of these two things are Piscean to the max! This goes to show that you MUST always look at the literal meaning of the sign and also observe if the significator is about to change signs or has just entered a sign because as I said, a significator at the late degrees of a sign means it will soon be moving on and into the next sign which will show w/e signified by that planet as also moving, and a planet that is at early degrees of a sign show the person signified by that planet/significator as just entering a new situation.

Furthermore, he is located in my 3rd house which gives a North by NorthEast direction according to this site and also is related to the color orange. When I asked this question he was still living in his hometown which is a NNE direction from my home here. As for the color orange, I remember for a fact he was wearing an orange shirt the day we met. I am in my 9th house and the 9th house is related to a South by SouthWest direction and indeed at the time I asked the question I was in a SSW direction to him. The 9th house is also related to a light green color and indeed when I met him I was wearing a light green shirt; the 9th house also shows far distance travels and things that are far and we were in different states at the time I asked the horary, and thus considered far apart by horary standards.

Lastly, our significators Mercury and Jupiter were conjunct three times in 2016 and one of those times was October 12th, 2016 and we met for the first time on October 14th, 2016 but talked online for the first time on October 12th, 2016! Mercury/him was in a 7 degree separating conjunction from Venus and the last time Mercury and Venus had conjuncted prior to me asking that question in early 2016 was August 6th, 2015. Venus indicates women and his significator conjunct Venus could have indicated that August 6th, 2015 was the last time he was in a relationship or dating a woman and indeed throughout conversation I ended up finding out that he was seeing someone at that time and the relationship also fizzled out at that time too!

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2019

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a