posted May 15, 2016 05:03 AM
The ascendant is 4 virgo (ascendent in the lower degree can sign a question that is early and more has to develop in a situation before a question can be asked.)Yes,there is applying trine between your ruler and his.
You are sitting in 9th house...that house is sometimes seen as arrange marriage. Since you two discuss this marriage it could be seen as a type of arrangement before an acceptance of proposal.
Jupiter is in your first house, but sadly jupiter in virgo is the sign that is jupiter's detriment. Detriment is meaning of illness on some form. North node is in the 1st house with him and North node is the shadow/eclipse of "increase"..even though it's not conjunct it is in the 1st house with him.
There is a lot of Earth energy and also alot of mutable energy. So He might be grounded in his approach to marriage, but he is also open to changeability (which can either be good or bad)
You are applying sun...sun makes someone "invisible" (sometimes this is a detriment determined on question)...in love charts...Sun symbolize a male's sexual energy and venus represents a woman sexuality.
Venus is also in the 9th house with you.
So we have two planets that could be the sexual representation here or Sun might not represent his sexual energy.
I personally don't use the sun or venus to represent the sexual side for a "will X marry me?"
This brings it down to a specific answer...Yes I think he is genuine in what he is saying to you. He is being grounded with his approach. But, with so much mutable energy too there is a possibility of change. He's sitting in a sign that is detriment to him and it's in the first house.
At this moment in time I am leaning toward a "No, he won't marry. That is because something would have change in him, you, or the relationship. There is a possibility since there is trine applying but it might not be enough for the overall theme of the chart (detriment is also a symbol of discord.)"
That is just my two cent. But, this is just looking at the now. A lot can change in 6 years..things might get extremely better where marriage is right on the table and will happen.