posted May 17, 2016 02:01 PM            

So I asked if this person was truly sorry. He was someone I use to date who sent me a apology letter. But it being mercury retrograde I rebuffed them and decided to not go down that road.

I am represent Mercury in 9th in retrograde and Moon in 1st this implies my indecisiveness to accept their apology.

They're are Jupiter in Virgo in detriment my 1st house turned their 7th conjunct the mean north. So maybe he was thinking of trying to go the route of self improvement because it conjunct his significator.

Mars in my 3rd could be my anger that was expressed in the communication.

Neptune conjunct his asc could be information he was unaware of. Or some kind of self-deception.

posted May 18, 2016 02:02 AM            

I asked a similar question once and was told we use 9th house for apologies because it's the house of philosophy / higher learning and thinking. Although looking back we could ask if he truly regrets it and use the 10th house because that's Saturn's natural house, and regret is totally a Saturn thing.

Anyway, so to simplify let's just use 9th house. We have Venus ruling it and you can see Mercury and Venus are separating. I believe this to represent the sending and receiving of the letter but also your declination.

Jupiter is in Virgo in your first house to show he's thinking of you but he can't do much since he already extended himself so the ball is in your court.

posted May 18, 2016 02:06 AM            

Yes, you're right Mars in the 3rd is both your anger and the act of communicating. But I feel he brought up a lot of stuff you hadn't thought about in awhile so it's like fresh anger all over again, lol.