posted July 21, 2016 09:44 AM            

Posting for a friend who asked me to do so. Looking for more opinions. "He" refers to her long time husband, who is soon to be her ex. I am guessing this might be why we see Saturn trine Venus here, but am not quite experienced enough yet in horary to be absolutely certain and so want to check with you knowledgeable folks..

She is looking for confirmation or denial of her suspicion/intuition that he is cheating/with somebody else, as per the question in the title.

I have told her, based on the chart, that very possibly he is seeing somebody else, as Uranus is square the Sun and is on the cusp of the 6th which is the 12th from the 7th, his ruler Venus is opposite the Moon and quincunx Neptune and Pluto, indicating very likely that there is tension and a strong control dynamic, and probably something he isn't telling her, or which is about to be revealed (Moon in the 3rd opposite Venus as the release point of that Yod).

I also thought Lilith on the cusp of the 12th was telling; might not show in this chart.... but True Lilith was on the cusp of the 12th in my software. I think this one shows Mean Lilith.

I thought it was interesting that the Part of Fortune is in the 7th house, and I thought there were several indications that this was a joyful relationship for him somehow. It also seems likely that, given the 1st house Mars opposite the POF, as well as other indicators, she might be correct in her suspicion that:
a) he is with another man and
b) that this would give her an excellent, "fortunate," excuse to leave the relationship sooner rather than later (finalize the divorce)--which she does in fact want to do.

posted July 22, 2016 10:34 PM            

Uranus is planet of uncaring and unconventional spiritual rebellion in the 5th the house of fun, kids (big one) creation, talent, recreation, fun Sunny Love (5th is ruled by the Sun)

Her Venus or your Venus isn't really placed that bad

posted July 23, 2016 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Radium:
Uranus in hard aspect to Sun in Eight (House of Intimacy, Personal Power, Sex, Death, The Truth under everything, Primal instincts)

Uranus is planet of uncaring and unconventional spiritual rebellion in the 5th the house of fun, kids (big one) creation, talent, recreation, fun Sunny Love (5th is ruled by the Sun)

Her Venus or your Venus isn't really placed that bad

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It's not for me, as I said. I'm painfully.honest on these forums and if it were about.me I would tell you .

I figured Venus represented him as it is her 7th house ruler. I thought since she almost seems to want him to have someone else it might still indicate he's having an affair. It's happy and in the 9th...

posted July 23, 2016 08:01 PM            

By the looks of it I don't think he's cheating... Well aspected Venus and Mars..

Only thing is Uranus in 5th maybe he could be seeing other people but not really into anything affair like yet..like if something doesn't change soon between them then things will get bad.

posted July 31, 2016 12:40 PM            

So you said you think he may be with another man? Is that a possibility or a typo?

posted July 31, 2016 05:55 PM            

I realize now that you say so that it isn't in fact a yes or no question, but when I asked her if she meant "does he have someone else?" She said yes and I proceeded assuming that was good enough. Still learning. Maybe the question isn't clear enough. That would explain a few things actually...

But if we take it as a yes or no question which in essence it is, then I'm curious to see what you'll say about the chart.

posted August 01, 2016 04:21 AM            

Their rulers dont form any aspect, so im assuming that in their opinion there isn't much left to this relationship. The answer is no if it's a yes or no answer you want, but i believe it's "no, not right now, but in the recent past yes" lol.. If it's details surrounding that you want i'll give you my impression Take it for what it's worth, it's just my hunch and im not 100% on all of this yet (thats my disclaimer) lol

so first, mars is in her own sign, so clearly she's being or has been selfish (if i thought my guy was seeing some other dude i'd be acting selfish too)

i'm pretty sure saturn R in the first means the charts interpretation can be skewed

his significator is right up on mercury, but it's a separating aspect, i think mercury is the bf

they're both in leo, leo is very self centered, soooooo

her co-significator is the moon which is in opposition to them both

they're both aspecting neptune and saturn also in R.. to me it gives the impression they've recently decided to change their mind (retro) end (saturn and the fact that mercury and venus are separating) their deluded (neptune) affair

I say affair because the 5th house of flings is intercepted, that means the things inside are hidden in some way, in this case uranus is there, which is the primary representation for gay relationships

they're both in applying opposition aspect to the moon, maybe this is because she's just noticing it? or it's just coming out in the open

their planets are awfully close to the sun, not sure if combustion would apply here or not, i'm not to familiar with that

Does his relationship with the man involve some sort of travel or education of some sort? I'm just curious with them being in the 9th house

Now the sun, is she seeing someone else? I'm shooting in the dark here, but she has a separating aspect to the sun, was she seeing someone else? Or interested in someone else and he made her happier than her husband did (her mars aspecting jupiter, but its separating)