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Topic: Please help : is there connection romantic?
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DreamCatcher
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posted October 07, 2016 10:36 PM
  
Long story short- I've been with someone and I feel he' been lying to me. I have found a few clues, but he denies everything. I do know that he hung out with her 10/6 - and I want to know the nature of the connection If my instincts are correct , and if this is more than friendship . I feel he's lying to me....at any rate- with all the 8th & 5th house activity in this chart (and I'm not expert) I feel there is more than meets the eye...pleae help. Am I being deceived? Mars (the man) is exalted as well- so I am thinking he's really into this other woman? Am I TOTALLY off base? I'm a newbie  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 08, 2016 05:26 AM
Mmm...I think you're taking the relationship more seriously than he is. You're Mercury and Moon, he's Jupiter and Sun. He's in your 5th house, but you're in his 1st. Also, his 3rd house ruler is Saturn in his turned 12th. We can see you're mad at him with the Moon / Mars conjunction, and he's trying to keep the peace being Sun and Jupiter in Libra. I feel he's of the attitude "Women love me, I can't help it!" and maybe glossing over details you feel are important. Things will smooth out again - look how close Mercury is to Jupiter! Are you chasing him often?IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
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posted October 08, 2016 03:30 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Mmm...I think you're taking the relationship more seriously than he is. You're Mercury and Moon, he's Jupiter and Sun. He's in your 5th house, but you're in his 1st. Also, his 3rd house ruler is Saturn in his turned 12th. We can see you're mad at him with the Moon / Mars conjunction, and he's trying to keep the peace being Sun and Jupiter in Libra. I feel he's of the attitude "Women love me, I can't help it!" and maybe glossing over details you feel are important. Things will smooth out again - look how close Mercury is to Jupiter! Are you chasing him often?
Interesting! Thank you Hanna. I'm not really chasing him, but I feel this other woman has been into him for awhile. He insists I'm being paranoid. I guess I am? I'm so confused. I don't even know I want to be with this dude. That's half the problem.
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DreamCatcher
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posted October 08, 2016 03:31 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Mmm...I think you're taking the relationship more seriously than he is. You're Mercury and Moon, he's Jupiter and Sun. He's in your 5th house, but you're in his 1st. Also, his 3rd house ruler is Saturn in his turned 12th. We can see you're mad at him with the Moon / Mars conjunction, and he's trying to keep the peace being Sun and Jupiter in Libra. I feel he's of the attitude "Women love me, I can't help it!" and maybe glossing over details you feel are important. Things will smooth out again - look how close Mercury is to Jupiter! Are you chasing him often?
BTW- SO interesting about him glossing details over that I deem important. The literally is what happened. He lied by omission- and then he slipped and claimed that he didn't want to make me paranoid. But HELLO that makes it worse, because he still lied about going out for a beer with her, right? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 08, 2016 03:49 PM
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
BTW- SO interesting about him glossing details over that I deem important. The literally is what happened. He lied by omission- and then he slipped and claimed that he didn't want to make me paranoid. But HELLO that makes it worse, because he still lied about going out for a beer with her, right?
What did he tell you initially? IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
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posted October 08, 2016 07:50 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What did he tell you initially?
Ok so he works with this woman. I sense that she has a thing for him. Anyway- months ago I mentioned casually that I thought she had a thing fro him, and I was wondering if he was attracted to her. HE said no. I let it go. So two weeks ago, he was "working late", and I felt something was off. I was out of town at the time. I let it go. Then a few days ago he was talking about something that happened at work that night (I have a photographic memory BTW) so I remebered. Then he mentioned "yeah me ad M went out for a beer" . I called him out on it, and he claims that he knows I'm sensitive about her which is why he didn't tell me, which is BS because I don't make a big deal about it when he mentions her.
Does that clarify? LOL IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted October 09, 2016 04:20 PM
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hannaramaa
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posted October 09, 2016 08:42 PM
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
Ok so he works with this woman. I sense that she has a thing for him. Anyway- months ago I mentioned casually that I thought she had a thing fro him, and I was wondering if he was attracted to her. HE said no. I let it go.So two weeks ago, he was "working late", and I felt something was off. I was out of town at the time. I let it go. Then a few days ago he was talking about something that happened at work that night (I have a photographic memory BTW) so I remebered. Then he mentioned "yeah me ad M went out for a beer" . I called him out on it, and he claims that he knows I'm sensitive about her which is why he didn't tell me, which is BS because I don't make a big deal about it when he mentions her.
Does that clarify? LOL
I can see both sides. Do you normay have to keep tabs on him like that or tbis was a rare occurance? I don't get the vibe he's willing to cheat at all, just typical relationship stuff. IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
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posted October 09, 2016 09:25 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I can see both sides. Do you normay have to keep tabs on him like that or tbis was a rare occurance? I don't get the vibe he's willing to cheat at all, just typical relationship stuff.
No, I never kept tabs on him. But lately I feel something is "off". It started around June. Am I just being paranoid? I've not really been like this before. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 10, 2016 09:33 AM
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Originally posted by DreamCatcher:
No, I never kept tabs on him. But lately I feel something is "off". It started around June. Am I just being paranoid? I've not really been like this before.
Right now, yes, but that's going strictly off my gut feeling. You know your boyfriend more obv. Consider this strike 1 and move forward. 😊 IP: Logged |
DreamCatcher
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posted October 10, 2016 12:34 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Right now, yes, but that's going strictly off my gut feeling. You know your boyfriend more obv. Consider this strike 1 and move forward. 😊
Got it ! And thank you for your input IP: Logged |
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