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Topic: Did my friend cheat with my bf from years ago?
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Bluebelle Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted January 10, 2017 01:45 PM
Ok, so i was with my first love years ago and was with my best-friend at that time all the time. I was in my early 20s then and a lot more naive, and it later transpired that my bf would cheat on me. At the same time, my best-friend also started a rship with her sisters fiancé, they're still together to this day. Her partner mentioned to me a few years ago that my bf would sneak down to her flat, she stayed just below me. I already kinda thought something probably happened between my friend and bf but never mentioned it - until a couple weeks ago! She denied it and acted offended which left me confused about whether I should feel guilty for accusing her, so I decided to ask horary tonight because I haven't spoke to her since! IP: Logged |
Radium Knowflake Posts: 298 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted January 10, 2017 03:22 PM
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Bluebelle Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted January 10, 2017 04:00 PM
Is that from the chart..? IP: Logged |
Bluebelle Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted January 11, 2017 05:41 AM
Is my friend Mercury and my ex-bf Saturn? If so, then they have, the chart screams it.IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat unregistered
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posted January 11, 2017 05:58 AM
Mmmh...Saturn and Mercury are in a mutable sign and succedent. That would relate to months on the one hand, but it was a 5th house matter. 7 units Is your question related to 7 years or 7 months?
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Bluebelle Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted January 11, 2017 12:28 PM
It was about 7 years ago my ex and I would have split up,I just counted! IIP: Logged |
GeminiKarat unregistered
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posted January 12, 2017 05:27 AM
Thank you very much for the feedback! It helps to improve my skills.I am sorry for the hurt.  IP: Logged |
Bluebelle Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted January 12, 2017 12:59 PM
Well it was a q related to 7 years ago but are you saying something did happen between them, going off the cart?IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat unregistered
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posted January 13, 2017 04:55 AM
Yes, that is what the chart is showing. Although in real life that does not help to make your friend tell the truth.IP: Logged |
Bluebelle Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted January 13, 2017 09:21 PM
That's what I thought it did too although I was confused by Mercury being retrograde so does that mean they never actually did anything?IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat unregistered
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posted January 16, 2017 05:53 AM
I do not see Mercury retrograde in this chart.29 degree is not a good position for a planet as it makes no aspect any more and can indicate quarrels, crisis. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000652.html
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Bluebelle Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted January 17, 2017 01:21 AM
Mercury was going backwards so the last sign it was in was Capricorn, so it's last aspect was with Venus.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 78152 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 26, 2017 03:26 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
SunAscendant Knowflake Posts: 1715 From: California Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 27, 2017 02:20 AM
Let me play the devil's advocate for a second and say that your friend being at 29 degrees could mean she was in a vulnerable and tough place at the time and didn't mean to be a backstabbing b*tch, but still, she should not have done that.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 78152 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2017 01:29 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 78152 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 29, 2017 05:11 PM
It could have happened.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 78152 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 04, 2017 09:43 AM
Did you ever find out?IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2 Knowflake Posts: 175 From: Registered: Apr 2014
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posted April 13, 2017 03:15 PM
Thia poat made me sad and angry.. If I got it right.. your best friend is in a relationship with her sister's fiance.. That should be enough for you to understand that she can not be a trusting friend.. If she did something like this (which is one of the worst ways to hurt someone) to her sister then I do not want to imagine what she is capable of doing to someone like you that is not even family.. Someone told you that your boyfriend was sneaking in her appartment.. what do you really think he was doing in there?? Like honestly.. I am sorry if I got something wrong.. and also sorry for actually not helping at all.. but please be carefull of the people you trust.. IP: Logged |
Bluebelle Knowflake Posts: 100 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted April 15, 2017 01:53 PM
Hi I just saw the replies now. I'm not condoning what my friend did and i stopped speaking to her for about six years because of that. We got in touch eventually and have met up a few times over the years, shes still together with ex sisters ex fiancee and they have a daughter together, and her sister had a son with the same man before, so my friends daughters brother, is also her cousin? Her sister is married now and they are talking, i dont know about family arguments because even back when they first got together, she said her sister said she knew and she thought theyy were better suited. Personally, I am much more monogamous and traditional. My friends relationship with this man has been tumultuous with cheating on both sides, including men on his side too, but they are still together!That is what made me distance myself over the years again because of all the drama. But we have known each other for years and I miss the familiriaty of a close friend youve known foor years and years only has...To update, we have arranged to meet a few times and ive cancelled. At one point I was almost apologetic about accussing her but i just always cancelled and I sent her a message a few weeks ago and she hasnt replied, which isnt like her. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 78152 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 15, 2017 04:18 PM
Thanks for the update.IP: Logged |