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Topic: What does the future hold for me and Harry?
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Bluebelle
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posted February 26, 2017 06:02 PM
  
Hi guys  I went on a date last night with a guy I knew from a few years back and it went well and we are going to see each other again next weekend. He is a nice guy but there are some red-flags which concern me, which I will outline here:
1) he has been single for a few months after his gf of ten years broke up with him. He had recently bought a house for them and he's now living alone in a 3 bedroom house made for a family. He admits he introduced her to the party scene and she went off the rails and met someone else, he blames himself. It's all very sad. But this is obviously means he still has feelings for her.
2) he told me he is thinking about moving to Australia in May and if he decides to go,I will be heart-broken.
3) I've been going through a hard time during my SR and can't really afford any drama that will cause me further stress. I have a difficult chart with lots of squares and a sensitive Venus in Pisces 6th square Uranus in Sagittarius 3rd....so these red-flags are dangerously exciting to me, yet I'm being cautious, hence this horary.I undertstand the Ascendant is too early to tell but I've heard you can still gauge a story from the chart and that no chart is invalid. Here is the chart: 
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Tofu addict
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posted February 27, 2017 12:42 PM
I won't hope for too much, take note of what he says, often people tell the truth in the beginning, if we like it or not.
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Bluebelle
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posted February 27, 2017 07:26 PM
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Originally posted by Tofu addict:
I won't hope for too much, take note of what he says, often people tell the truth in the beginning, if we like it or not.
Yeah I ageee people usually tell the truth in the beginning. Does the chart say he isn't that interested? IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted February 28, 2017 01:05 AM
I don't think it is clear to him what he is feeling, his significator in his 12th house.IP: Logged |
Bluebelle
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posted February 28, 2017 04:38 AM
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Originally posted by Tofu addict:
I don't think it is clear to him what he is feeling, his significator in his 12th house.
Yeah it makes sense because he is hurting over his ex partner still but I wanted to see if there was potential it could go anywhere with us but I guess the chart says no. IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted February 28, 2017 12:02 PM
Just have some fun, try not to be serious and aiming at longterm for nowIP: Logged |
AutumnNight
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posted March 01, 2017 03:32 PM
Actually his significator is in 6th... if we are using 7th.... Venus in 6th in detriment... definitely shows his down mood.Mars is represent by you and you are in 6th... but Mars is moving faster than Venus.. and Venus will go stationary soon and go reverse. I don't think he's the one for you right at this moment. Being with someone for 10 years is like a marriage...that's a huge chunk of time to be with someone. IP: Logged |
Bluebelle
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posted March 01, 2017 05:07 PM
He's definitely acting very keen. I think he just wants to be with someone again and me and him had a brief thug a few years back. Is it worth seeing what happens? Him going retrograde is worrying if it means he is going to lose interest anyway. He is thinking of moving to Australia in May. But he's definitely the more keen one right now.IP: Logged |
Bluebelle
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posted March 01, 2017 05:10 PM
He's definitely acting very keen. I think he just wants to be with someone again and me and him had a brief thing a few years back. Is it worth seeing what happens? Him going retrograde is worrying if it means he is going to lose interest anyway. He is thinking of moving to Australia in May. But he's definitely the more keen one right now. He's messaging me everyday and can't wait to see me on Friday etc. He's keen to jump straight to the bedroom but he told me he was already seeing someone so he liked me enough to seek me out after all these years..?IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted March 02, 2017 01:20 AM
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Originally posted by AutumnNight:
Actually his significator is in 6th... if we are using 7th.... Venus in 6th in detriment... definitely shows his down mood.Mars is represent by you and you are in 6th... but Mars is moving faster than Venus.. and Venus will go stationary soon and go reverse. I don't think he's the one for you right at this moment. Being with someone for 10 years is like a marriage...that's a huge chunk of time to be with someone.
His significator is in his 12th house, as you turn the houses so the 7th house becomes his first house, Venus is in HER 6th, but not HIS
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AutumnNight
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posted March 03, 2017 02:30 PM
12th is still not a good house.. it rules phobia and fears that limits us. The house of undoing. Anyway that is my opinion and I posted my opinion of the chart. IP: Logged |
AutumnNight
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posted March 03, 2017 02:35 PM
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Originally posted by Bluebelle:
He's definitely acting very keen. I think he just wants to be with someone again and me and him had a brief thing a few years back. Is it worth seeing what happens? Him going retrograde is worrying if it means he is going to lose interest anyway. He is thinking of moving to Australia in May. But he's definitely the more keen one right now. He's messaging me everyday and can't wait to see me on Friday etc. He's keen to jump straight to the bedroom but he told me he was already seeing someone so he liked me enough to seek me out after all these years..?
I would say if you feel like pursuing it and seeing where it goes that is the best plan. It's great he was honest with you about his past and feelings that shows a level of respect there. Go on a few more dates with him and see where it goes. But, I wouldn't start anything when his planet is heading toward retrograde. Venus will be out of aries fully beginning of june. But venus aries can make someone very quick acting and wanting to go very fast/quick in a relationship. (doesn't always mean that). So i think with his planet characterized in this sign... I think you should take your time with him because he might be too quick to act. However you look at it... him in 12th from self or 6th from you... it's a sign to me to take it slow with him. IP: Logged |
Bluebelle
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posted March 08, 2017 06:29 PM
Thank you AutumnNight. I read your message last night and it helped clarify things enough in my mind to talk to him a little about it and he was fine with taking things slow. I just got back from my second date tonight and we ended up sleeping together. Afterwards though he said and acted insecure but it's made me feel paranoid, and also because it says Venus Retrograde and I'm aware I still need to take things slow. Although we will probably have sex again now so I hope I haven't put the nail in my own coffin here. I've made a horary asking why he felt insecure and what's going on but will it be valid because it's so soon after this one? I'm not sure because the situation has changed slightly. If it is too soon to post another one then ignore the below horary but I've posted it in case it's ok.  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 09, 2017 03:39 PM
Good observations. I hope things progress well. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 10, 2017 02:07 PM
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