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posted September 03, 2018 10:04 AM            

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So, I have feelings for this guy, we have known each other for more than a year. An artist..Serious looking yet unpredictable, looks hurt or in deep thought most of the time, poses as a loner but I have figured he loves company but his ego is way too big to allow him to beg for any sort of companionship, kind of a liar, head in the clouds but not reckless, stubborn as f***, selfish as f***... Jealous and possibly controlling but doesn't want you to restrict him ,ever. . Classic bs tbh. Unfortunately we are quite similar...
I had figured out that he was really into me as well, but his behavior was, for a better word, erratic. Like, too much. We have hung out a few times, talked a lot, he's spilled a lot of stuff to me even though he is quite the secretive guy (one particularly touchy subject is his parents..he really does not wanna talk about them,divorced by the looks of it). I have tried to bring him closer but he would eff it up. After a long, heated convo that took place in mid-July cuz I wanted to make things straight, we have stopped talking. At one point, he "waved" at me on messenger..at 6.45 in the morning! But I ignored it. Ever since, we just don't talk. We have pulled this "if you don't want me in your life in some way, we can erase each other altogether" bs. We can both be dogmatic in our thinking, even though I ens up having second thoughts over everything. My question is, is it over between us? Our connection, us talking...

Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease it is truly important to me...

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posted September 04, 2018 11:12 AM            

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Hope it works out.

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posted September 05, 2018 01:18 AM            

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Not what I see from this chart - him into you I mean and I don't see that you two were in a relationship to begin with for it to be over.

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posted September 05, 2018 08:31 AM            

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An erotic relationship, nope cuz we didn't make it up to that point... I meant our suggestive contact... Our connection..

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posted September 06, 2018 06:22 AM            

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No I meant a relationship.

You want something concrete and he doesn't want to be tied down.

I'd say he is perhaps talking with someone else signified by venus in close proximity to spica someone who is quite successful in the world of arts or such things. And also entertaining relations with other people too.

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posted September 06, 2018 07:45 AM            

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I am not sure you understand what I am asking. I am almost certain he is talking to other chicks, cuz he wants to f*ck, but that is not what I wanna know.
PS. Wanting to spend time with someone does not mean "tying him down"

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posted September 06, 2018 12:36 PM            

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I know it doesn't choc. Was reading your horary chart.

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posted September 06, 2018 04:42 PM            

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The question was "are we done talking to each other".
I do know he has feelings for me.

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